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razzmatazz honey-headed factory reset button
  02/24/18
luis is one
Mauve racy forum sandwich
  02/24/18
cr
topaz marvelous hall
  02/24/18
Sup
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  02/24/18
Too busy with loving kids to have time for this shitboart
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  02/24/18
This seems pretty much accurate. I spent far less time on th...
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Agreed - I occasionally troll on my pumo alt, but this place...
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  02/25/18
Happily married. Rarely post because there’s rarely anyth...
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  02/25/18
Sup
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  02/24/18
They're not "happily married". They're all miserab...
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We both happily use the internet 10+ hours a day. This is wh...
Nighttime dilemma legend
  02/24/18
I really like it here.
topaz marvelous hall
  02/24/18
Yo. Wife is 180, her family is 160 though.
galvanic pink therapy
  02/24/18
Present, but have no kids.
Massive Lettuce
  02/24/18
Suppose you two go to all the trouble and expense of doing I...
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  02/24/18
Wouldn't the second paragraph be a risk regardless of the fi...
Massive Lettuce
  02/24/18
Yes but the stakes are elevated a bit by your situation. You...
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  02/24/18
It would save a lot of money on his college tuition. I would...
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  02/25/18
You heard straight from Mandy: She and TMF won't give their ...
bistre public bath
  02/25/18
This is truly the only place you can come to get the truth.
opaque striped hyena
  02/25/18
No, its not the gay that takes away their college tuition, i...
bonkers frozen trust fund tanning salon
  02/25/18
What are the odds your gay son is a backwards libertarian li...
bistre public bath
  02/25/18
It's not politics, its loserdom. Shitlib politics are just a...
bonkers frozen trust fund tanning salon
  02/25/18
So you would not withhold funding and support if the kid is ...
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  02/25/18
Wait, you think we care deeply that our kid(s) are popular? ...
Massive Lettuce
  02/25/18
Het+Cis seems pretty happy. Also personally know several oth...
Exciting heaven
  02/24/18
Cr life is pretty good. There are times where u get on each ...
Talented narrow-minded really tough guy
  02/24/18
180 man. Rather sad I will never have this.
Exciting heaven
  02/24/18
Maybe you should hit the gym you fat fuck. And make more mon...
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  02/25/18
Well, I did say I'd never have it for a reason. That said...
Exciting heaven
  02/25/18
Not sure what your problem is, you're way thinner than me. T...
Beady-eyed Bespoke Field Jap
  02/25/18
not even nearly too late man, but you might need to get seri...
bull headed theater place of business
  02/25/18
That's really what I mean, though. I don't think I have the ...
Exciting heaven
  02/25/18
Maybe ask women out.
Beady-eyed Bespoke Field Jap
  02/25/18
Not likely to happen for a mix of rational and irrational re...
Exciting heaven
  02/25/18
You make choices. Making different choices might not be sup...
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  02/25/18
stop being a faggot
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  02/25/18
It's pretty ingrained at this point. I can overcome it for b...
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  02/25/18
i was the same and had given up on this sort of thing by 33 ...
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what's frustrating about hearing you is that there really is...
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  02/25/18
My limited IRL experience suggests this honestly isn't true....
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  02/25/18
there are so many kinds of catholic chicks though. i don't p...
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  02/25/18
It's possible; I'm just citing my personal experience. Back ...
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  02/25/18
You would do well with a librarian type. Start patrolling lo...
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  02/25/18
Cold-approaching chicks in a library sounds like a good way ...
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Find a librarian who's not 80 and just ask her opinion on so...
