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This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died,...
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Female law partner? LJL
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was she hot?
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I thought so, she always looked like this one particular mov...
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clearly the daughter.
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haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess...
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of course.
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PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condol...
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cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?
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the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals ...
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yes, yes, this is very helpful..
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just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank."...
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can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the...
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she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was sn...
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lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in tou...
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a year & couple of months.
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i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or ...
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Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms a...
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Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this,...
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i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions li...
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I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't ...
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how did she die/
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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: talking corn cake casino

This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died, should I send her condolences even though it would be obvious I was googling her to find her and happened to see the obit? I never knew the daughter, actually I worked for this lawyer so long ago she had the kid after we parted ways.

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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: Disgusting Crimson Nowag

Female law partner? LJL

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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:00 PM
Author: multi-colored garnet stage



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: white philosopher-king faggot firefighter

was she hot?

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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: talking corn cake casino

I thought so, she always looked like this one particular movie star I thought. But do you mean the daughter? Yes, pictures of her show that she was pretty good looking.

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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: white philosopher-king faggot firefighter

clearly the daughter.

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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: talking corn cake casino

haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess it depends what age you're looking for. The mother would be older now of course.

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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: white philosopher-king faggot firefighter

of course.

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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: Disgusting Crimson Nowag



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:33 PM
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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:57 PM
Author: Bisexual grizzly university

Lol

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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Sickened Boyish Hissy Fit

PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condolences in these situations

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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:12 AM
Author: talking corn cake casino

cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?

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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: white philosopher-king faggot firefighter

the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals and deathbeds.

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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:16 AM
Author: talking corn cake casino

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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: Angry Aqua Pit Cumskin

just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank." work email

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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:15 AM
Author: talking corn cake casino

lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly what its going to say or how I'm going to send it. She's retired I think - and I only have what I think is her facebook address.

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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:23 AM
Author: Angry Aqua Pit Cumskin

can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the visitation to express condolences in person?

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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:28 AM
Author: talking corn cake casino

she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was snooping.

I found her email address. Is that too impersonal?

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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:29 AM
Author: Angry Aqua Pit Cumskin

lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in touch, no need to bring up a death from years ago.

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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:30 AM
Author: talking corn cake casino

a year & couple of months.

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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:34 AM
Author: Angry Aqua Pit Cumskin

i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or email from an ex-coworker I haven't spoken to in years expressing condolences for a loved on who died over a year ago.

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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: talking corn cake casino

Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms anyway.

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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: Disgusting Crimson Nowag

CR

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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:52 AM
Author: idiotic smoky fortuitous meteor

lololol

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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:55 PM
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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:46 AM
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your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink sometime.



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:31 PM
Author: talking corn cake casino

Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this, if you didn't realize I was talking about a her, not a him.

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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:37 PM
Author: white philosopher-king faggot firefighter

lol

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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:53 PM
Author: Vigorous chartreuse shrine hairy legs

i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions like this probably did take orders from a woman partner



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:36 PM
Author: Canary exciting office

Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuinely cared for her in some way. She might be surprisingly touched. Just be a normal human being about it.

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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:41 PM
Author: talking corn cake casino

I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't think anyone deserves that. But I'm not sure how weird it would be to send the note because we didn't part on the best of terms. I probably won't do it if I'm not even sure about my own motivations..

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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:01 PM
Author: white philosopher-king faggot firefighter

how did she die/

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Date: January 21st, 2018 7:44 PM
Author: talking corn cake casino

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