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Meeting a STEM PhD chick tomorrow night (CharlesXII)

The setback with quail family was unfortunate, but the only ...
soggy yellow locale
  05/24/18
you got this.
razzmatazz domesticated corner
  05/24/18
180 friend rate the level of RIGOR in her STEM field
smoky tripping dingle berry
  05/24/18
Non-bio hard science. Seems legit. Friend who works in milit...
soggy yellow locale
  05/24/18
Send her some of your best work pieces
magical sapphire antidepressant drug
  05/24/18
sounds promising, 180 man. one of the hardest parts of datin...
sepia insane philosopher-king
  05/24/18
just don't think about what has a 99% chance of happening, j...
magical sapphire antidepressant drug
  05/24/18
oh come on
sepia insane philosopher-king
  05/24/18
come on what? are we supposed to throw reality out the fucki...
magical sapphire antidepressant drug
  05/24/18
it's sad when some of the best aspects of life are tainted b...
exhilarant red parlour stock car
  05/24/18
what the fuck are you rambling about? hatred of what?
magical sapphire antidepressant drug
  05/24/18
180 OKC prospect?
Hyperactive Institution
  05/24/18
Coffee Meets Bagel. A Catholic friend got married through it...
soggy yellow locale
  05/24/18
180, way to broaden your scope
Hyperactive Institution
  05/24/18
"On the advice of a guy whose mental illness and rage-f...
Fragrant spruce station fortuitous meteor
  05/24/18
...
Iridescent Hissy Fit
  05/24/18
Well then you'd better give me my last warning before report...
Fragrant spruce station fortuitous meteor
  05/24/18
lol
Hairraiser maize lay pozpig
  05/25/18
...
heady slimy roommate quadroon
  05/26/18
korean?
boyish lilac ladyboy
  05/24/18
...
Mint violent gay wizard
  05/24/18
White
soggy yellow locale
  05/24/18
what happened with quail family i can't keep up with this...
Mint violent gay wizard
  05/24/18
he ran into one of the other sisters at that dance thing, co...
Hyperactive Institution
  05/24/18
Yeah pretty much. Not giving up on them entirely (the first ...
soggy yellow locale
  05/24/18
what is the age range for all of them? just go for the youn...
Hyperactive Institution
  05/24/18
17-29, I believe. Got dinged by the middle one. Also interes...
soggy yellow locale
  05/24/18
gross, aren't you like 28? don't go older than you
Hyperactive Institution
  05/24/18
...
magical sapphire antidepressant drug
  05/24/18
i went on a date with a 34 year old when i was 30. somehow i...
Cerebral heaven
  05/24/18
Generally a good rule but based on limited interaction I rea...
soggy yellow locale
  05/24/18
180 moniker
Nighttime Police Squad Place Of Business
  05/24/18
...
Iridescent Hissy Fit
  05/24/18
ty, just made it in a flash of inspiration yesterday, first ...
Hyperactive Institution
  05/24/18
Charles thread in 2024: “Wife found out I asked out younge...
Contagious Yapping Step-uncle's House
  05/24/18
underrated
French tantric den international law enforcement agency
  05/25/18
nice. where are you meeting her?
Cerebral heaven
  05/24/18
DuPont Circle area.
soggy yellow locale
  05/24/18
starbucks or a bar? if starbucks, make sure you go to the...
Cerebral heaven
  05/24/18
she's a flake, it was nice of you to come out, chad would've...
Razzle-dazzle Alcoholic Cruise Ship
  05/24/18
almost certainly true, and i've done similar "fuck it&q...
Cerebral heaven
  05/24/18
Fortunately, I picked a bar.
soggy yellow locale
  05/24/18
'atta guy. smart move.
Cerebral heaven
  05/24/18
coffee dates are for losers
Thirsty cruel-hearted hospital
  05/26/18
Starbucks next to Metro in DuPont is gross, could have said ...
passionate office
  05/25/18
Is this a story from 1980?
French tantric den international law enforcement agency
  05/25/18
180, now we're talking
Lemon Church Building Headpube
  05/24/18
180 I am for you brother This is my favorite series in mo...
Diverse Abnormal Trust Fund
  05/24/18
...
Contagious Yapping Step-uncle's House
  05/24/18
...
Iridescent Hissy Fit
  05/24/18
lol how do you possibly have a reasonable sample size on thi...
Fishy vigorous garrison
  05/24/18
...
Iridescent Hissy Fit
  05/24/18
oh ok what is your theory why
Fishy vigorous garrison
  05/24/18
...
Iridescent Hissy Fit
  05/24/18
how does it manifest itself? they get divorced a ton for the...
