As many of you know I started on SA immediately following my divorce and had a good run. Since then I've switched to app dating after not getting much action initially and now I've been doing pretty well.

I'm not particularly photogenic but i take decent care of myself so I've noticed that while I don't have tons of matches, when I do, the chicks are pretty attractive and generally speaking I have a very good conversion rate if I want to meet up and from there I have a 99% conversion rate to second dates if I want.

LOL, the one exception to NO SECOND DATE BREAKFAST was the one SA chick with the permanent unfixable spinal condition that causes chronic pain and a non verbal highly special needs autistic son.

Every girl I've met via apps I've had a second date with and I believe I've eventually slept with every girl I've met up with in person if I wanted. Maybe not the first date, although plenty there also.

In general, I've actually noticed that once you're on the apps for a while and your algo gets figured out, you actually get much hotter and higher quality chicks than SA.

Given the above I'll outline my most serious prospects first followed by some ljl stories from some of the more crazy chicks.

Serious Prospects:

So far dated a girl in the intermountain west for a few months who was a complete smokeshow, in insane shape, good career, ripping skiier, etc. We split as I was coming back to socal for a few trials and she was going to be traveling for a few months. We both plan on dating each other more seriously in the future, most likely for the winter when I'm pretty much out there more permanently.

Here's a pic... She's not the type to send nudes.

https://imgur.com/a/sHTpER3

Prospect 2 - Early 30s, has a good job and similar hobbies. We've just started talking but are meeting up soon, we have some mutual friends and they've said good things about her. We'll see what happens.

https://ibb.co/S4xv87gx

https://ibb.co/wZJyBShd

https://ibb.co/zTQWBkt7

Retired Prospect 3 - Dated a single mother for a while in the intermountain west. She was very sweet, pretty good in bed and was fun to hang out with. She was 30, but already had two kids that were 6 and 8 thanks to a past of mormonism lol. Broke it off because I met prospect 1 and we got more serious. She was bummed but understood.

https://ibb.co/twwbWc7S

https://ibb.co/qMqjypPw

Retired Prospect 4 - I'm sure you bros remember this one... She was the bossy one that I was initially posting about as hot and got somewhat roasted by poasters for stating a 40 yr old white woman was hot. In hindsight I can acknowledge the error of my ways and agree I should have passed on her. However, I do think dating her was good in the sense that it initially boosted my algo and led to higher quality prospects since we met up.

https://ibb.co/pvhkDddk

The most of these higher quality chicks I date the more it is feeding me so the poasters commenting on the algo are definitely right. You need to be pretty discerning even in times of horniness. It also seems to help to constantly be getting off the apps and then re-starting. This happens basically every time I date a chick where we'll start hooking up and I'll stop checking the apps for a few weeks till it ends. Then I jump back on and it's like a goldmine.

The Wilder Stories...

Girl 1 - Most Insane

This girl had a slutty vibe and I was interesting pretty much solely in fucking her. We met off tinder as she came over, was about an hour late but whatever. I had her come upstairs and as soon as we're in the elevator she was rubbing my chest telling me I was way hotter in person, she was stoked, etc.

We go upstairs, have a drink and then decide to go get drinks. she's continuing to touch me, telling me she thinks im super hot, she's really happy, etc. We go get drinks, more of the same, she's sitting right up next to me, rubbing my leg, kissing at the restaurant, seems like a done deal.

We have a couple drinks and go home, make out for a second in the elevator, get upstairs and have a drink and she goes I should probably tell you how I like sex... I really like it when the guy takes charge and just fucks me. I like it hard and a little rough and just want to be taken. BUT, I don't think sex should last longer than 10 mins. Don't put on a performance, 5-10 mins is perfect. I'm like cool that works for me.

Then she goes, but I like you and I don't sleep with people on the first date. I go all good, no worries.

5 mins later we're making out and and I'm rubbing her pussy and she stops me and says she can't. Ok whatever we can just hang out.

Then literally out of the blue she says "I should just have you bang me out shouldn't I, I think I need it". I go that sounds good to me.

So she makes me get a condom and we start fucking. Literally like a min in she claims she just came. I've fucked enough chicks to know that's not how it works but whatever. She tells me to stop cause it's too sensitive. We stop for like a minute then start fucking again and I've very delicately starting to be just a little rough and I think I said somethign to the affect of "you like when i take control don't you". Then like a min later she stops me, tells me it felt weird and "too aggressive". Like WTF!!!!

We stop and at this point I'm like this is fucking stupid and more trouble than it's worth so I just take the condom off. 2 mins later she's crying and telling me she had some sexual trauma and she's sorry, she knows its not me, its her, she thought she was ready, etc. Starts talking about her best friend dying, etc. Just absolutely bizarre behavior. lol.

Then she was telling me how bad she wanted to do coke... It was 12 am on a tues night. Then she wanted to do shrooms. I was like I'm not doing either, I gotta go to bed I have work tmw. She left, never talked again haha.

Pics: https://imgur.com/a/Y9nV7uR

I wonder if she showed up gakked out and then the coke wore off and that's why she wanted to stop fucking. She was talking a mile a minute.

Crazy Chick #2

https://ibb.co/20DJpvV4

https://ibb.co/6R7wwtgf

This one is 26 and we met on an app. Just a dumb hot stoner chick. We were texting and supposed to meet on fri even though i was pushing for her to hang that night which was mon. She says no, she likes for the chemistry to build, etc.

