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Life Advice for Youngs: go to the funerals you don't want to attend

Everyone goes to the funerals of close friends and family. A...
glassy aphrodisiac gas station voyeur
  12/25/21
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Laughsome jet-lagged address alpha
  12/26/21
very valuable post
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  12/25/21
180 advice. It really is good for your mind too, instant pe...
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I remember all of the random people that showed up to my dad...
Crawly adulterous pit macaca
  12/25/21
Is it a good way to score pussy?
Galvanic black depressive
  12/25/21
Make sure to bring business cards, brother.
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Dashing set
  12/25/21
I'll definitely be at the funeral I most want to attend.
Comical ultramarine laser beams
  12/25/21
same
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Juan Eighty
  11/25/25
Important OP
Cream sadistic temple
  12/25/21
Easily the best advice on xoxohth in over a year.
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  12/25/21
(Will Ferrell in wedding crashers)
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navy menage brethren
  12/25/21
Excellent advice from one of my favorite monikers.
mischievous sticky dilemma
  12/25/21
Make sure you ask for a copy of the death certificate to get...
bright whorehouse
  12/25/21
OP is correct. ty OP, and Merry Christmas
Dark greedy senate
  12/25/21
My grandfather died at 74. Church was packed. My great grand...
Disrespectful Library
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Provocative masturbator
  12/26/21
live fast die young
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  02/22/23
theres an extreme immaturity to people who avoid funerals. i...
naked skinny woman
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rambunctious antidepressant drug cuckold
  12/26/21
very good advice here. i have been making an effort to atten...
Laughsome jet-lagged address alpha
  12/26/21
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sepia gaming laptop
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glassy aphrodisiac gas station voyeur
  01/15/22
this thread has inspired me to do this multiple times. Best ...
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sepia gaming laptop
  07/15/22
(junior soprano)
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glassy aphrodisiac gas station voyeur
  02/22/23
I only went to 1/4 of my grandparents funerals. 1 was becaus...
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Brindle locus
  03/14/23
Absolutely credited.
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Mike Yanagita
  11/25/25
should you go to your ex-wife's mother's funeral?
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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:05 AM
Author: glassy aphrodisiac gas station voyeur

Everyone goes to the funerals of close friends and family. As you get older, there will be so many occasions where someone who you aren't close to passes away: a former co-worker who you have lost touch with, the younger brother of a friend from high school who you barely remember, or the dad of a college roommate you haven't seen since graduation. Go to all of these visitations if you can. It's good for the family and it's good for you. I have seen decades-old grudges dissolved in 30 seconds by this gesture. People are at their weakest when a loved one dies and the gratitude they feel when people take the time to pay their respects will last for the rest of their lives. My mom and dad are both gone and I can recall every single person who took the time to show up and pay their respects. It's powerful.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#43672622)



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:22 PM
Author: Laughsome jet-lagged address alpha



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:11 AM
Author: high-end native

very valuable post

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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:13 AM
Author: vibrant gold rehab

180 advice. It really is good for your mind too, instant perspective.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#43672650)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:59 AM
Author: glassy aphrodisiac gas station voyeur



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:57 AM
Author: Crawly adulterous pit macaca

I remember all of the random people that showed up to my dad’s funeral and the one-off stories they shared with me about how they knew him. One old lady had a flat tire in the bank parking lot and he changed it for her. Small town America. She would see him at the store or pharmacy for years and thank him.

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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:29 AM
Author: Galvanic black depressive

Is it a good way to score pussy?

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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:36 AM
Author: Khaki Stead

Make sure to bring business cards, brother.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#43672728)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:33 AM
Author: Comical ultramarine laser beams



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:36 AM
Author: zippy bawdyhouse lettuce



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:38 AM
Author: odious fortuitous meteor



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:52 PM
Author: transparent shrine



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:41 AM
Author: effete hairless state hominid



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:42 AM
Author: copper twisted preventive strike school



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:49 AM
Author: Dashing set



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:32 AM
Author: Comical ultramarine laser beams

I'll definitely be at the funeral I most want to attend.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#43673175)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:35 AM
Author: Violent Rough-skinned Mental Disorder Principal's Office

same

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Date: December 25th, 2021 1:40 PM
Author: Slap-happy Abnormal Site



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:23 PM
Author: Provocative masturbator



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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:54 PM
Author: Juan Eighty



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:38 AM
Author: Cream sadistic temple

Important OP

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#43673216)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:55 AM
Author: Crawly adulterous pit macaca

Easily the best advice on xoxohth in over a year.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#43673312)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:58 AM
Author: Bearded psychic electric furnace

(Will Ferrell in wedding crashers)

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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:58 AM
Author: navy menage brethren



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Date: December 25th, 2021 1:33 PM
Author: mischievous sticky dilemma

Excellent advice from one of my favorite monikers.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#43673709)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 1:36 PM
Author: bright whorehouse

Make sure you ask for a copy of the death certificate to get a discount/tax write off on your travel

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#43673721)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 2:10 PM
Author: Dark greedy senate

OP is correct.

ty OP, and Merry Christmas

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#43673924)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 2:32 PM
Author: Disrespectful Library

My grandfather died at 74. Church was packed. My great grandfather died at 94. Church was barren.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#43674038)



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:24 PM
Author: Provocative masturbator



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#43680647)



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Date: February 22nd, 2023 9:52 AM
Author: talented lilac university

live fast

die young

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#45965902)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 2:34 PM
Author: naked skinny woman

theres an extreme immaturity to people who avoid funerals. its basically boomer level selfishness.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#43674045)



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:19 PM
Author: rambunctious antidepressant drug cuckold



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:21 PM
Author: Laughsome jet-lagged address alpha

very good advice here. i have been making an effort to attend more funerals of acquaintances after a personal experience made me realize how much it can mean to those close to the deceased.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#43680638)



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Date: July 15th, 2022 6:32 PM
Author: sepia gaming laptop



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#44857679)



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Date: January 15th, 2022 4:44 PM
Author: glassy aphrodisiac gas station voyeur



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:51 PM
Author: rambunctious antidepressant drug cuckold

this thread has inspired me to do this multiple times. Best experience was nervously attending the funeral of dude's dad who I had beef with after high school and hadn't spoken to in forever (the kid not the dad). Anyways, the gratitude you could see on that guy's face when I showed up was something I'll remember for the rest of my life.

Thanks to the immortal Yanagita for making this thread. This is something a younger person simply cannot understand on their own.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#44856920)



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:52 PM
Author: sepia gaming laptop



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#44856925)



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:54 PM
Author: tripping blood rage wagecucks

(junior soprano)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#44856935)



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Date: February 22nd, 2023 9:44 AM
Author: glassy aphrodisiac gas station voyeur



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Date: February 22nd, 2023 9:47 AM
Author: Concupiscible ape

I only went to 1/4 of my grandparents funerals. 1 was because he predeceased my birth so it wasn’t possible, but the other 2 I was in law school states away.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#45965887)



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Date: March 14th, 2023 6:57 PM
Author: Histrionic jade dog poop



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Date: March 14th, 2023 6:59 PM
Author: Brindle locus



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Date: March 14th, 2023 7:24 PM
Author: glittery stag film black woman

Absolutely credited.

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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:36 PM
Author: Mike Yanagita



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#49460858)



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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:53 PM
Author: whimsy the cat

should you go to your ex-wife's mother's funeral?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#49460900)



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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:57 PM
Author: ruinous phenotype



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