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Teen girls call boys "rating" them TOXIC and call for legal action against them

jfc... https://www.nbcwashington.com/news/local/Students-at-...
Copper Liquid Oxygen
  03/26/19
blah blah blah
aphrodisiac bespoke meetinghouse laser beams
  03/26/19
reads like an Onion headline
fantasy-prone overrated range stain
  03/26/19
What the fuck do women expect IRL to be like??????
coral motley hall pervert
  03/26/19
They are quickly making exactly how they expect it
Yapping fragrant cruise ship knife
  03/29/19
https://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/2019/03/26/teen-boy...
coral motley hall pervert
  03/26/19
guy who lives in a first world country here, sup
Balding market legend
  03/26/19
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coral motley hall pervert
  03/26/19
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Red fat ankles
  03/29/19
You have to make some attempt to keep that shit sort of secr...
Nofapping lodge boistinker
  03/26/19
who fucking cares though, men have been doing it forever, an...
coral motley hall pervert
  03/26/19
"of course, rating the boys is empowering."
Mildly autistic mental disorder temple
  03/26/19
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seedy vivacious rehab puppy
  03/27/19
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Onyx jet-lagged pit
  03/27/19
Someone should do a rating of girls at some subset of the to...
razzle-dazzle deep ceo
  03/26/19
More like superset, GULC grad.
naked menage
  03/27/19
I'm gay, and have of course, many girlfriends. They are j...
Ruby dashing shrine
  03/26/19
lol you faggot why would you have "many girlfriends&quo...
Erotic Crawly Skinny Woman Church
  03/26/19
I mean, of course I have female friends. We talk about dick ...
Ruby dashing shrine
  03/27/19
Somehow I suspect the top 5 hottest girls passively aggressi...
know-it-all curious sanctuary
  03/27/19
...
seedy vivacious rehab puppy
  03/27/19
Big Titted _____ _______
bateful low-t wrinkle
  03/27/19
Unfuckingbelievable how much culture has changed in just ten...
Carnelian razzle headpube house
  03/27/19
...
Copper Liquid Oxygen
  03/27/19
There's one more group that deserves a fuck
Heady fishy jewess hominid
  03/29/19
XO was rating girls years ago.
Stirring brilliant whorehouse
  03/27/19
lol 95% of girls at that school would kill to be included on...
ruddy exhilarant affirmative action church building
  03/27/19
who won?
tan racy black woman
  03/27/19
...
Copper Liquid Oxygen
  03/28/19
you think the ones in the top 5 percent felt AMAZING after s...
tantric mother
  03/28/19
ljl at the lone facebook comment on the page
Mildly autistic mental disorder temple
  03/29/19
https://www.washingtonpost.com/resizer/XgIc1Kf__tGGY9XoFy3Hy...
Red fat ankles
  03/29/19
Another generation of boys emasculated for acknowledging the...
Yapping fragrant cruise ship knife
  03/29/19
Is Kavanaughs house zoned to that school? Need Professor Fo...
lavender concupiscible field
  03/29/19
why do ppl *still* believe that because something appears i...
charismatic autistic legal warrant spot
  03/29/19


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Date: March 26th, 2019 11:07 PM
Author: Copper Liquid Oxygen

jfc... https://www.nbcwashington.com/news/local/Students-at-Maryland-High-School-Ranked-Female-Classmates-Based-on-Looks-507320961.html

This is normal fucking male behavior. Just laugh it off. I fucking hate this aspect of feminism/modern leftist culture.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4229954&forum_id=2#37997122)



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Date: March 26th, 2019 11:08 PM
Author: aphrodisiac bespoke meetinghouse laser beams

blah blah blah

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4229954&forum_id=2#37997125)



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Date: March 26th, 2019 11:08 PM
Author: fantasy-prone overrated range stain

reads like an Onion headline

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4229954&forum_id=2#37997128)



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Date: March 26th, 2019 11:09 PM
Author: coral motley hall pervert

What the fuck do women expect IRL to be like??????