Fishy vigorous garrison
  05/24/18
"To excel at STEM, you have to be at least somewhere on...
magical sapphire antidepressant drug
  05/24/18
...
Iridescent Hissy Fit
  05/24/18
still false.
magical sapphire antidepressant drug
  05/24/18
lol do you follow your horoscope too?
exhilarant red parlour stock car
  05/24/18
...
Iridescent Hissy Fit
  05/24/18
(the xo story)
Fishy vigorous garrison
  05/24/18
...
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  05/25/18
what the fuck
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  05/24/18
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  05/24/18
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Iridescent Hissy Fit
  05/24/18
QUINTESSENTIAL tsinah post.
mildly autistic ticket booth
  05/31/18
DESCRIBE your gameplan for the date
charismatic marketing idea temple
  05/24/18
Don't really have one. She's leaving town for a substantial ...
soggy yellow locale
  05/24/18
...
Iridescent Hissy Fit
  05/24/18
I know what it's for but trying to limit details here. Ha...
soggy yellow locale
  05/25/18
...
Iridescent Hissy Fit
  05/25/18
STEM phd from a good university likes reading likes co...
Up-to-no-good anal national security agency athletic conference
  05/24/18
cr
Hyperactive Institution
  05/24/18
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wonderful flickering brunch genital piercing
  05/25/18
great thread without even a single pic
Motley public bath
  05/25/18
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Iridescent Hissy Fit
  05/25/18
(literal anti-free speech shitlib)
Motley public bath
  05/25/18
...
Iridescent Hissy Fit
  05/25/18
POUND THAT PUSSY.
bipolar sooty locus
  05/25/18
If girls are still in their phd then you can punch way above...
Ultramarine Excitant Home
  05/25/18
...
Iridescent Hissy Fit
  05/25/18
still the cr
Twinkling Soul-stirring Nibblets
  05/25/18
...
charismatic marketing idea temple
  05/25/18
Man, the universe is really fucking with me. Canceled tonigh...
soggy yellow locale
  05/25/18
She wants to make a good impression.
useless slate telephone
  05/25/18
Hopefully, friend.
soggy yellow locale
  05/25/18
...
infuriating center
  05/25/18
This is called online dating. You need to see this.
honey-headed pontificating coffee pot
  05/25/18
CR. A valuable lesson in modern dating that all men must exp...
Cerebral heaven
  05/25/18
"Modern dating" or not I can't help but feel this ...
soggy yellow locale
  05/25/18
it's a double-edged sword. i think it's a valuable experienc...
Cerebral heaven
  05/25/18
I'm just not sure it's an "immunity" so much as it...
soggy yellow locale
  05/25/18
I think the opposite is healthy. To assume each individual w...
Ultramarine Excitant Home
  05/25/18
Online dating will disabuse one of this notion, right or wro...
Razzle-dazzle Alcoholic Cruise Ship
  05/25/18
This is one reason I'd rather not date online for a long per...
soggy yellow locale
  05/25/18
ljl you're fucked.
Razzle-dazzle Alcoholic Cruise Ship
  05/25/18
Probably.
soggy yellow locale
  05/25/18
More is different: http://robotics.cs.tamu.edu/dshell/cs689/...
Ultramarine Excitant Home
  05/25/18
at some point, all of us learn to stop believing in santa cl...
Cerebral heaven
  05/25/18
...
wonderful flickering brunch genital piercing
  05/25/18
You need to care less
Startled transparent stage affirmative action
  05/25/18
That is already happening; but the constant hiccups remain r...
soggy yellow locale
  05/25/18
this is why, when i was at the peak of my use of online dati...
Cerebral heaven
  05/25/18
"Sounds like you're on the 15 day DL. Haha."
Drab flatulent gaping
  05/25/18
jfc
Cerebral heaven
  05/25/18
...
Startled transparent stage affirmative action
  05/26/18
"hurt her ankle walking to work today" Lies.
dull talented indian lodge
  05/25/18
...
Ultramarine Excitant Home
  05/26/18
She kept chatting by phone today so I'm at least willing to ...
soggy yellow locale
  05/26/18
always have (or try to have) multiple prospects so you're no...
fantasy-prone orchestra pit
  05/26/18
jfc fuck this gay earth
cheese-eating idiotic jap
  05/26/18
This one is gone. You can't meet Tuesday and then she's gone...
mind-boggling hall
  05/26/18
Still on for tonight.
soggy yellow locale
  05/29/18
180000000 you got this bro we are FOR you!
