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Question for parents who work full time and spend 8 to 9 hou...
Flesh Metal Senate
  12/15/19
Those are literally the first four responses. It's dozens th...
Flesh Metal Senate
  12/15/19
Check-box lives. Their work obviously means more to them but...
honey-headed crotch
  12/15/19
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Flesh Metal Senate
  12/16/19
wow, profoundly depressing
misanthropic antidepressant drug resort
  12/16/19
180. Ljl at this fucking hellhole country
Alcoholic Lime Tanning Salon Pisswyrm
  12/16/19
At least these ppl are having kids. The real problem with so...
Startling crackhouse
  12/16/19
Stop shining the OYT-Signal so brightly, you're giving me a ...
Adulterous infuriating public bath famous landscape painting
  12/16/19
wtf is OYT
Dashing Station Dragon
  12/16/19
Oh, you travel? tp is our chief anti-natalist
Adulterous infuriating public bath famous landscape painting
  12/16/19
I’m more of a pessimist. Even though I personally won&...
Elite Parlour
  12/17/19
thought of him immediately too lmao. love that guy
misanthropic antidepressant drug resort
  12/16/19
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Elite Parlour
  12/17/19
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Massive deer antler pozpig
  12/17/19
this is kind of a faggy take. it's not "choosing hedon...
misanthropic antidepressant drug resort
  12/16/19
we live in a hyper-competitive neoliberal disaster
sticky box office sound barrier
  12/16/19
That is quite sad but the US has no laws mandating companies...
Chocolate center round eye
  12/16/19
Very sad and i had to do this once. There are unfortunately ...
cyan brethren
  12/16/19
child having is flame if ur not idle rich
bossy concupiscible brunch dog poop
  12/16/19
Or pregnant and illegal or single and jobless having multipl...
Slate Cuckold Tank
  12/16/19
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Comical duck-like chad hall
  12/17/19
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Flesh Metal Senate
  12/17/19
lol there is nobody to blame but these slaves themselves ...
Massive deer antler pozpig
  12/17/19
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Date: December 15th, 2019 4:53 PM
Author: Flesh Metal Senate

Question for parents who work full time and spend 8 to 9 hours at work and then some more commuting. If the baby is sleeping for 12 hours in the night and goes to day care, wont that mean that the baby will only come home from day care to sleep in the night? When do you spend time with the baby other than on weekends?

My maternity leave is going to end soon and I am already starting to miss spending all of my time with my precious little peanut.

Thank you so much.

Here are the answers....

"This is not an easy thing to accept but the truth is I don't spend most of his waking hours with him. My hope is that my husband can make a little more money in a few years but by then he'll be off to school. This is heartbreaking but a necessary part of life. Gotta pay the bills..."

"It sucks for sure. I basically decided I was leaving work early and then I’ll get back online after she goes to bed. I also try to schedule calls during my commute so that even if I’m not in the office for 8-9 hours, I’m still putting in the time. Luckily my work has been really flexible and accommodating. I also let her take her catnap on me (she doesn’t nap well at daycare so we usually have a small 5:30-6 nap when we get home). Hubby and I eat after she goes to bed so I’m not spending the little time I have with her cooking. I just try to make the most of the time we do have. No matter what, she is loved and you are doing the best you can!"

"While it not ideal, I have tried to make the time we do have quality time (quality over quantity for working moms!). He actually commutes with me, so in the morning we sing while getting dressed and having a bottle, talk and sing during the commute, and truly try to enjoy dinner, bath, book and bedtime. It's only about 1.5 non-car hours, but it's fun. I also feed him leftovers from the night before (we eat after his bedtime) so that meal prep doesn't take my attention away from him. And then weekends are amazing and I think we both enjoy them more!"

