"oh im sorry! im so sorry for everything dude!!!".....was the most pathetic thing id ever heard and i decided to (foolishly) forgive you.

you seem to vacillate between being enemies and being friends with people. you're kind of not even worth any effort (and ive not even thought about you nor really talked shit in several years, yet you harbor a weird obsession), but...still, fuck you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111673&forum_id=2#37066096)

Author: J-J-J-JULIA!

VERY ALPHA:

Very confused guy who tells me both "if you want to hang out sometime, let me know" and "If I decide I want to meet you, I'll let you know" in the same paragraph. He also has a very strong vested interest in protecting his XO reputation, so much so that I was doing him favors at his request.

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Date: January 27th, 2015 6:23 PM

Author: J-J-J-JULIA!

> On Mon, Jan 30, 2012 at 11:15 PM, Julia wrote:

Bro, I am just kiding around with you - but I a down for a SF/SV meet-up/coffee. I'm not actually a sex-crazed cougar predator.

On Tue, Jan 31, 2012 at 12:12 AM, Harrison wrote:

" I'm not actually a sex-crazed cougar predator."

Oh, OK ;)

well i'm fine with whatever. I really am busy right now but i'll talk with you this weekend.

and fwiw, i'm certainly not intimidated by sex-crazed cougars.

From: Harrison

Sent: 01/31/12 01:05 AM

To: Julia

Subject: Re: hey

btw, Janet, you made me look just a little bit like a bitch tonight (for no reason other than that I admitted that i was 24, something I'm not in control of. it's kind of a kick to the balls, if you think about it). Now, just so no one gets the wrong idea (especially women, who are perceptive to this type of thing and who I might have a vested interest in), i'd appreciate it if you would make another thread at some point in the near future to remedy this.

fwiw, I know we were both fucking around (i tease you a lot) and I seriously don't give a shit about the earl thread or whatever, and don't even care if I get "bitchmade" on a message board, other than the fact that it makes me look a little bad in front of other women who also post on xo and that I might have a vested interest. I found it amusing, but then after thinking about the results of what you did it started to irritate me a little.

Now, I'm not asking for anything other than that you correct this situation. It can be done in a way that doesn't make you look bad, and can be as simple as a single thread. Doesn't have to be now either.

Deal?

> On Tue, Jan 31, 2012 at 12:51 PM JULIA wrote:

Of course, Harrison --I didn't realize you had a vested interest in anything or anyone there. Do you have any ideas on ways that you think this can be appropriately remedied?

>> Cheers,

>> Janet

On Tue, Jan 31, 2012 at 7:34 PM, Harrison wrote:

> I don't fucking know, it's just a pain in the ass. I don't have time deal with xo shit atm.

just ....make a positive thread about me (doesn't have to be sexually suggestive or w/e) at some point, saying you find me attractive or w/e. Use your imagination.I don't exactly have a vested interest, but ..... well it's none of your business really, just someone who I don't want to look like a bitch in front of and fwiw, if you really are interested in me (I know you were flirting/flaming but most of the time that means there actually is an underlying interest) then just be straight about it. I know that behind most jokes is an element of truth. I find it laughable if you really think I am some 24 year old punk who is "intimidated" to fuck you or who you would be defiling then you're sorely mistaken. I'm not

some sheltered little nerd or someone whose innocence you would be robbing, if that's the idea you had. I'm not going into detail about my past but I don't exactly have a squeaky clean record and have done quite a bit in my life thus far. If I was seriously interested in you

rather than just flirting on xo and wasn't seeing someone(semi-seriously) at the moment, and you were interested in me, I would let you know i wanted to fuck your brains out, and I would do so without hesitation. There's nothing intimidating about an older woman

in stilettos. It's kind of amusing that you think of yourself as someone who scares guys. I don't know what the fuck is wrong with a guy if he doesn't get hard for a woman who wants to tear his clothes off but I can assure you that real men aren't like that, especially not me.

> Anyway, if you want to hang out sometime let me know. I'm not lying when I say I'm busy at the moment (I haven't even been hanging out with my friends lately), but I can probably meet you for drinks or something in the future. I'll contact you if I decide I want to meet you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4111673&forum_id=2#37066462)