Hyperactive Institution
  05/29/18
You can probably get 30 minutes out of this thing by asking ...
Drab flatulent gaping
  05/29/18
Is she aware you are a racist?
Startled transparent stage affirmative action
  05/29/18
Seems unlikely, as I'm not.
soggy yellow locale
  05/29/18
lets see how i compare: STEM PHD from highly prestigious ...
Up-to-no-good anal national security agency athletic conference
  05/29/18
Did you want to date CharlesXII?
Startled transparent stage affirmative action
  05/29/18
no, my autism is strong today is all.
Up-to-no-good anal national security agency athletic conference
  05/29/18
libraries are your friend, bro reading good books is fun
Hyperactive Institution
  05/29/18
So the “volcel” thing was all just a fraud?
Gold Outnumbered Really Tough Guy Skinny Woman
  05/29/18
No, he's not trying to get laid here. He's trying to find a...
Hyperactive Institution
  05/29/18
No, he isn’t. That’s his excuse for being incel.
Naked partner keepsake machete
  05/29/18
I believe him that he genuinely wants to get married, but he...
Hyperactive Institution
  05/29/18
Update?
Drab flatulent gaping
  05/29/18
whittier tp said it was set for 930 EST, so it is happening ...
Hyperactive Institution
  05/29/18
9:30 on a school night?
Drab flatulent gaping
  05/29/18
Thoughts and prayers.
infuriating center
  05/29/18
Why not EDT? That's very confusing.
sable supple legend base
  05/29/18
haven't heard from Charles since this date started
charismatic marketing idea temple
  05/29/18
that's a good thing!
Hyperactive Institution
  05/29/18
shit odds he's melting in a vat of science?
sepia insane philosopher-king
  05/29/18
If he were still alive, he could update from the bathroom. ...
dull talented indian lodge
  05/29/18
Just wrapped up. I kinda screwed up because the bar I pic...
soggy yellow locale
  05/30/18
do NOT text her first
Hyperactive Institution
  05/30/18
DAT | HUG | CLOSE
Topaz personal credit line rigor
  05/30/18
...
Drab flatulent gaping
  05/30/18
you're going to need some pretty sick text game to keep her ...
sepia insane philosopher-king
  05/30/18
tcr is to autistically match the time she takes to respond b...
Hyperactive Institution
  05/30/18
Describe the nature of this "sick text game."
soggy yellow locale
  05/30/18
text infrequently and only on her initiative and with pacing...
sepia insane philosopher-king
  05/30/18
see I think this is bullshit
cheese-eating idiotic jap
  05/30/18
obviously you shouldn't try to be someone you're not, but it...
sepia insane philosopher-king
  05/30/18
This makes sense but if women are shy are you sure it's CR t...
soggy yellow locale
  05/30/18
fair point, but don't text first too soon
sepia insane philosopher-king
  05/30/18
Yeah I think a good excuse for texting soonish is my trip to...
soggy yellow locale
  05/30/18
perfect
cheese-eating idiotic jap
  05/30/18
180! good opportunity. if she's receptive you can probably f...
sepia insane philosopher-king
  05/30/18
make it into a very small version of the Charles trip report...
cheese-eating idiotic jap
  05/30/18
CR and this is why I do NOT recommend this "wait for he...
cheese-eating idiotic jap
  05/30/18
yeah that part I agree with, engage with her interests but ...
cheese-eating idiotic jap
  05/30/18
i agree you try for what seems natural for both of you, you ...
sepia insane philosopher-king
  05/30/18
nah honestly if she has any kind of bullshit detector and is...
cheese-eating idiotic jap
  05/30/18
there's more of a balance here than i think you're accountin...
sepia insane philosopher-king
  05/30/18
Honestly: be yourself, everything else is flame
cheese-eating idiotic jap
  05/30/18
Cr but be your BEST self in a manner customized to match her...
sickened irradiated menage
  05/30/18
meh that can come off as insincere and sucky just be yourse...
cheese-eating idiotic jap
  05/30/18
You fucked up with the timing. I tried to warn you above. N...
mind-boggling hall
  05/30/18
(Expert in seducing women)
electric slippery shrine dysfunction
  05/30/18
sounds like a Win to me. she didn't use the bad luck re: ...
Cerebral heaven
  05/30/18
why do you keep asking out girls who are about to leave the ...
claret sick national
  05/30/18
Have you ever dated in DC? This is standard here.
aquamarine big foreskin
  05/30/18