"My boy starts daycare tomorrow and I’ve cried about it three times already today. I’ll be dropping him off at 7 a.m. working 8-4:30, but with my commute I won’t be back to him until 5:45. I guess it will get easier, but I’m not sure I’ll be able to do it!"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4401786&forum_id=2#39269388)



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Date: December 15th, 2019 4:54 PM
Author: Flesh Metal Senate

Those are literally the first four responses. It's dozens that are even worse than these.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4401786&forum_id=2#39269391)



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Date: December 15th, 2019 5:10 PM
Author: honey-headed crotch

Check-box lives. Their work obviously means more to them but the pea-brains like to compete with each other, so they slide (out kid) and let do.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4401786&forum_id=2#39269440)



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Date: December 16th, 2019 12:20 AM
Author: Flesh Metal Senate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4401786&forum_id=2#39271057)



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Date: December 16th, 2019 12:22 AM
Author: misanthropic antidepressant drug resort

wow, profoundly depressing

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4401786&forum_id=2#39271061)



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Date: December 16th, 2019 12:23 AM
Author: Alcoholic Lime Tanning Salon Pisswyrm

180. Ljl at this fucking hellhole country

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4401786&forum_id=2#39271066)



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Date: December 16th, 2019 12:26 AM
Author: Startling crackhouse

At least these ppl are having kids. The real problem with society is that many people choose hedonism over reproduction entirely.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4401786&forum_id=2#39271071)



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Date: December 16th, 2019 12:28 AM
Author: Adulterous infuriating public bath famous landscape painting

Stop shining the OYT-Signal so brightly, you're giving me a headache

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4401786&forum_id=2#39271079)



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Date: December 16th, 2019 12:29 AM
Author: Dashing Station Dragon

wtf is OYT

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4401786&forum_id=2#39271080)



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Date: December 16th, 2019 12:30 AM
Author: Adulterous infuriating public bath famous landscape painting

Oh, you travel? tp is our chief anti-natalist

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4401786&forum_id=2#39271085)



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Date: December 17th, 2019 2:17 PM
Author: Elite Parlour

I’m more of a pessimist. Even though I personally won’t have kids for non-“hedonistic” reasons, I’m too much of a pessimist to think that antinatalism will ever be taken seriously beyond outsider circles. Basically I don’t believe anyone really has a choice or free will - those who will reproduce will, and those who won’t know who they are.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4401786&forum_id=2#39278874)



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Date: December 16th, 2019 12:32 AM
Author: misanthropic antidepressant drug resort

thought of him immediately too lmao. love that guy

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4401786&forum_id=2#39271092)



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Date: December 17th, 2019 2:09 PM
Author: Elite Parlour



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4401786&forum_id=2#39278828)



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Date: December 17th, 2019 2:12 PM
Author: Massive deer antler pozpig



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4401786&forum_id=2#39278851)



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Date: December 16th, 2019 12:31 AM
Author: misanthropic antidepressant drug resort

this is kind of a faggy take. it's not "choosing hedonism" as much as lack of opportunity/money and fear for our generation

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4401786&forum_id=2#39271088)



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Date: December 16th, 2019 1:40 AM
Author: sticky box office sound barrier

we live in a hyper-competitive neoliberal disaster

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4401786&forum_id=2#39271212)



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Date: December 16th, 2019 12:29 AM
Author: Chocolate center round eye

That is quite sad but the US has no laws mandating companies to offer time with children.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4401786&forum_id=2#39271083)



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Date: December 16th, 2019 1:55 AM
Author: cyan brethren

Very sad and i had to do this once. There are unfortunately a lot of single people who just don't give AF and actually blame you for having kids

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4401786&forum_id=2#39271225)



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Date: December 16th, 2019 2:02 AM
Author: bossy concupiscible brunch dog poop

child having is flame if ur not idle rich

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4401786&forum_id=2#39271230)



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Date: December 16th, 2019 2:19 AM
Author: Slate Cuckold Tank

Or pregnant and illegal or single and jobless having multiple baby daddies. Lol only the decent folk are fucked

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4401786&forum_id=2#39271241)



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Date: December 17th, 2019 2:27 PM
Author: Comical duck-like chad hall



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4401786&forum_id=2#39278944)



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Date: December 17th, 2019 2:07 PM
Author: Flesh Metal Senate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4401786&forum_id=2#39278817)



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Date: December 17th, 2019 2:12 PM
Author: Massive deer antler pozpig

lol there is nobody to blame but these slaves themselves

stop working for globohomo corps that demand all of your free time

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4401786&forum_id=2#39278850)



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Date: December 17th, 2019 3:44 PM
Author: Flesh Metal Senate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4401786&forum_id=2#39279525)