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This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died,...
iridescent associate
  01/21/18
Female law partner? LJL
Glittery jet trailer park
  01/21/18
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Aqua Sticky Piazza Dysfunction
  01/21/18
was she hot?
Hairraiser bistre hospital community account
  01/21/18
I thought so, she always looked like this one particular mov...
iridescent associate
  01/21/18
clearly the daughter.
Hairraiser bistre hospital community account
  01/21/18
haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess...
iridescent associate
  01/21/18
of course.
Hairraiser bistre hospital community account
  01/21/18
...
Glittery jet trailer park
  01/21/18
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Vigorous Gay Wizard Range
  01/21/18
Lol
Vivacious Useless Box Office Yarmulke
  01/21/18
PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condol...
Flushed cumskin
  01/21/18
cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?
iridescent associate
  01/21/18
the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals ...
Hairraiser bistre hospital community account
  01/21/18
yes, yes, this is very helpful..
iridescent associate
  01/21/18
just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank."...
histrionic light crackhouse puppy
  01/21/18
lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly ...
iridescent associate
  01/21/18
can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the...
histrionic light crackhouse puppy
  01/21/18
she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was sn...
iridescent associate
  01/21/18
lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in tou...
histrionic light crackhouse puppy
  01/21/18
a year & couple of months.
iridescent associate
  01/21/18
i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or ...
histrionic light crackhouse puppy
  01/21/18
Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms a...
iridescent associate
  01/21/18
CR
Glittery jet trailer park
  01/21/18
lololol
Brindle multi-billionaire
  01/21/18
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razzle liquid oxygen
  01/21/18
your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink someti...
Floppy Ebony Location Old Irish Cottage
  01/21/18
Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this,...
iridescent associate
  01/21/18
lol
Hairraiser bistre hospital community account
  01/21/18
i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions li...
Floppy Ebony Location Old Irish Cottage
  01/21/18
Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuine...
hyperventilating genital piercing water buffalo
  01/21/18
I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't ...
iridescent associate
  01/21/18
how did she die/
Hairraiser bistre hospital community account
  01/21/18
Something weird where an important function just stopped wor...
iridescent associate
  01/21/18


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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: iridescent associate

This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died, should I send her condolences even though it would be obvious I was googling her to find her and happened to see the obit? I never knew the daughter, actually I worked for this lawyer so long ago she had the kid after we parted ways.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200860)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: Glittery jet trailer park

Female law partner? LJL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201035)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:00 PM
Author: Aqua Sticky Piazza Dysfunction



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204585)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: Hairraiser bistre hospital community account

was she hot?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200866)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: iridescent associate

I thought so, she always looked like this one particular movie star I thought. But do you mean the daughter? Yes, pictures of her show that she was pretty good looking.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200872)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: Hairraiser bistre hospital community account

clearly the daughter.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200874)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: iridescent associate

haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess it depends what age you're looking for. The mother would be older now of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200879)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Hairraiser bistre hospital community account

of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200881)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: Glittery jet trailer park



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201037)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:33 PM
Author: Vigorous Gay Wizard Range



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204404)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:57 PM
Author: Vivacious Useless Box Office Yarmulke

Lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204566)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Flushed cumskin

PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condolences in these situations

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200882)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:12 AM
Author: iridescent associate

cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200891)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: Hairraiser bistre hospital community account

the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals and deathbeds.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200901)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:16 AM
Author: iridescent associate

yes, yes, this is very helpful..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200910)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: histrionic light crackhouse puppy

just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank." work email

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200900)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:15 AM
Author: iridescent associate

lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly what its going to say or how I'm going to send it. She's retired I think - and I only have what I think is her facebook address.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200907)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:23 AM
Author: histrionic light crackhouse puppy

can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the visitation to express condolences in person?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200961)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:28 AM
Author: iridescent associate

she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was snooping.

I found her email address. Is that too impersonal?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200990)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:29 AM
Author: histrionic light crackhouse puppy

lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in touch, no need to bring up a death from years ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200994)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:30 AM
Author: iridescent associate

a year & couple of months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201003)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:34 AM
Author: histrionic light crackhouse puppy

i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or email from an ex-coworker I haven't spoken to in years expressing condolences for a loved on who died over a year ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201019)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: iridescent associate

Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms anyway.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201040)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: Glittery jet trailer park

CR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201042)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:52 AM
Author: Brindle multi-billionaire

lololol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201239)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:55 PM
Author: razzle liquid oxygen



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204548)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:46 AM
Author: Floppy Ebony Location Old Irish Cottage

your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink sometime.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201209)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:31 PM
Author: iridescent associate

Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this, if you didn't realize I was talking about a her, not a him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204395)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:37 PM
Author: Hairraiser bistre hospital community account

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204434)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:53 PM
Author: Floppy Ebony Location Old Irish Cottage

i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions like this probably did take orders from a woman partner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204536)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:36 PM
Author: hyperventilating genital piercing water buffalo

Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuinely cared for her in some way. She might be surprisingly touched. Just be a normal human being about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204423)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:41 PM
Author: iridescent associate

I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't think anyone deserves that. But I'm not sure how weird it would be to send the note because we didn't part on the best of terms. I probably won't do it if I'm not even sure about my own motivations..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204460)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:01 PM
Author: Hairraiser bistre hospital community account

how did she die/

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204598)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 7:44 PM
Author: iridescent associate

Something weird where an important function just stopped working. I don't know if it was brought on by self-abuse (it can be). But it's so true that you can have all the money & prestige in the world but you can't always buy a restart to your body. Makes me squeamish.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35205513)