Then she starts texting me about sex shit a little. "Dating has been mid, dudes are just terrible in bed, weirdos, I always take breaks and then get back on" etc. I'm like yeah its hard to find ppl you're sexually compatible with kinda hinting at the fact I'm a sexual deviant.

Then she's like is it too soon to exchange nudes? I'll send you some if you send one back. I'm like sure. She sends me a few I send her one back and a dick pic. Immediately she goes holy shit you have a really nice cock, I want it now.

10 mins later, she goes fuck it im gonna come over.

She comes over we smoke a joint hang out for a few hrs in my house and then she goes "Are you gonna give me the tour". We go back to my bedroom and pretty much immediately start fucking and right away she's like i need that fucking cock.

I fucked her so hard for like an hr. We stopped for 30 mins and fucked again, and that basically continued all night long. She screamed at me to fuck her like an animal, "I want to cum deep inside my tight little pussy and fertilize me daddy" etc etc.

She ended up coming over every night for like a week and the sex was consistenly amazing but she was pretty dumb and it was clear she was looking for a relationship. I very clearly told her I'm not getting involved in anything before winter since I'll move to the intermountain west for the winter. She initially said ok then we'll have to stop hanging out and I didn't respond. 30 mins later she texts me, nm, I just need that dick. I'm good with NSA sex.

Cool, she comes back over. We fuck all night again. Then I go hey you can bring like a small bag over if you want since we're pretty much hanging out all the time anyway, at least till my trial starts in a few weeks and I leave in a few months.

She shows up the next day with a massive thing of luggage. Initially I'm like wtf but sorta just rolled with it.

We keep hanging out, smoking tons of weed, whatever. Sex remains insane. Somewhere along the line it basically comes out that she moved out of her roommates house and into mine. Immediately I'm like wtf you didn't tell me that this is weird.

Tell her she needs to have somewhere else to live, etc. Literally 3 days later she's gone, founds a new dude, all her shit is out of my house lol. Pretty much ended perfectly with zero fanfare and I was ready for it to be over anyway.

Pics and Videos (a lot of these are nudes so they may get taken down so pls let me know if links don't work)

Nudes:

https://ibb.co/gF4R3Sz5

https://ibb.co/TqbnyJLy

https://ibb.co/rGTg8CMY

Video:

https://streamable.com/mqsmx3

For many of you who made it this far, here's your reward which is a picture of my cock.

https://ibb.co/N2xdWT0N

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5762764&forum_id=2#49188062)

But after fucking probably 30-40 chicks in the past 9 months, I'm ready to chill out with someone cool who's hot.

This whole dating process post divorce has been pretty eye opening. I felt like I would be forever alone post divorce, didn't know where I'd meet ppl, felt I was unphotogenic and would do horrible on apps, etc.

It turns out if you're just yourself unapologetically, somewhat emotionally in tune and fun to be around you can basically date any hot chick you want. Even more so if you have some money and a career. Most of the girls I'm dating now I would have considered way out of my league before my marriage and certainly during my marriage and in fact if anything many are clamoring to lock me down.

So it's been an interesting ride and the longer I'm single the more I'm discerning about who I swipe on, who I meet up with. At this point if they aren't in insanely good shape and very attractive I'm not even swiping. Too meet up they have to at least keep me entertained.

It's really not worth it to date really dumb hot chicks just so you can sleep with them as it just gets old and annoying after a few weeks.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5762764&forum_id=2#49188253)

Then they end up with the same issues and rinse and repeat.

I spent a fair amount of time looking at myself, my part, my emotions/feelings, etc before i ended my marriage and after. I realized that a significant problem was my ex and I's dynamic just wasn't healthy.

I now look for ppl who can communicate openly and effectively, are empathetic and kind, which is something i placed less priority on before. In other words, just looking for cheerful postive ppl in general.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5762764&forum_id=2#49188346)

Imgur is deleting them

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5762764&forum_id=2#49188126)

So we both decided to slow it down and take a break to give her time to work on her own shit, get over her past breakup, etc. It worked because I'm out of the intermountain west for the next several months anyway and she'll be traveling.

We just started texting again after about 2-3 weeks off of just some sporadic insta messaging. Things seem to be picking up right where they left off which is good so we'll see what happens this winter.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5762764&forum_id=2#49188260)

Also, can someone remind me the best video hosting platform for nude vids? Thx

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5762764&forum_id=2#49188277)

If they see my apt they probably put together I have money but there's little indication of it when we first meet unless they see my credit card or tiny pink chase private client card.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5762764&forum_id=2#49188338)

No. 2 I'm gonna try to meet up with this weekend as then I leave for a few weeks for a trial.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5762764&forum_id=2#49188357)

Retired #3 is pretty

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5762764&forum_id=2#49188424)

No joke she had barely anything in her fridge but was like i want to make you dinner and just figured something out that was amazing. The next night she made an actual dinner after going to the grocery store. Like fish on a salad with grilled chopped veggies that was all amazing and all made completely from scratch including dressing.

Both 1 and 2 have solid careers making 170-250k/yr. Both are super active, both have well off families but seem down to earth like they were raised well.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5762764&forum_id=2#49188403)

https://ibb.co/993FGnVf

https://ibb.co/vC5Fq9Pk

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5762764&forum_id=2#49188366)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5762764&forum_id=2#49188431)