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4229954&forum_id=2#37997136)



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Date: March 29th, 2019 10:34 AM
Author: Yapping fragrant cruise ship knife

They are quickly making exactly how they expect it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4229954&forum_id=2#38009507)



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Date: March 26th, 2019 11:10 PM
Author: coral motley hall pervert

https://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/2019/03/26/teen-boys-rated-their-female-classmates-based-looks-girls-fought-back/

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4229954&forum_id=2#37997148)



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Date: March 26th, 2019 11:12 PM
Author: Balding market legend

guy who lives in a first world country here, sup

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4229954&forum_id=2#37997164)



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Date: March 26th, 2019 11:12 PM
Author: coral motley hall pervert



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4229954&forum_id=2#37997165)



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Date: March 29th, 2019 10:23 AM
Author: Red fat ankles



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4229954&forum_id=2#38009481)



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Date: March 26th, 2019 11:20 PM
Author: Nofapping lodge boistinker

You have to make some attempt to keep that shit sort of secret.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4229954&forum_id=2#37997232)



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Date: March 26th, 2019 11:24 PM
Author: coral motley hall pervert

who fucking cares though, men have been doing it forever, and women ... are you really THAT fucking flimsy? THIS sets you off? that weak and thin skinned">?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4229954&forum_id=2#37997260)



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Date: March 26th, 2019 11:24 PM
Author: Mildly autistic mental disorder temple

"of course, rating the boys is empowering."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4229954&forum_id=2#37997257)



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Date: March 27th, 2019 7:02 PM
Author: seedy vivacious rehab puppy



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4229954&forum_id=2#38001387)



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Date: March 27th, 2019 7:03 PM
Author: Onyx jet-lagged pit



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4229954&forum_id=2#38001391)



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Date: March 26th, 2019 11:46 PM
Author: razzle-dazzle deep ceo

Someone should do a rating of girls at some subset of the top law schools

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4229954&forum_id=2#37997386)



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Date: March 27th, 2019 1:15 AM
Author: naked menage

More like superset, GULC grad.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4229954&forum_id=2#37997701)



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Date: March 26th, 2019 11:49 PM
Author: Ruby dashing shrine

I'm gay, and have of course, many girlfriends.

They are just as, if not more, ruthless and scrutinizing with men.

They've no room to talk.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4229954&forum_id=2#37997395)



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Date: March 26th, 2019 11:52 PM
Author: Erotic Crawly Skinny Woman Church

lol you faggot why would you have "many girlfriends"?

(i'm calling you a fag because of your girlfriends not because you're gay)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4229954&forum_id=2#37997405)



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Date: March 27th, 2019 12:00 AM
Author: Ruby dashing shrine

I mean, of course I have female friends. We talk about dick and drink and the men we're fucking. But they're just as crass and uncouth as any man - maybe worse, ironically.

It's the same reason I wonder dudes aren't more friendly with lesbians and then I realize it's because lezzies are too lazy to leave their pitbulls and come hang and talk pussy and always seem to have the sjw agenda. (not always, but theory).

Gays and girls, we get right down to dicks and drinks. Natural synergy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4229954&forum_id=2#37997432)



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Date: March 27th, 2019 12:06 AM
Author: know-it-all curious sanctuary

Somehow I suspect the top 5 hottest girls passively aggressively publicized this injustice the most

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4229954&forum_id=2#37997452)



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Date: March 27th, 2019 7:03 PM
Author: seedy vivacious rehab puppy



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4229954&forum_id=2#38001389)



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Date: March 27th, 2019 12:10 AM
Author: bateful low-t wrinkle

Big Titted _____ _______

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4229954&forum_id=2#37997473)



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Date: March 27th, 2019 1:12 AM
Author: Carnelian razzle headpube house

Unfuckingbelievable how much culture has changed in just ten fucking years

Fuck technology, fuck society

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4229954&forum_id=2#37997691)



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Date: March 27th, 2019 6:45 PM
Author: Copper Liquid Oxygen



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4229954&forum_id=2#38001297)



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Date: March 29th, 2019 10:48 AM
Author: Heady fishy jewess hominid

There's one more group that deserves a fuck

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4229954&forum_id=2#38009558)



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Date: March 27th, 2019 1:13 AM
Author: Stirring brilliant whorehouse

XO was rating girls years ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4229954&forum_id=2#37997693)



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Date: March 27th, 2019 1:14 AM
Author: ruddy exhilarant affirmative action church building

lol 95% of girls at that school would kill to be included on that list, whether they were a 5 or 9

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4229954&forum_id=2#37997698)



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Date: March 27th, 2019 1:17 AM
Author: tan racy black woman

who won?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4229954&forum_id=2#37997712)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 2:01 AM
Author: Copper Liquid Oxygen



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4229954&forum_id=2#38003365)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 2:07 AM
Author: tantric mother

you think the ones in the top 5 percent felt AMAZING after seeing it?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4229954&forum_id=2#38003381)



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Date: March 29th, 2019 10:20 AM
Author: Mildly autistic mental disorder temple

ljl at the lone facebook comment on the page

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4229954&forum_id=2#38009476)



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Date: March 29th, 2019 10:26 AM
Author: Red fat ankles

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Teen boys rated their female classmates based on looks. The girls fought back.