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LOL at thinking any woman wouldnt instantly vomit from being...
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This guy gets it.
Exciting heaven
  02/25/18
why not just kill yourself and get it over with
orange psychic theater stage
  02/25/18
Being unattractive is hardly a reason to killself friend.
Exciting heaven
  02/25/18
Never say never
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  02/25/18
180
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Sup
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  02/24/18
Here.
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  02/25/18
I'm happily married.
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I'm happily married. She is a 180 wife, 180 mother, and her ...
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What is the point of these threads? People claiming they're ...
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  02/25/18
This place is anonymous. There are plenty of poasters who ta...
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  02/25/18
Reminder: women are much more likely to have a positive view...
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  02/25/18
Reminder: Women are twice as likely to initiate divorce.
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  02/25/18
initiating the divorce and initiating the breakup aren't the...
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  02/25/18
It just means that they feel like they can say they are happ...
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it's basically "which poasters are not currently runnin...
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To balance out the effect of those posters leaving the impre...
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The quality of marriage is directly proportionate to the qua...
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so the only way to be successful is to not be monogamous? ...
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I am. There are trade offs: I live in the exurbs of a major ...
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Happily married. Which was a surprise because I put it off f...
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objective rating of wife when you married her, and what age?...
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  02/25/18
Absolutely. My wife is by far the brightest spot in my life....
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  02/25/18
happily married. no kids though. could see the answer bei...
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  02/25/18
It's much worse after kids (and it's a steady decline downwa...
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  02/25/18
so it gets a lot worse after the second kid? we had a kid...
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  02/25/18
yes. I'm now on kid #4 and new bottoms can be reached.
cerebral dead foreskin
  02/25/18
what changes qualitatively when the second kid is born?
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  02/25/18
Remember how tired and busy and stressed you thought you wer...
brilliant codepig
  02/25/18
What if you have enough money to afford childcare, or a fami...
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  02/25/18
First few months will be a rough adjustment no matter what. ...
brilliant codepig
  02/25/18
that will be a huge help.
cerebral dead foreskin
  02/25/18
most likely your wife will be overwhelmed unless your first ...
cerebral dead foreskin
  02/25/18
One kid has been pretty easy after initial adjustment period...
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  02/25/18
got one kid, another on the way. my marriage is 180
bronze soul-stirring associate casino
  02/25/18
1 to 2 kids is hard but congrats
exhilarant violent area
  02/25/18
thanks man. what makes it challenging?
bronze soul-stirring associate casino
  02/25/18
Sup? This place seems to be filled with butthurt whiners
exhilarant violent area
  02/25/18
Yep, even happier after 1 kid.
emerald painfully honest home
  02/25/18
Not poasting.
Thriller Aqua Garrison
  02/25/18
Yes. Family is absolutely everything in this world.
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  02/25/18
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  02/25/18
my unhappiness is unrelated to my marriage.
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Date: February 24th, 2018 11:15 PM
Author: razzmatazz honey-headed factory reset button



