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This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died,...
Apoplectic Step-uncle's House
  01/21/18
Female law partner? LJL
Floppy Drunken Field
  01/21/18
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exhilarant at-the-ready heaven
  01/21/18
was she hot?
glittery rehab
  01/21/18
I thought so, she always looked like this one particular mov...
Apoplectic Step-uncle's House
  01/21/18
clearly the daughter.
glittery rehab
  01/21/18
haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess...
Apoplectic Step-uncle's House
  01/21/18
of course.
glittery rehab
  01/21/18
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Floppy Drunken Field
  01/21/18
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Flesh institution
  01/21/18
Lol
Idiotic really tough guy space
  01/21/18
PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condol...
excitant library
  01/21/18
cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?
Apoplectic Step-uncle's House
  01/21/18
the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals ...
glittery rehab
  01/21/18
yes, yes, this is very helpful..
Apoplectic Step-uncle's House
  01/21/18
just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank."...
olive costumed stage pocket flask
  01/21/18
lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly ...
Apoplectic Step-uncle's House
  01/21/18
can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the...
olive costumed stage pocket flask
  01/21/18
she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was sn...
Apoplectic Step-uncle's House
  01/21/18
lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in tou...
olive costumed stage pocket flask
  01/21/18
a year & couple of months.
Apoplectic Step-uncle's House
  01/21/18
i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or ...
olive costumed stage pocket flask
  01/21/18
Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms a...
Apoplectic Step-uncle's House
  01/21/18
CR
Floppy Drunken Field
  01/21/18
lololol
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  01/21/18
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  01/21/18
your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink someti...
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  01/21/18
Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this,...
Apoplectic Step-uncle's House
  01/21/18
lol
glittery rehab
  01/21/18
i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions li...
titillating masturbator coldplay fan
  01/21/18
Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuine...
spectacular senate reading party
  01/21/18
I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't ...
Apoplectic Step-uncle's House
  01/21/18
how did she die/
glittery rehab
  01/21/18
Something weird where an important function just stopped wor...
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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: Apoplectic Step-uncle's House

This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died, should I send her condolences even though it would be obvious I was googling her to find her and happened to see the obit? I never knew the daughter, actually I worked for this lawyer so long ago she had the kid after we parted ways.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200860)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: Floppy Drunken Field

Female law partner? LJL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201035)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:00 PM
Author: exhilarant at-the-ready heaven



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204585)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: glittery rehab

was she hot?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200866)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: Apoplectic Step-uncle's House

I thought so, she always looked like this one particular movie star I thought. But do you mean the daughter? Yes, pictures of her show that she was pretty good looking.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200872)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: glittery rehab

clearly the daughter.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200874)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Apoplectic Step-uncle's House

haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess it depends what age you're looking for. The mother would be older now of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200879)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: glittery rehab

of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200881)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: Floppy Drunken Field



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201037)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:33 PM
Author: Flesh institution



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204404)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:57 PM
Author: Idiotic really tough guy space

Lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204566)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: excitant library

PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condolences in these situations

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200882)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:12 AM
Author: Apoplectic Step-uncle's House

cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200891)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: glittery rehab

the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals and deathbeds.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200901)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:16 AM
Author: Apoplectic Step-uncle's House

yes, yes, this is very helpful..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200910)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: olive costumed stage pocket flask

just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank." work email

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200900)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:15 AM
Author: Apoplectic Step-uncle's House

lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly what its going to say or how I'm going to send it. She's retired I think - and I only have what I think is her facebook address.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200907)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:23 AM
Author: olive costumed stage pocket flask

can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the visitation to express condolences in person?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200961)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:28 AM
Author: Apoplectic Step-uncle's House

she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was snooping.

I found her email address. Is that too impersonal?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200990)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:29 AM
Author: olive costumed stage pocket flask

lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in touch, no need to bring up a death from years ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200994)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:30 AM
Author: Apoplectic Step-uncle's House

a year & couple of months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201003)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:34 AM
Author: olive costumed stage pocket flask

i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or email from an ex-coworker I haven't spoken to in years expressing condolences for a loved on who died over a year ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201019)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: Apoplectic Step-uncle's House

Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms anyway.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201040)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: Floppy Drunken Field

CR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201042)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:52 AM
Author: sickened indigo location

lololol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201239)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:55 PM
Author: avocado adulterous mediation



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204548)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:46 AM
Author: titillating masturbator coldplay fan

your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink sometime.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201209)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:31 PM
Author: Apoplectic Step-uncle's House

Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this, if you didn't realize I was talking about a her, not a him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204395)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:37 PM
Author: glittery rehab

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204434)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:53 PM
Author: titillating masturbator coldplay fan

i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions like this probably did take orders from a woman partner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204536)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:36 PM
Author: spectacular senate reading party

Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuinely cared for her in some way. She might be surprisingly touched. Just be a normal human being about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204423)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:41 PM
Author: Apoplectic Step-uncle's House

I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't think anyone deserves that. But I'm not sure how weird it would be to send the note because we didn't part on the best of terms. I probably won't do it if I'm not even sure about my own motivations..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204460)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:01 PM
Author: glittery rehab

how did she die/

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204598)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 7:44 PM
Author: Apoplectic Step-uncle's House

Something weird where an important function just stopped working. I don't know if it was brought on by self-abuse (it can be). But it's so true that you can have all the money & prestige in the world but you can't always buy a restart to your body. Makes me squeamish.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35205513)