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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:40 PM
Author: soggy yellow locale

The setback with quail family was unfortunate, but the only viable response to setbacks is to keep pushing forward.

Tomorrow's prospect just finished a STEM PhD at a highly prestigious university. She likes cooking and reading, watches little television, and was highly intrigued by my 100-book quest. She also is Catholic though to what level of intensity I cannot tell.

Hopefully this one doesn't savagely cancel on me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123123)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:41 PM
Author: razzmatazz domesticated corner

you got this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123126)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:43 PM
Author: smoky tripping dingle berry

180 friend

rate the level of RIGOR in her STEM field

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123139)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:48 PM
Author: soggy yellow locale

Non-bio hard science. Seems legit. Friend who works in military research says her skillset would be useful.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123173)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:43 PM
Author: magical sapphire antidepressant drug

Send her some of your best work pieces

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123143)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:44 PM
Author: sepia insane philosopher-king

sounds promising, 180 man. one of the hardest parts of dating is keeping positive, but don't think about the potential negatives like her cancelling on you. just think about how well y'all might hit it off, especially if she's already PIQUED by your intellectualism.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123149)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:45 PM
Author: magical sapphire antidepressant drug

just don't think about what has a 99% chance of happening, just be completely blindsided by the inevitable

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123155)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:47 PM
Author: sepia insane philosopher-king

oh come on

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123164)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:48 PM
Author: magical sapphire antidepressant drug

come on what? are we supposed to throw reality out the fucking window so we can all lick each other's balls here like we're some sort of a shrew support group?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123174)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:06 PM
Author: exhilarant red parlour stock car

it's sad when some of the best aspects of life are tainted by your own hatred. sorry for you, man

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123285)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:13 PM
Author: magical sapphire antidepressant drug

what the fuck are you rambling about? hatred of what?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123327)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:44 PM
Author: Hyperactive Institution

180

OKC prospect?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123151)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:50 PM
Author: soggy yellow locale

Coffee Meets Bagel. A Catholic friend got married through it so I decided to give it a whirl. Unlike with OKC on CMB I wrote my profile without outside input and made myself seem a little more intense, per TSINAH's suggestion in another thread.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123183)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:51 PM
Author: Hyperactive Institution

180, way to broaden your scope

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123190)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:16 PM
Author: Fragrant spruce station fortuitous meteor

"On the advice of a guy whose mental illness and rage-filled fuming faggotry stands out even on xo, I..."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123354)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:23 PM
Author: Iridescent Hissy Fit



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123397)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:26 PM
Author: Fragrant spruce station fortuitous meteor

Well then you'd better give me my last warning before reporting me to the bar and filing a police report

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123409)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 11:52 AM
Author: Hairraiser maize lay pozpig

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125838)



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Date: May 26th, 2018 12:11 AM
Author: heady slimy roommate quadroon



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36130019)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:47 PM
Author: boyish lilac ladyboy

korean?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123163)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:50 PM
Author: Mint violent gay wizard



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123181)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:52 PM
Author: soggy yellow locale

White

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123200)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:48 PM
Author: Mint violent gay wizard

what happened with quail family

i can't keep up with this story

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123169)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:49 PM
Author: Hyperactive Institution

he ran into one of the other sisters at that dance thing, copped her number, then asked her out via text and she said she "wasn't in a position to date right now" or whatever

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123176)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:51 PM
Author: soggy yellow locale

Yeah pretty much. Not giving up on them entirely (the first sister I met had potential) but we're stalled out for now. If I ask out another one I'm doing it in person and that chance may not come for a few weeks.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123194)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:53 PM
Author: Hyperactive Institution

what is the age range for all of them?

just go for the youngest lol (no DBG)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123202)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:58 PM
Author: soggy yellow locale

17-29, I believe. Got dinged by the middle one. Also interested in the oldest, who has a tremendous amount of interest overlap.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123234)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:59 PM
Author: Hyperactive Institution

gross, aren't you like 28? don't go older than you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123248)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:01 PM
Author: magical sapphire antidepressant drug



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123256)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:06 PM
Author: Cerebral heaven

i went on a date with a 34 year old when i was 30. somehow it came up when i was visiting my parents and my father mocked me and referred to her as "the old woman."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123280)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:14 PM
Author: soggy yellow locale

Generally a good rule but based on limited interaction I really like her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123338)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:18 PM
Author: Nighttime Police Squad Place Of Business

180 moniker

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123369)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:19 PM
Author: Iridescent Hissy Fit



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123374)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:45 PM
Author: Hyperactive Institution

ty, just made it in a flash of inspiration yesterday, first compliment I've gotten

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123504)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:22 PM
Author: Contagious Yapping Step-uncle's House

Charles thread in 2024:

“Wife found out I asked out younger sister once, divorcing me and taking kids, taking Qs”

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123386)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:13 PM
Author: French tantric den international law enforcement agency

underrated

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125987)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:48 PM
Author: Cerebral heaven

nice. where are you meeting her?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123175)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:52 PM
Author: soggy yellow locale

DuPont Circle area.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123198)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:01 PM
Author: Cerebral heaven

starbucks or a bar?

if starbucks, make sure you go to the right one.

not long after i moved to dc, i set up an online date with a chick who suggested starbucks in dupont circle. (as i've told you, i hate coffee dates and eventually wrote them off completely.)

anyway, it just so happened that we scheduled the date for sunday at 11 am, but it was the first day of "fall back" (going back to regular time from DST).

