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Would you take care of a child, after divorce, that was not biologically yours?

HYPO: A man marries a woman, spawns 3 children, and the coup...
Coral university
  03/22/18
As a new father, I can’t imagine not loving my daughter, or ...
Mind-boggling buff library dysfunction
  03/22/18
very intellectual
appetizing well-lubricated center sex offender
  03/22/18
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citrine useless brakes mad cow disease
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tan really tough guy ticket booth
  03/22/18
Assume it is 10 years later, and it is the middle child that...
Coral university
  03/22/18
i agree. if I found out my son was not mine, I could never d...
arrogant business firm reading party
  03/22/18
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Insecure party of the first part yarmulke
  03/22/18
cr but how heartbreaking
fiercely-loyal brindle tanning salon
  03/22/18
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bateful roast beef national
  03/22/18
Have you spent some time pondering this hypothetical, brothe...
Vivacious Mediation
  03/22/18
yep
bateful roast beef national
  03/22/18
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Maize corn cake
  03/22/18
toxic thread. i think it would be really hard to cut off a k...
Curious fighting karate clown
  03/22/18
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Mind-boggling buff library dysfunction
  03/22/18
Obviously this would be devastating to the non-biological ch...
Coral university
  03/22/18
anyone who says they'd disown the kid either doesn't have ki...
saffron irate hell
  03/22/18
Should he still pay child support for the child?
Coral university
  03/22/18
Fuck no!
bateful roast beef national
  03/22/18
cr imagine the sociopathy not to kill the kid not even hum...
citrine useless brakes mad cow disease
  03/22/18
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house-broken cordovan home
  03/22/18
that was my first thought. what would we do in nature?
180 Station
  03/22/18
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Salmon razzle casino candlestick maker
  03/22/18
Toxic. 50:50. Either you do or you don't.
bateful roast beef national
  03/22/18
Probably. Men are suckers.
Lavender Nofapping Persian
  03/22/18
ehh, a man is a sucker when he dates a chick with kids and t...
Curious fighting karate clown
  03/22/18
Hypo is actually easy imo since it stipulates man loves kid ...
Lavender Nofapping Persian
  03/22/18
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Insecure party of the first part yarmulke
  03/23/18
Depends how others would judge me if I bailed out, and how h...
aromatic lettuce kitchen
  03/22/18
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Glassy pocket flask
  03/22/18
No, not a chance. But I’m a legit, diagnosed, sociopath and...
Yellow histrionic church boiling water
  03/22/18
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bateful roast beef national
  03/22/18
No fucking way.
tan really tough guy ticket booth
  03/22/18
LJL. Every dad itt went and hugged his child-dood after read...
Amber self-absorbed son of senegal
  03/22/18
why am i marrying a divorcee to begin with
Comical Overrated Rehab Love Of Her Life
  03/22/18
??
Curious fighting karate clown
  03/22/18
does it have a tabula rasa?
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  03/22/18


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Date: March 22nd, 2018 12:13 PM
Author: Coral university

HYPO: A man marries a woman, spawns 3 children, and the couple get divorced after 7 years. The man pays child support but retains split custodial rights. Five years after divorce, the man has a paternity test done and finds out 1 of the 3 children is not biologically his.

What would you do if in the man's shoes? Assume he still loves the child as his own.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35661099)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 12:15 PM
Author: Mind-boggling buff library dysfunction

As a new father, I can’t imagine not loving my daughter, or not taking care of her, if I found out in 7 years that she wasn’t mine.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35661113)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 12:15 PM
Author: appetizing well-lubricated center sex offender

very intellectual

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35661119)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 12:17 PM
Author: citrine useless brakes mad cow disease



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35661134)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 12:19 PM
Author: Salmon razzle casino candlestick maker



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35661156)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 11:23 PM
Author: tan really tough guy ticket booth



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35666520)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 12:17 PM
Author: Coral university

Assume it is 10 years later, and it is the middle child that is not biologically yours. Hypo is for a period of 12 years, assuming first born child was born in the first year of marriage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35661136)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 12:19 PM
Author: arrogant business firm reading party

i agree. if I found out my son was not mine, I could never disown him. Little dude loves me with all his heart and I cannot imagine hurting him that badly. I would commit suicide before abandoning him.

