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There’s no upside to being honest with them in an exit interview, right?

Got an offer today and will be switching jobs next month. I&...
demanding soul-stirring lay twinkling uncleanness
  06/28/25
What would God want you to do?
Aromatic Station Friendly Grandma
  06/28/25
Just leave, who gives a shit
sadistic purple jap headpube
  06/28/25
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180 patrolman ape
  06/28/25
No one gives two fucks what you think.
emerald beady-eyed indian lodge nowag
  06/28/25
the power move would be not to do the exit interview at all,...
Cracking Violet Hunting Ground
  06/28/25
💯 don't bother with this. It's to find out of you're goin...
Flushed Cerebral Hospital
  06/28/25
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scarlet pervert theatre
  06/28/25
correct, do not do one, just ignore
Indecent Duck-like Round Eye Idiot
  06/28/25
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cruel-hearted electric filthpig
  06/28/25
Unless you make serious and direct allegations (he touched y...
glittery crackhouse wagecucks
  06/28/25
and even serious allegations will go nowhere, so whatever
180 patrolman ape
  06/28/25
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trip mahogany hominid boiling water
  06/28/25
You sound very gay and jewish Also stop doing adderall
Outnumbered Ruby Travel Guidebook
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Violent resort
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magenta karate feces
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filthy shitlib party of the first part
  06/28/25
Correct. If you really want to say something grab a beer wi...
Aromatic Station Friendly Grandma
  06/28/25
Have you learned nothing in life Honesty will only ever h...
gay heaven
  06/28/25
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scarlet pervert theatre
  06/28/25
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filthy shitlib party of the first part
  06/28/25
Just read ur actual op Lmfao r u a woman Holy shit ur a ...
gay heaven
  06/28/25
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talented translucent candlestick maker
  06/28/25
You seem to have no idea how any of this shit works. Are you...
mind-boggling university
  06/28/25
jewish family man you’re the bad guy if you hate t...
Outnumbered Ruby Travel Guidebook
  06/28/25
nobody cares
scarlet pervert theatre
  06/28/25
Why would you trash the Gen Xer? Seems like he has enough pr...
Excitant juggernaut
  06/28/25
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cruel-hearted electric filthpig
  06/28/25
lmao at OP imagining the company is going to implement his &...
adventurous green spot
  06/28/25
A light breeze could knock a Gen X manager off his perch ime
Excitant juggernaut
  06/28/25
Lmao at thinking an exit interview with an HR idiot is the w...
Deep canary water buffalo center
  06/28/25
You sound like a real POS “considering” whether ...
magenta karate feces
  06/28/25
he’s jewish
Outnumbered Ruby Travel Guidebook
  06/28/25
What kind of dude fucks with somebody’s livelihood jus...
cruel-hearted electric filthpig
  06/28/25
a jew
Outnumbered Ruby Travel Guidebook
  06/28/25
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scarlet pervert theatre
  06/29/25
Fuck this idiot. Destroy him. Have o3 write an email to the ...
ivory half-breed doctorate
  06/28/25


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Date: June 28th, 2025 9:58 AM
Author: demanding soul-stirring lay twinkling uncleanness

Got an offer today and will be switching jobs next month. I’m not going to seek out an exit interview but I strongly suspect the HR person is going to want to document my feedback because I’m being poached by a competitor and several execs in the business will find out this week and will talk to me about it, and she will want to try to find out what I told them. I have an opportunity in all this to trash our group’s lead VP, and he’s likely already on shaky enough ground that it could at a minimum help to block any future progress up the ladder, and could possibly result in a demotion for him. Arguably this is what’s best for the team I’m leaving ie the guy is not evil or sadistic like a boomer but he’s like an archetypal Gen X beta who is drowning and losing the game of thrones at his new level that he only got to like a year ago. It’s a pretty standard issue Peter principle scenario where he’s retreating to tactical stuff because he’s overwhelmed by his failures and invisibility in terms of strategic stuff. But thinking about it especially from a pure self interest perspective it seems much smarter to say nothing about any of this and not get into any of the many pointed critiques I have of him along these lines with many on-point examples of his limitations. Curious if XO agrees.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055924)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:16 AM
Author: Aromatic Station Friendly Grandma

What would God want you to do?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055956)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:02 AM
Author: sadistic purple jap headpube

Just leave, who gives a shit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055930)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 2:59 PM
Author: 180 patrolman ape