well, i get a text from her that morning saying she is there. the text is an hour early. i ask her if she forgot to set her clocks back. she replies, "oh no, i completely forgot about the overnight time change!" anyway, i tell her i'll metro over as soon as i can. she says she'll wait.

well, i was unfamiliar with dupont circle at that point, but i get off at the dupont station and head to the nearby starbucks. no sign of her. i walk around a couple of times. nothing. i text her, and it turns out there's another starbucks a few blocks in the other direction. i walk to that starbucks, but no sign of her there, either. i text her and she never responds, and i never hear from her again. i guess she got tired of waiting considering she got there an hour early based on her own mistake and couldn't tolerate my mistake re: which of two starbucks within several blocks that she was at.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123258)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:07 PM
Author: Razzle-dazzle Alcoholic Cruise Ship

she's a flake, it was nice of you to come out, chad would've just said "fuck it next time" and she'd be intrigued

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123286)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:16 PM
Author: Cerebral heaven

almost certainly true, and i've done similar "fuck it" things plenty of times.

but in this instance, it was just a stupid coffee date (which i hate) with someone who i didn't have much hopes for, and something to do on a sunday morning while i was brand new in dc and didn't know anyone. not a chad situation. i found the whole thing amusing.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123356)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:15 PM
Author: soggy yellow locale

Fortunately, I picked a bar.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123345)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:18 PM
Author: Cerebral heaven

'atta guy. smart move.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123367)



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Date: May 26th, 2018 12:18 AM
Author: Thirsty cruel-hearted hospital

coffee dates are for losers

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36130033)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:29 AM
Author: passionate office

Starbucks next to Metro in DuPont is gross, could have said Kramer which has a bar but I think coffee too

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123723)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:14 PM
Author: French tantric den international law enforcement agency

Is this a story from 1980?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125996)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:50 PM
Author: Lemon Church Building Headpube

180, now we're talking

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123184)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:03 PM
Author: Diverse Abnormal Trust Fund

180 I am for you brother

This is my favorite series in months, at least.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123263)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:26 PM
Author: Contagious Yapping Step-uncle's House



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123410)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:03 PM
Author: Iridescent Hissy Fit



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123264)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:07 PM
Author: Fishy vigorous garrison

lol how do you possibly have a reasonable sample size on this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123287)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:08 PM
Author: Iridescent Hissy Fit



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123298)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:13 PM
Author: Fishy vigorous garrison

oh ok what is your theory why

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123328)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:19 PM
Author: Iridescent Hissy Fit



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123372)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:20 PM
Author: Fishy vigorous garrison

how does it manifest itself? they get divorced a ton for their income and education level?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123379)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:21 PM
Author: magical sapphire antidepressant drug

"To excel at STEM, you have to be at least somewhere on the spectrum.

False.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123381)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:22 PM
Author: Iridescent Hissy Fit



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123391)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:27 PM
Author: magical sapphire antidepressant drug

still false.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123414)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:08 PM
Author: exhilarant red parlour stock car

lol do you follow your horoscope too?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123305)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:11 PM
Author: Iridescent Hissy Fit



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123318)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:15 PM
Author: Fishy vigorous garrison

(the xo story)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123341)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 1:19 AM
Author: big-titted swollen space famous landscape painting



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123984)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:25 PM
Author: Topaz personal credit line rigor

what the fuck

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123406)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:39 PM
Author: dashing lodge



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123475)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:48 PM
Author: Iridescent Hissy Fit



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123521)



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Date: May 31st, 2018 12:29 AM
Author: mildly autistic ticket booth

QUINTESSENTIAL tsinah post.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36156768)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:08 PM
Author: charismatic marketing idea temple

DESCRIBE your gameplan for the date

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123301)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:27 PM
Author: soggy yellow locale

Don't really have one. She's leaving town for a substantial period (about a month) right after, so I'm not sure what the CR goals are. Unlike with first date I'm genuinely interested going in.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123412)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:49 PM
Author: Iridescent Hissy Fit



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123527)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:27 AM
Author: soggy yellow locale

I know what it's for but trying to limit details here.