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35481289)



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Date: February 24th, 2018 11:15 PM
Author: Mauve racy forum sandwich

luis is one

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35481292)



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Date: February 24th, 2018 11:17 PM
Author: topaz marvelous hall

cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35481311)



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Date: February 24th, 2018 11:15 PM
Author: spruce know-it-all national

Sup

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35481298)



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Date: February 24th, 2018 11:16 PM
Author: hyperactive brunch gay wizard

Too busy with loving kids to have time for this shitboart

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35481301)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 11:32 AM
Author: Crystalline curious rehab new version

This seems pretty much accurate. I spent far less time on the boart when engaged/married. Now...

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35483058)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 12:05 PM
Author: exhilarant violent area

Agreed - I occasionally troll on my pumo alt, but this place has become dominated by resentment and failure

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35483259)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 1:27 PM
Author: Passionate Silver Keepsake Machete

Happily married.

Rarely post because there’s rarely anything good being discussed and whenever I post a chorus of bitter and angry Furies come out of nowhere regardless of the topic. Why bother?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35483648)



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Date: February 24th, 2018 11:16 PM
Author: Nighttime dilemma legend

Sup

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35481307)



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Date: February 24th, 2018 11:16 PM
Author: flesh market community account

They're not "happily married". They're all miserable. Why do you think they spend more time on Xo (interacting through online messages with maladjusted freaks) than with their significant other and children? They are MISERABLE.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35481308)



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Date: February 24th, 2018 11:17 PM
Author: Nighttime dilemma legend

We both happily use the internet 10+ hours a day. This is what makes a marriage work.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35481314)



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Date: February 24th, 2018 11:18 PM
Author: topaz marvelous hall

I really like it here.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35481318)



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Date: February 24th, 2018 11:17 PM
Author: galvanic pink therapy

Yo. Wife is 180, her family is 160 though.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35481310)



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Date: February 24th, 2018 11:23 PM
Author: Massive Lettuce

Present, but have no kids.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35481358)



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Date: February 24th, 2018 11:29 PM
Author: bistre public bath

Suppose you two go to all the trouble and expense of doing IV on a surrogate with the freezer eggs. That's going to be, what, $50K? I have no idea. But say you do it and you have a happy, healthy son.

In his early teens you realize A) he is gay and effeminate, and B) he is a profoundly shitlib and intends to dedicate his life to a reckless path of 'activism,' living on the margins as he works on behalf of minorities and environmental causes.

What's the game plan if this happens? Drown yourself in cider? Love your gay son without hesitation or resentment? Make a run for it?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35481393)



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Date: February 24th, 2018 11:32 PM
Author: Massive Lettuce

Wouldn't the second paragraph be a risk regardless of the first?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35481401)



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Date: February 24th, 2018 11:36 PM
Author: bistre public bath

Yes but the stakes are elevated a bit by your situation. You guys won't have a brood of 3-4 strapping kids. You're probably all-in on just the one and you had to put more into creating him than most. It's won't be like your third youngest Toby is a little bit of a disappointment to Dad, but Stephen is captain of his soccer team!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35481420)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 2:18 AM
Author: bonkers frozen trust fund tanning salon

It would save a lot of money on his college tuition. I would still pay for some cheap pos in state school (TMF would likely object to even that but I would probably talk him into it) and make him take out loans or get a job to cover living expenses. Loser kids are cheap, you just don't spend any money or resources on them.

Also, generally planing on having two kids at the same time, although we'll see. Statistically, we likely have enough embryos for three kids.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35482013)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 1:15 PM
Author: bistre public bath

You heard straight from Mandy: She and TMF won't give their child the same support and opportunities if he's gay and weird.

Your kids are very likely to be small-statured and not socially inclined. This will arguably hold any of them back much worse than being gay.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35483584)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 1:29 PM
Author: opaque striped hyena

This is truly the only place you can come to get the truth.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35483661)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 1:34 PM
Author: bonkers frozen trust fund tanning salon

No, its not the gay that takes away their college tuition, its the shitlibbery, commitment to social activism and general.loserdom described in the original hypo. If they were gay but driven and competent, we would support them. Being gay is not a choice.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35483695)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 1:38 PM
Author: bistre public bath

What are the odds your gay son is a backwards libertarian like you two?

Also, depriving your kid of opportunities over their juvenile politics is just as fucked up as judging them for being gay.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35483719)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 3:06 PM
Author: bonkers frozen trust fund tanning salon

It's not politics, its loserdom. Shitlib politics are just an excuse not to get things done.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35484260)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 3:08 PM
Author: bistre public bath

So you would not withhold funding and support if the kid is a popular and successful gay shitlib? You're making zero sense. I feel sorry for any hypothetical kid no matter how you ultimately attempt to rationalize whatever you're trying to say.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35484280)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 10:08 PM
Author: Massive Lettuce

Wait, you think we care deeply that our kid(s) are popular?

Ok, do you imagine we would prefer a kid we actually liked but wasn't super popular or a kid we couldn't stand but that was popular in a crowd we hated?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35487618)



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Date: February 24th, 2018 11:41 PM
Author: Exciting heaven

Het+Cis seems pretty happy. Also personally know several other happily married XO bros. Oddly XO is about the only place with people who make me want to get married. IRL is otherwise largely a hellscape.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35481443)



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Date: February 24th, 2018 11:45 PM
Author: Talented narrow-minded really tough guy

Cr life is pretty good. There are times where u get on each other’s nerves, but she’s a 180 wife and 180 mother so you just look past it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35481459)



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Date: February 24th, 2018 11:50 PM
Author: Exciting heaven

180 man. Rather sad I will never have this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35481487)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 1:48 AM
Author: Beady-eyed Bespoke Field Jap

Maybe you should hit the gym you fat fuck. And make more money.