Bethesda-Chevy Chase seniors Lee Schwartz, 18, Jane Corcoran, 17, and Nicky Schmidt, 17, were among the girls ranked on a list created by their male classmates earlier this month. (Samantha Schmidt/The Washington Post)

By Samantha Schmidt March 26

Yasmin Behbehani had just walked into her third-period health class when her friend asked her if she had seen the list.

“There’s a list of the girls’ names,” her friend Nicky Schmidt, a fellow senior at Bethesda-Chevy Chase High School in Maryland, said. “And we’re ranked.”

Behbehani didn’t want to see the list, or know whether she was on it. She had spent the past four years recovering from an eating disorder, working hard to avoid comparing herself with others, she said. But by her sixth-period class on that Monday earlier this month, a text message appeared on her phone with a screenshot of the list, typed out on the iPhone Notes app.

It included the names of 18 girls in the Bethesda-Chevy Chase High School’s International Baccalaureate Diploma Programme, ranked and rated on the basis of their looks, from 5.5 to 9.4, with decimal points to the hundredth place. There, with a number beside it, was Behbehani’s name.

A group of male students in their program created the list more than a year ago, but it resurfaced earlier this month, through text messages and whispers during class. One male classmate, seeing the name of his good friend Nicky Schmidt on the list, told her about it, and within 24 hours, dozens of girls had heard about the list.

Lists like this one had silently circulated among teen boys for generations, and it has happened in more recent years at Bethesda-Chevy Chase High School, too, the students said. But it was happening now, in the era of the #MeToo movement. Women had been standing up to harassment in workplaces and on college campuses and the high school girls, who had been witnessing this empowerment, decided they weren’t going to let the issue slide.

They felt violated, objectified by classmates they considered their friends. They felt uncomfortable getting up to go to the bathroom, worried that the boys might be scanning them and “editing their decimal points,” said Lee Schwartz, one of the other senior girls on the list.

[Teen boys rated their female classmates. Readers responded by sharing their own stories.]

“Knowing that my closest friends were talking to me and hanging out with me but under that, silently numbering me, it definitely felt like a betrayal,” Schwartz said. “I was their friend, but I guess also a number.”

But there is power in numbers, too. Dozens of senior girls decided to speak up to the school administration and to their male classmates, demanding not only disciplinary action in response to the list but a schoolwide reckoning about the toxic culture that allowed it to happen.

“It was the last straw, for us girls, of this ‘boys will be boys’ culture,” Behbehani said. “We’re the generation that is going to make a change.”

That same Monday, a group of girls reported the list to an administrator, who encouraged the students not to talk about it around school, Schmidt said. The next day, the girls learned that after an investigation, school officials decided to discipline one male student with in-school detention for one day, which would not show up on his record.

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Gloria Karekezi, one of several senior girls who has spoken up about the list, is working on an exhibit about toxic aspects of teen culture at Bethesda-Chevy Chase High School. (Sarah L. Voisin/The Washington Post)

Bethesda-Chevy Chase’s principal, Donna Redmond Jones, said an investigation revealed the list was made during school hours, and that “there was definitely discipline applied,” in line with the district’s code of conduct but that she could not give any more information because of privacy concerns.

Unsatisfied with the disciplinary action, Schmidt texted about 15 girls she knew, and told them to tell all of their friends to show up at the school’s main office the next day during lunch, “to tell them we feel unsafe in this environment and we are tired of this toxicity,” Schmidt wrote in her text.

About 40 senior girls showed up, packing into an assistant principal’s office as Schmidt read a statement she had written.

“We want to know what the school is doing to ensure our safety and security,” Schmidt said. “We should be able to learn in an environment without the constant presence of objectification and misogyny.”

The girls and administrators agreed that they should have a large meeting with the male students in the program, including the boys who created and circulated the list. That Friday, on International Women’s Day, almost all of the students in the IB program — about 80 students — met in a large conference room for what was supposed to be a 45-minute meeting during fifth period.