I wouldnt even tell his mother that I knew, for fear of how she would hurt him. I would play it cool as fuck until he was of a certain age, maybe around 21, to understand women's devious ways and then I would tell him what I learned and when I learned it.

I would prepare that he would focus a lot of shock and anger at me and that I would be hurt by his search for his "real" dad and all that, and give him about five years space to work shit out.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35661149)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 12:29 PM
Author: Insecure party of the first part yarmulke



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35661235)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 3:22 PM
Author: fiercely-loyal brindle tanning salon

cr but how heartbreaking

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35662542)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 3:26 PM
Author: bateful roast beef national



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35662572)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 4:35 PM
Author: Vivacious Mediation

Have you spent some time pondering this hypothetical, brother?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35663176)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 4:49 PM
Author: bateful roast beef national

yep

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35663254)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 3:43 PM
Author: Maize corn cake



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35662750)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 12:18 PM
Author: Curious fighting karate clown

toxic thread. i think it would be really hard to cut off a kid you both thought was yours for like 10 years, especially if the two siblings were both yours (i.e., the siblings could end up really mad at you for cutting off the third), and i'm someone who hates the idea of raising someone else's kid and would never in a million years adopt even if that were my only option for "kids".

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35661140)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 12:19 PM
Author: Mind-boggling buff library dysfunction



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35661146)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 12:20 PM
Author: Coral university

Obviously this would be devastating to the non-biological child. It would also be devastating to the other 2 children.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35661160)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 12:21 PM
Author: saffron irate hell

anyone who says they'd disown the kid either doesn't have kids or is a sociopath.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35661168)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 12:21 PM
Author: Coral university

Should he still pay child support for the child?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35661174)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 3:19 PM
Author: bateful roast beef national

Fuck no!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35662516)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 12:22 PM
Author: citrine useless brakes mad cow disease

cr

imagine the sociopathy not to kill the kid

not even human

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35661179)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 12:27 PM
Author: house-broken cordovan home



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35661217)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 12:32 PM
Author: 180 Station

that was my first thought. what would we do in nature?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35661244)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 12:27 PM
Author: Salmon razzle casino candlestick maker



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35661215)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 12:24 PM
Author: bateful roast beef national

Toxic.

50:50. Either you do or you don't.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35661193)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 3:29 PM
Author: Lavender Nofapping Persian

Probably. Men are suckers.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35662593)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 3:39 PM
Author: Curious fighting karate clown

ehh, a man is a sucker when he dates a chick with kids and then takes care of her kids.

the OP's hypo is really tough. by that point there would be a pretty special bond between the father and the kid. the two half-siblings makes it even more difficult, as it'd be hard to abandon the one without harming your relationship with the other two.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35662701)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 3:42 PM
Author: Lavender Nofapping Persian

Hypo is actually easy imo since it stipulates man loves kid as his own. I just read it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35662733)



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Date: March 23rd, 2018 11:31 PM
Author: Insecure party of the first part yarmulke



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35675456)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 4:36 PM
Author: aromatic lettuce kitchen

Depends how others would judge me if I bailed out, and how hot she is.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35663187)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 4:39 PM
Author: Glassy pocket flask



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35663196)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 8:56 PM
Author: Yellow histrionic church boiling water

No, not a chance. But I’m a legit, diagnosed, sociopath and would probably just arrange for the whole family to die in a car crash.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35665199)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 9:34 PM
Author: bateful roast beef national



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35665434)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 11:23 PM
Author: tan really tough guy ticket booth

No fucking way.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35666525)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 11:25 PM
Author: Amber self-absorbed son of senegal

LJL. Every dad itt went and hugged his child-dood after reading this thread.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35666539)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 11:26 PM
Author: Comical Overrated Rehab Love Of Her Life

why am i marrying a divorcee to begin with

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35666545)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 11:47 PM
Author: Curious fighting karate clown

??

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35666784)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 11:49 PM
Author: sienna travel guidebook stain

does it have a tabula rasa?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3925587&forum_id=2#35666798)