If you were a hot young fertile woman with good characteristics would you marry you?

You can become a DTP, or you can become a NYUUG. That's all there is.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35481921)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 1:57 AM
Author: Exciting heaven

Well, I did say I'd never have it for a reason.

That said I'm 5'10/160 so not really a fat fuck bro.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35481943)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 1:59 AM
Author: Beady-eyed Bespoke Field Jap

Not sure what your problem is, you're way thinner than me. Try some heroic couplets.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35481947)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 1:49 AM
Author: bull headed theater place of business

not even nearly too late man, but you might need to get serious about courtship, and all of the bullshit involved.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35481924)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 2:15 AM
Author: Exciting heaven

That's really what I mean, though. I don't think I have the personality for that sort of thing, and it's probably not going to abruptly develop in my late 20s. I don't even ask women out.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35482005)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 2:16 AM
Author: Beady-eyed Bespoke Field Jap

Maybe ask women out.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35482009)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 2:28 AM
Author: Exciting heaven

Not likely to happen for a mix of rational and irrational reasons. If you can figure out how to make me start doing so regularly, congratulations, you'll have succeeded where dozens of others have failed.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35482052)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 2:41 AM
Author: mind-boggling property depressive

You make choices. Making different choices might not be super easy, but it is within your power.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35482075)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 1:35 PM
Author: fragrant puppy circlehead

stop being a faggot

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35483698)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 1:41 PM
Author: Exciting heaven

It's pretty ingrained at this point. I can overcome it for brief intervals, but always rapidly regress.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35483726)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 2:18 AM
Author: learning disabled brass sanctuary

i was the same and had given up on this sort of thing by 33 when i met my wife

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35482014)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 2:29 AM
Author: bull headed theater place of business

what's frustrating about hearing you is that there really is the sort of woman who likes your sort of personality, but that they're hard to find because they're not on shitlib dating apps. you need to endure moderate discomfort to achieve the greater aim, though, and you'll know when it's working.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35482055)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 2:54 AM
Author: Exciting heaven

My limited IRL experience suggests this honestly isn't true. I don't really hit it off well with Catholic chicks even if I share their worldview, for instance.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35482103)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 2:56 AM
Author: bull headed theater place of business

there are so many kinds of catholic chicks though. i don't personally like opus dei in general, but you might find a woman in that group you end up really liking.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35482109)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 3:17 AM
Author: Exciting heaven

It's possible; I'm just citing my personal experience. Back home, at school, in D.C.; I've been in some pretty different circles and I've never really hit it off with any of them.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35482160)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 10:32 AM
Author: brilliant codepig

You would do well with a librarian type. Start patrolling local and campus libraries.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35482790)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 11:26 AM
Author: Exciting heaven

Cold-approaching chicks in a library sounds like a good way to get banned from the library. I'm not a Chad btw.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35483032)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 11:47 AM
Author: brilliant codepig

Find a librarian who's not 80 and just ask her opinion on some books you're thinking of reading.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35483153)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 1:33 PM
Author: opaque striped hyena



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Date: February 25th, 2018 10:59 AM
Author: orange psychic theater stage

LOL at thinking any woman wouldnt instantly vomit from being "courted" by that bald incel

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35482893)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 11:22 AM
Author: Exciting heaven

This guy gets it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35483018)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 11:29 AM
Author: orange psychic theater stage

why not just kill yourself and get it over with

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35483044)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 11:31 AM
Author: Exciting heaven

Being unattractive is hardly a reason to killself friend.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35483052)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 2:40 AM
Author: mind-boggling property depressive

Never say never

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35482070)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 1:18 AM
Author: topaz marvelous hall

180

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35481864)



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Date: February 24th, 2018 11:41 PM
Author: Talented narrow-minded really tough guy

Sup

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Date: February 24th, 2018 11:53 PM
Author: Sienna vibrant resort volcanic crater

Here.