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056415)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:04 AM
Author: emerald beady-eyed indian lodge nowag

No one gives two fucks what you think.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055935)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:09 AM
Author: Cracking Violet Hunting Ground

the power move would be not to do the exit interview at all, and that's what i'd recommend in this scenario. the main purpose of the exit interview is to identify and mitigate any potential legal risk from your departure.

whatever negative feedback you give for the VP will almost certainly be swept under the rug as it does not sound significant enough to warrant investigation/intervention. also, you could potentially burn a bridge.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055944)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:17 AM
Author: Flushed Cerebral Hospital

💯 don't bother with this. It's to find out of you're going to sue them or if they can sue you

Nothing else you say matters

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055959)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:26 AM
Author: scarlet pervert theatre



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055977)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:10 AM
Author: Indecent Duck-like Round Eye Idiot

correct, do not do one, just ignore

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056036)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:34 AM
Author: cruel-hearted electric filthpig



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056088)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:44 AM
Author: glittery crackhouse wagecucks

Unless you make serious and direct allegations (he touched your special spot and tried to coerce you into sex), it's going nowhere



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056107)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 3:00 PM
Author: 180 patrolman ape

and even serious allegations will go nowhere, so whatever

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056419)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:36 PM
Author: trip mahogany hominid boiling water



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056191)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:11 AM
Author: Outnumbered Ruby Travel Guidebook

You sound very gay and jewish

Also stop doing adderall

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055949)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:08 AM
Author: Violent resort



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056032)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:35 PM
Author: magenta karate feces



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056186)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 9:38 PM
Author: filthy shitlib party of the first part



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49057099)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:15 AM
Author: Aromatic Station Friendly Grandma

Correct. If you really want to say something grab a beer with your boss in a month.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055955)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:17 AM
Author: gay heaven

Have you learned nothing in life

Honesty will only ever hurt you in life especially in a "work" environment

Modernity demands you never tell the truth in a satanic humiliation ritual

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055962)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:26 AM
Author: scarlet pervert theatre



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055978)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 9:38 PM
Author: filthy shitlib party of the first part



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49057100)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:18 AM
Author: gay heaven

Just read ur actual op

Lmfao r u a woman

Holy shit ur a faggot

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055964)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:27 AM
Author: talented translucent candlestick maker



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056066)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:21 AM
Author: mind-boggling university

You seem to have no idea how any of this shit works. Are you a zoomer?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055972)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:53 AM
Author: Outnumbered Ruby Travel Guidebook

jewish family man

you’re the bad guy if you hate these “people” btw

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056115)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:27 AM
Author: scarlet pervert theatre

nobody cares

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055983)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:35 AM
Author: Excitant juggernaut

Why would you trash the Gen Xer? Seems like he has enough problems.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055997)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:35 AM
Author: cruel-hearted electric filthpig



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056090)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:46 AM
Author: adventurous green spot

lmao at OP imagining the company is going to implement his "recommendations"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056010)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:59 AM
Author: Excitant juggernaut

A light breeze could knock a Gen X manager off his perch ime

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056023)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:13 PM
Author: Deep canary water buffalo center

Lmao at thinking an exit interview with an HR idiot is the way to get at someone. You just look like a butthurt asshole pulling something like that. Either voice it when you’re there or stfu on the way out

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056151)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:25 PM
Author: magenta karate feces

You sound like a real POS “considering” whether to torpedo some poor schlub who - per your story - never did anything remotely comparably bad to you.

You are also completely clueless about how businesses/HR depts function and it’s going to be hilarious when that bites you in the ass soon.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056166)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:30 PM
Author: Outnumbered Ruby Travel Guidebook

he’s jewish

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056175)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 1:51 PM
Author: cruel-hearted electric filthpig

What kind of dude fucks with somebody’s livelihood just to “help” some company he’s leaving. Really shitty man

Was legit in this situation 3 months ago and took the interview bc I may go back there. My boss had no idea what he was doing but was chill and I had a lot of free time as a result. Obviously didn’t throw him under the bus as I was leaving

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056328)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 3:30 PM
Author: Outnumbered Ruby Travel Guidebook

a jew

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056479)



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Date: June 29th, 2025 7:16 AM
Author: scarlet pervert theatre



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49057567)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 2:50 PM
Author: ivory half-breed doctorate

Fuck this idiot. Destroy him. Have o3 write an email to the CEO/COO/CFO

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056402)