Haven't discussed kids or any deep values stuff. We just seem to have similar interests and got along well in chat.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123708)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:34 AM
Author: Iridescent Hissy Fit



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123748)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:29 PM
Author: Up-to-no-good anal national security agency athletic conference

STEM phd from a good university

likes reading

likes cooking

doesnt watch tv

and is catholic

and white...

omg, you need to lock that shit down.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123425)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:49 PM
Author: Hyperactive Institution

cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123524)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:16 PM
Author: wonderful flickering brunch genital piercing



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36126017)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:16 AM
Author: Motley public bath

great thread without even a single pic

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123650)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:21 AM
Author: Iridescent Hissy Fit



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123685)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:22 AM
Author: Motley public bath

(literal anti-free speech shitlib)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123688)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:30 AM
Author: Iridescent Hissy Fit



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123728)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:23 AM
Author: bipolar sooty locus

POUND THAT PUSSY.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123697)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:26 AM
Author: Ultramarine Excitant Home

If girls are still in their phd then you can punch way above your weight with them. Really lonely, depressed, desperate to interact with ppl who aren't in their lab or whatever.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123703)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:42 AM
Author: Iridescent Hissy Fit



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123783)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 11:55 AM
Author: Twinkling Soul-stirring Nibblets

still the cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125865)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 7:39 AM
Author: charismatic marketing idea temple



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36124482)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 10:00 AM
Author: soggy yellow locale

Man, the universe is really fucking with me. Canceled tonight because she says she hurt her ankle walking to work today. Rescheduled to Tuesday, but if that doesn't work out we won't be able to meet for a month.

Sheesh.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125080)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 10:02 AM
Author: useless slate telephone

She wants to make a good impression.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125097)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 11:26 AM
Author: soggy yellow locale

Hopefully, friend.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125614)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 1:14 PM
Author: infuriating center



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36126404)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 11:28 AM
Author: honey-headed pontificating coffee pot

This is called online dating. You need to see this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125628)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 11:55 AM
Author: Cerebral heaven

CR. A valuable lesson in modern dating that all men must experience.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125860)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:03 PM
Author: soggy yellow locale

"Modern dating" or not I can't help but feel this is very very unhealthy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125920)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:06 PM
Author: Cerebral heaven

it's a double-edged sword. i think it's a valuable experience, to understand the world as it is today & to help build up an immunity.

but psychologically it is exhausting and certainly can lead to increased levels of cynicism and bitterness, of which the observant XO type already has bushels.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125943)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:11 PM
Author: soggy yellow locale

I'm just not sure it's an "immunity" so much as it's training oneself to be cynical, callous, etc. The process of caring less basically involves learning to like women less and viewing them as disposable. That's not an awesome place to be, if XO is any indication.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125972)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:14 PM
Author: Ultramarine Excitant Home

I think the opposite is healthy. To assume each individual who comes into your life is somehow charmed, as if you aren't just two probabilities rubbing in an absolute void

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125998)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:15 PM
Author: Razzle-dazzle Alcoholic Cruise Ship

Online dating will disabuse one of this notion, right or wrong. Online dating is about the pure disposability of other people. Yes, it will make charlesXII more cynical, because he went around thinking he was a good guy, good character, he works hard, he exercises, he's witty, he reads a lot of books and knows a lot about the world, then BOOM ding'd by stinky 250 pound high school dropouts with boob cheese like HE is the turd.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36126010)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:17 PM
Author: soggy yellow locale

This is one reason I'd rather not date online for a long period. 2+ years of this and I'll be a much worse person, I think.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36126025)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:18 PM
Author: Razzle-dazzle Alcoholic Cruise Ship

ljl you're fucked.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36126029)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:19 PM
Author: soggy yellow locale

Probably.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36126040)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:20 PM
Author: Ultramarine Excitant Home

More is different: http://robotics.cs.tamu.edu/dshell/cs689/papers/anderson72more_is_different.pdf

Online dating is a population-level phenomenon. Things like individual sentimentality, attachment etc break down because you are in a big sorting mechanism. If you can float on top of this without losing yourself then you'll be like the guy in that kipling poem.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36126046)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:17 PM
Author: Cerebral heaven

at some point, all of us learn to stop believing in santa claus, sad as that epiphany is.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36126027)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:17 PM
Author: wonderful flickering brunch genital piercing



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36126022)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 11:30 AM
Author: Startled transparent stage affirmative action

You need to care less

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125643)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 11:50 AM
Author: soggy yellow locale

That is already happening; but the constant hiccups remain rather irritating.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125824)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:02 PM
Author: Cerebral heaven

this is why, when i was at the peak of my use of online dating, i would have ebbs and flows of energy. it is exhausting. i would have 5 dates in a week, most would be disappointing, i'd get sick of it, then in a couple weeks do the same thing again. rinse & repeat. occasionally i'd get a short term g/f out of it and date her for a few weeks or a couple months, then lose interest & get tired of the constant demands for my time from shrews who are full of their careers and liberal politics.

hopefully, you can find that rare devoted, maternalistic (not materialistic), religious girl you are seeking & get out of the depressing world of modern dating.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125912)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:09 PM
Author: Drab flatulent gaping

"Sounds like you're on the 15 day DL. Haha."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125957)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:10 PM
Author: Cerebral heaven

jfc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125967)



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Date: May 26th, 2018 12:19 AM
Author: Startled transparent stage affirmative action



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36130034)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 10:18 PM
Author: dull talented indian lodge