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Date: February 25th, 2018 2:16 AM
Author: learning disabled brass sanctuary

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Date: February 25th, 2018 2:19 AM
Author: bonkers frozen trust fund tanning salon

I'm happily married.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35482018)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 2:37 AM
Author: mind-boggling property depressive

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Date: February 25th, 2018 2:58 AM
Author: Excitant Voyeur Roommate



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Date: February 25th, 2018 10:26 AM
Author: french stain senate

Hey

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Date: February 25th, 2018 10:27 AM
Author: pontificating toaster dopamine

Sup

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Date: February 25th, 2018 10:32 AM
Author: brilliant codepig

Checking in

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Date: February 25th, 2018 10:34 AM
Author: Misunderstood crackhouse

I'm happily married. She is a 180 wife, 180 mother, and her mom is a 180 grandmother who watches our kid any time we want.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35482797)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 10:34 AM
Author: Insecure cuck school cafeteria

What is the point of these threads? People claiming they're happy != they are happy. I tell my employer that I really like the company, doesn't mean it's true.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35482799)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 10:36 AM
Author: brilliant codepig

This place is anonymous. There are plenty of poasters who talk about their shit marriages. People are more likely to post about something when it's negative or a complaint, so there can seem to be a bias toward everyone having terrible marriages. I think it's good to remind singlemos that there are good marriages out there.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35482805)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 10:39 AM
Author: Odious aquamarine doctorate lay

Reminder: women are much more likely to have a positive view of marriage than men

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35482814)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 11:49 AM
Author: brilliant codepig

Reminder: Women are twice as likely to initiate divorce.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35483165)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 11:51 AM
Author: Glittery bipolar generalized bond

initiating the divorce and initiating the breakup aren't the same thing. It's obviously in women's interest, not men's, to start the legal process.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35483175)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 10:41 AM
Author: Insecure cuck school cafeteria

It just means that they feel like they can say they are happy at this point in time with that particular person. I thought I was content numerous times in life only to learn I was mistaken shortly after. It's like asking a pig if it's happy while it's rolling in shit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35482821)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 10:37 AM
Author: pontificating toaster dopamine

it's basically "which poasters are not currently running I hate my wife schticks"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35482807)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 11:41 AM
Author: Multi-colored Slate House Mad-dog Skullcap

To balance out the effect of those posters leaving the impression that that's how everyone is, I'm happy to be counted.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35483108)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 10:35 AM
Author: Laughsome Kitchen Partner

Sup

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Date: February 25th, 2018 11:11 AM
Author: Sticky bawdyhouse party of the first part

The quality of marriage is directly proportionate to the quality of one's single life, because the skills one needs to handle women outside of marriage are the same as the skills for handling women inside of it. If you learned how to attract and seduce women with relative ease, tired of a life of hedonism and longed to raise strong sons and modest daughters while sating your manly urges with a discreet affair or two, your life is pretty good. If you struggled ineffectually to bring women to your bed and counted on marriage to a broken 30-something to deliver you from your misery, then your life probably sucks.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35482958)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 11:18 AM
Author: Odious aquamarine doctorate lay

so the only way to be successful is to not be monogamous?

and by your measure only chads have good marriages

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35483000)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 11:17 AM
Author: Electric Snowy Faggotry Persian

I am. There are trade offs: I live in the exurbs of a major metro area and it's starting to get to me. At first I liked it, but now I'd much rather be in the city. Impossible with a family though, unles we spend a fortune on private schools.

