Date: March 23rd, 2024 10:04 AM
Author: mustard racy university
https://www.nytimes.com/2024/03/10/nyregion/hacienda-sex-club-consent.html
Who saw that coming?!
Also I'll save you some reading and include the best part:
And four people said that one former Hacienda resident — who went by the scene name Scary Ben — punched or brutally bit them during sex or removed condoms without consent.
Scary Ben’s behavior so concerned a group of female residents at Hacienda in 2012 that they convened a meeting to discuss him. When a Hacienda organizer learned of it, he took no action against the man, whose real name is Ben Doray, but excoriated the women in an email chain that included the Sparksfires.
“All it takes is for one motivated individual at one of these ‘symposiums’ to seek council of an attorney and sue us,” the organizer wrote, according to emails obtained by The Times. “They are discussing issues of nonconsent and risky behavior.”
Mr. Doray was still living in one of the brownstones about two years later, when another resident, Kristin Stadelmann-Ferreira, said he raped her in her room at the Hacienda Villa on Troutman Street.
She said Mr. Doray, a surrealist clown and burlesque performer who was known at Hacienda for his intense spanking demonstrations, forced her to have sex while she was wearing a tampon.
Ms. Stadelmann-Ferreira, who was romantically involved with Mr. Doray, said she told leadership about the episode but was ignored, in part, she said, because of her own erratic behavior. Shortly after the encounter with Mr. Doray, Ms. Stadelmann-Ferreira, who has schizophrenia, said she had a breakdown and ran naked onto Troutman Street. She was hospitalized for psychiatric care.
Mr. Doray, a surrealist clown and burlesque performer who was known at Hacienda for his intense spanking demonstrations
Ms. Stadelmann-Ferreira, who was romantically involved with Mr. Doray
Ms. Stadelmann-Ferreira, who has schizophrenia, said she had a breakdown and ran naked onto Troutman Street.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5507921&forum_id=2#47518973)