Date: October 1st, 2014 8:40 PM
Author: amber business firm weed whacker
for a guy, poor appearance is a handicap, but it isn't accepted as your only value by basically everyone no matter who you are, what you do, etc.
have a pretty a+ friend- great personality, sharp, supportive, funny, good person deep down, great income and life balance- who i'd totally date if she weren't 20 lbs overweight and unfortunate looking. just not attracted.
she's 30 and hasn't had anything going on in at least a couple years. so sad. quasimodo would get more play than a normal, unattractive woman.
i mean, i'm part of it. but when i step back a little, it does totally suck.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2689511&forum_id=2#26439102)