"hurt her ankle walking to work today"

Lies.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36129525)



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Date: May 26th, 2018 12:01 AM
Author: Ultramarine Excitant Home



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36129984)



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Date: May 26th, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: soggy yellow locale

She kept chatting by phone today so I'm at least willing to give her the benefit of the doubt. If she cancels again on Tuesday I'll let it go.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36130016)



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Date: May 26th, 2018 1:09 AM
Author: fantasy-prone orchestra pit

always have (or try to have) multiple prospects so you're not hung up on one girl. it's usually not productive sinking a ton of time/effort into texting, chatting, etc. lots of girls will spend a surprising amount of time responding and conversing because they're trained to be agreeable even if they're not interested so you need to be efficient in weeding them out by meeting in person.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36130121)



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Date: May 26th, 2018 1:15 AM
Author: cheese-eating idiotic jap

jfc fuck this gay earth

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36130134)



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Date: May 26th, 2018 1:17 AM
Author: mind-boggling hall

This one is gone. You can't meet Tuesday and then she's gone for a month.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36130137)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 5:09 PM
Author: soggy yellow locale

Still on for tonight.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36146810)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 5:09 PM
Author: Hyperactive Institution

180000000 you got this bro

we are FOR you!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36146812)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 5:31 PM
Author: Drab flatulent gaping

You can probably get 30 minutes out of this thing by asking about her work. She's spent 5-6 years giving public talks to informed but non-expert audiences.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36146907)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 5:10 PM
Author: Startled transparent stage affirmative action

Is she aware you are a racist?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36146816)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 5:11 PM
Author: soggy yellow locale

Seems unlikely, as I'm not.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36146823)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 5:14 PM
Author: Up-to-no-good anal national security agency athletic conference

lets see how i compare:

STEM PHD from highly prestigious uni vs. barely passed CALC 2 for econ and business students

can cook vs. cant cook

reads books. vs havent read a single book in years

barely watches television vs. i have no TV

catholic vs. atheist

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36146834)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 5:15 PM
Author: Startled transparent stage affirmative action

Did you want to date CharlesXII?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36146841)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 5:16 PM
Author: Up-to-no-good anal national security agency athletic conference

no, my autism is strong today is all.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36146843)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 5:21 PM
Author: Hyperactive Institution

libraries are your friend, bro

reading good books is fun

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36146867)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 5:33 PM
Author: Gold Outnumbered Really Tough Guy Skinny Woman

So the “volcel” thing was all just a fraud?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36146917)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 5:39 PM
Author: Hyperactive Institution

No, he's not trying to get laid here. He's trying to find a wife.

He's committed to no sex before marriage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36146959)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 5:50 PM
Author: Naked partner keepsake machete

No, he isn’t. That’s his excuse for being incel.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36147004)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 5:56 PM
Author: Hyperactive Institution

I believe him that he genuinely wants to get married, but he has incredibly high standards.

it's not his fault that trad catholic non-whores are in such short supply in 2018

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36147031)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 10:19 PM
Author: Drab flatulent gaping

Update?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36148912)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 10:20 PM
Author: Hyperactive Institution

whittier tp said it was set for 930 EST, so it is happening as we speak

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36148925)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 10:26 PM
Author: Drab flatulent gaping

9:30 on a school night?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36148999)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 10:28 PM
Author: infuriating center

Thoughts and prayers.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149018)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 10:36 PM
Author: sable supple legend base

Why not EDT? That's very confusing.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149092)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 10:31 PM
Author: charismatic marketing idea temple

haven't heard from Charles since this date started

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149054)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 10:46 PM
Author: Hyperactive Institution

that's a good thing!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149187)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 11:08 PM
Author: sepia insane philosopher-king

shit

odds he's melting in a vat of science?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149295)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 11:42 PM
Author: dull talented indian lodge

If he were still alive, he could update from the bathroom.

RIP Charles XII.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149564)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: soggy yellow locale

Just wrapped up.

I kinda screwed up because the bar I picked turned out to have busted AC, and then the next one I picked had just shit down its kitchen (we wanted food), so we ended up just going to the DuPont Shake Shack. Talked for about two hours. I had a good time and I think she did as well, but we only closed with a hug. Still, I'd be happy to see her again if she's interested. Sadly she is promptly leaving for a month, so this is sort of on pause for now.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149690)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:11 AM
Author: Hyperactive Institution

do NOT text her first

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149699)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:12 AM
Author: Topaz personal credit line rigor

DAT | HUG | CLOSE

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149705)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 8:48 AM
Author: Drab flatulent gaping



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36150536)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:31 AM
Author: sepia insane philosopher-king

you're going to need some pretty sick text game to keep her interested, if you're enthused for when she's back