But overall it's 180. Whenever I see single guys older than 40 they seem like losers.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35482992)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 11:20 AM
Author: Contagious Low-t Chapel Tattoo

Happily married. Which was a surprise because I put it off forever after my parent’s shit marriage set a bad example.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35483008)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 11:21 AM
Author: Odious aquamarine doctorate lay

objective rating of wife when you married her, and what age?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35483013)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 11:23 AM
Author: Glittery bipolar generalized bond

Absolutely. My wife is by far the brightest spot in my life. Unbelievably supportive, loyal, great cook, sexy.

When I read poasters like FPLB ranting about how awful all women are it's like a foreign language.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35483019)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 11:40 AM
Author: shaky menage wrinkle

happily married. no kids though.

could see the answer being different post-kids but too soon to say.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35483099)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 11:59 AM
Author: cerebral dead foreskin

It's much worse after kids (and it's a steady decline downward, sometimes exponentially after the following kid), but still wouldn't change anything.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35483224)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 12:01 PM
Author: bronze soul-stirring associate casino

so it gets a lot worse after the second kid?

we had a kid two years ago and i'm pretty happy. wife is 5 months pregnant. will the second kid really make it a lot worse?

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Date: February 25th, 2018 12:02 PM
Author: cerebral dead foreskin

yes. I'm now on kid #4 and new bottoms can be reached.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35483243)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 12:05 PM
Author: bronze soul-stirring associate casino

what changes qualitatively when the second kid is born?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35483255)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 12:09 PM
Author: brilliant codepig

Remember how tired and busy and stressed you thought you were w babby #1? lmao

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35483273)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 12:12 PM
Author: Odious aquamarine doctorate lay

What if you have enough money to afford childcare, or a family member who can help do everything?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35483293)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 12:15 PM
Author: brilliant codepig

First few months will be a rough adjustment no matter what. Also depends on the spacing. The older/more independent #1 will be, the easier it will be.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35483304)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 12:26 PM
Author: cerebral dead foreskin

that will be a huge help.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35483357)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 12:25 PM
Author: cerebral dead foreskin

most likely your wife will be overwhelmed unless your first kid is already like 5 or 6. so now you got to take care of two kids plus your wife too.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35483353)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 2:13 PM
Author: stirring school

One kid has been pretty easy after initial adjustment period. I’m expecting it to be a lot worse with 2 for a few years before it gets better. Once kids are 5-6, you’re out of the woods until teens. Kids and marriage are long term propositions though so I expect periods of darkness.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35483891)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 12:01 PM
Author: bronze soul-stirring associate casino

got one kid, another on the way. my marriage is 180

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Date: February 25th, 2018 12:06 PM
Author: exhilarant violent area

1 to 2 kids is hard but congrats

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Date: February 25th, 2018 12:08 PM
Author: bronze soul-stirring associate casino

thanks man. what makes it challenging?

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Date: February 25th, 2018 12:04 PM
Author: exhilarant violent area

Sup? This place seems to be filled with butthurt whiners

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35483250)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 1:31 PM
Author: emerald painfully honest home

Yep, even happier after 1 kid.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35483672)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 1:32 PM
Author: Thriller Aqua Garrison

Not poasting.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35483680)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 1:45 PM
Author: diverse temple

Yes. Family is absolutely everything in this world.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35483745)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 1:48 PM
Author: maize whorehouse toilet seat

Hello

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Date: February 25th, 2018 2:16 PM
Author: supple godawful telephone

my unhappiness is unrelated to my marriage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35483901)



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Date: February 25th, 2018 7:31 PM
Author: Fishy spectacular stage

sup

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Date: February 25th, 2018 10:07 PM
Author: hairraiser hunting ground hospital

Yo

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Date: February 25th, 2018 10:10 PM
Author: judgmental parlour chad

I think my marriage is a net positive in my life. Just that I’d be miserable no matter what. Im less miserable married than I would be single at this point, I think.

My decision if who/when to marry is one of the few good decisions I’ve made. Not sure I can say the same for my wife.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3903244&forum_id=2#35487635)



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Date: March 14th, 2018 2:16 AM
Author: Lascivious Fantasy-prone Trailer Park



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