Instead, the meeting lasted two and a half hours. Several girls delivered personal and impassioned speeches describing not only their presence on the list but also their previous experiences with sexual abuse, harassment and objectification, both inside the school and outside of it.

“I feel it when walking home from school, I get catcalled by a man in a truck who repeatedly asks me to get in his car, and follows me home when I don’t,” said Rose Frank, one of the senior girls on the list, reading from a letter she had prepared. “I feel it when my mother tells me that my third ear piercing will ‘send the wrong message’ in a workplace setting, and that in the future it’s best to let my hair down for job interviews.”

[Beyond ‘no means no’: What most parents aren’t teaching their sons about sexual consent]

Sitting toward the center of the room during the meeting was the male student credited with creating the list, an 18-year-old senior in the IB program. After listening to all of the girls’ speeches, many of which were directed specifically to him, he stood up and spoke to the group, admitting to making the list and apologizing for the hurt it caused.

“It was quite intense, being so directly confronted in front of so many people for so long,” the student recalled in an interview with The Washington Post, speaking on the condition of anonymity out of fear of the repercussions he could face.

He recalled coming up with the list — which began in the 5 range for girls perceived to be average-looking — during a brief conversation with a friend during a fifth-period English class last year. He said he never distributed the list to anyone else in the grade, and he didn’t know how it began circulating earlier this month. But he took responsibility for what he said was a haphazard, “stupid decision.”

“When you have a culture where it’s just normal to talk about that, I guess making a list about it doesn’t seem like such a terrible thing to do, because you’re just used to discussing it,” he said in an interview. “I recognize that I’m in a position in this world generally where I have privilege. I’m a white guy at a very rich high school. It’s easy for me to lose sight of the consequences of my actions and kind of feel like I’m above something.”

While he regrets making the list, he said he was grateful that the girls spoke up. “It’s just a different time and things really do need to change,” he said. “This memory is not going to leave me anytime soon.”

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Students at Bethesda Chevy Chase High School are curating an art exhibit about toxic aspects of teen culture, partly in response to a recent list that ranked female students by their looks. (Sarah L. Voisin/The Washington Post)

Since that confrontational meeting, a co-ed group of senior students — including the boy who created the list — has been gathering on an almost weekly basis at lunch time to discuss how to prevent this sort of incident from happening again.

Jones, the school principal, said she has been proud to see the students take the lead on the meetings since the list emerged. “It takes bravery, it takes being vulnerable, it takes a sense of forgiveness,” she said.

The Bethesda-Chevy Chase students are planning a day next month in which pairs of students — one senior girl and one senior boy — will go to the younger students’ classes to talk about toxic masculinity, said Gabriella Capizzi, one of the senior girls taking the lead on the campaign.

Some students are also organizing a pop-up museum focused on the theme of cultural toxicity. While the event was planned before the list circulated, it has now taken on a new meaning, said Gloria Karekezi, a 17-year-old senior who is working on an exhibit and who has been a part of the ongoing efforts to speak up about the list.

With the two months of high school they have left, the seniors hope to set a precedent for the younger grades, Capizzi said.

“I wasn’t surprised by the list,” Capizzi said. “The kids like the kid who made the list aren’t the outliers. It’s the people who speak up about it that are. And that culture needs to change.”

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4229954&forum_id=2#38009488)



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Date: March 29th, 2019 10:44 AM
Author: Yapping fragrant cruise ship knife

Another generation of boys emasculated for acknowledging the female attractiveness hierarchy

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4229954&forum_id=2#38009551)



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Date: March 29th, 2019 10:35 AM
Author: lavender concupiscible field

Is Kavanaughs house zoned to that school? Need Professor Ford to weigh in here.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4229954&forum_id=2#38009517)



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Date: March 29th, 2019 10:54 AM
Author: charismatic autistic legal warrant spot

why do ppl *still* believe that because something appears in the (((mainstream media))), it has some kind of legitimacy?

this is such a scam.

Step 1. *WaPo publishes propaganda story concerning 3 people at an obscure high school*

Styep 2. *entire country of 300M ppl read story and take this as an indication that mass change to social policy is required immediately*

Step 3. *repeat, self-fulfilling prophecy initiated, etc*

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4229954&forum_id=2#38009598)