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149809)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:34 AM
Author: Hyperactive Institution

tcr is to autistically match the time she takes to respond between texts. If she waits a day, you wait a day. If she responds right away, then you can too. etc.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149832)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:36 AM
Author: soggy yellow locale

Describe the nature of this "sick text game."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149848)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:41 AM
Author: sepia insane philosopher-king

text infrequently and only on her initiative and with pacing (as guy above says), be sure to work in things you know about her that might get her to reveal more about herself, but not so obviously that it's pandering. sort of a tightrope walk, in a few different ways

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149859)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:42 AM
Author: cheese-eating idiotic jap

see I think this is bullshit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149863)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:44 AM
Author: sepia insane philosopher-king

obviously you shouldn't try to be someone you're not, but it's easy to get overwhelmed by too much or too little communication, and more women than men are shy and want to be courted in the sense of have their interests sought. if you let it become an interview, you've gone too far, but if you pick things to say that you know they can run with, it'll be a better conversation.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149876)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:48 AM
Author: soggy yellow locale

This makes sense but if women are shy are you sure it's CR to wait on her to text?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149886)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:49 AM
Author: sepia insane philosopher-king

fair point, but don't text first too soon

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149892)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:51 AM
Author: soggy yellow locale

Yeah I think a good excuse for texting soonish is my trip to New Orleans. She suggested getting beignets at the Cafe du Monde so I can probably send a pic when I actually do that, and progress from there.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149903)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:52 AM
Author: cheese-eating idiotic jap

perfect

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149907)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:54 AM
Author: sepia insane philosopher-king

180! good opportunity. if she's receptive you can probably find a few other things in the french district that she'd be interested in.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149911)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:55 AM
Author: cheese-eating idiotic jap

make it into a very small version of the Charles trip reports: a pic and a comment a day, or whatever pace works for you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149917)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:49 AM
Author: cheese-eating idiotic jap

CR and this is why I do NOT recommend this "wait for her" approach

women ARE shy and need some encouragement sometimes

see my post below too

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149896)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:49 AM
Author: cheese-eating idiotic jap

yeah that part I agree with, engage with her interests

but the "infrequent communications" part is wrong, just at engage with her at a pace that seems comfortable for both of you, do NOT do the deliberately "playing it cool" that is dumb millennial faggotry -- easist way for her to forget him and (if she likes him) to assume that he doesn't like her back -- women are mentally ill and paranoid and will easily come to mentally ill conclusions

just be yourself, play it at the pace that seems natural and comes naturally to both of you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149890)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:51 AM
Author: sepia insane philosopher-king

i agree you try for what seems natural for both of you, you shouldn't have aspie objective metrics like if you text more than once an hour you're a cuck. BUT you should not just be yourself and not take her personality into account, hard as that might be at first when you don't know her well.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149901)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:54 AM
Author: cheese-eating idiotic jap

nah honestly if she has any kind of bullshit detector and is a reasonably sincere person herself this is overcomplicating things and setting himself up to get dinged for being insincere

I don't mean "let me just take a shit while we talk on the phone" sincere, but still be sincere, just be yourself

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149913)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 1:08 AM
Author: sepia insane philosopher-king

there's more of a balance here than i think you're accounting for. you can look insecure by being too sincere, and you can look insecure by being too manufactured.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149951)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:41 AM
Author: cheese-eating idiotic jap

Honestly: be yourself, everything else is flame

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149861)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:49 AM
Author: sickened irradiated menage

Cr but be your BEST self in a manner customized to match her interests and expectations

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149895)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:50 AM
Author: cheese-eating idiotic jap

meh that can come off as insincere and sucky

just be yourself, your good self, but yourself, do not try to adjust to her too much

everything else is flame

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149897)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 5:15 AM
Author: mind-boggling hall

You fucked up with the timing. I tried to warn you above.

No way to keep her interested during this intermission.

Might as well chalk it off but use the opportunity to practice your text game

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36150239)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 8:08 AM
Author: electric slippery shrine dysfunction

(Expert in seducing women)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36150425)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 8:02 AM
Author: Cerebral heaven

sounds like a Win to me.

she didn't use the bad luck re: the bars as an excuse, so she seems like both she had some interest in you and is a decent person. especially considering the date ended up lasting about 2 hours.

if you had a bad personality and/or she had zero attraction, it wouldn't have lasted that long, believe me.

should be a nice confidence boost. keep honing your dating game while she's gone; don't wait for her to come back or have any expectations that after a month away she will retain interest. time tends to dissipate that. but, whatever you did to target/find this chick, keep working that angle, IMHO.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36150415)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 8:37 AM
Author: claret sick national

why do you keep asking out girls who are about to leave the country

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36150500)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 8:49 AM
Author: aquamarine big foreskin

Have you ever dated in DC? This is standard here.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36150540)