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How fucked am I financially be honest

40 $175k in 401k Government pension Salary about $...
Heady Milk Mood
  06/27/25
Did you lose your job? Do you have any cash savings? D...
Curious Travel Guidebook
  06/27/25
No didn’t lose my job lol. It’s pretty secure go...
Heady Milk Mood
  06/27/25
How much on the mortgage? Spouse/kids? Seems like you'...
Curious Travel Guidebook
  06/27/25
Dead honest about $375k left on the $500k house.
Heady Milk Mood
  06/27/25
I mean, the spouse/kids question is really what matters. If...
Curious Travel Guidebook
  06/27/25
Wife is SAHM just easier with the kids than her making her p...
Heady Milk Mood
  06/27/25
youre not fucked at all until your divorce. your kids are ab...
Adventurous pearly puppy corner
  06/27/25
lol been with my wife for 20 years. We’re not getting ...
Heady Milk Mood
  06/27/25
You have next to nothing to give them, and a leg up on other...
Orange love of her life
  06/27/25
Oof. That seems rough, tbh.
Curious Travel Guidebook
  06/27/25
If he puts in enough years, he's fine on the pension. We're ...
Orange love of her life
  06/27/25
What happens in that kind of role if you just start phoning ...
copper chapel
  06/28/25
i fucking hate xo posters so motherfucking GOD DAMN MUCH YOU...
Sienna Aggressive Heaven Newt
  06/27/25
🙀
Motley Garrison Internal Respiration
  06/28/25
lol, you're in the 1 percent at 40
ocher dilemma
  06/27/25
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lake theatre dragon
  06/27/25
ran here to say what pm said above. your job is easily top 1...
Adventurous pearly puppy corner
  06/27/25
you say "100k in stocks" but then "laughable ...
Electric slate digit ratio
  06/27/25
You’re better off than me man. 70k in 401k 110k ...
Amethyst theater stage
  06/27/25
Are you like 25?
Curious Travel Guidebook
  06/27/25
38. Just recently stated making this much money. Unless ...
Amethyst theater stage
  06/27/25
Fed gov pension means you will though, right? Assuming the ...
Curious Travel Guidebook
  06/27/25
Honestly it won’t. I used to worry about this, if this...
Heady Milk Mood
  06/27/25
Im gay
Spruce razzle rigpig
  06/27/25
Fucked due to your Judaic neuroticism
Cowardly histrionic trust fund corn cake
  06/27/25
MFCR
Sienna Aggressive Heaven Newt
  06/27/25
With a pension you don’t need any savings. Your pensio...
alcoholic crackhouse
  06/27/25
Thanks 🙏
Heady Milk Mood
  06/27/25
...
Amethyst theater stage
  06/27/25
just make sure you buy good life insurance for your family i...
transparent fiercely-loyal trailer park
  06/27/25
You don't put anything into a pension. It's not like you can...
Henna aphrodisiac library
  06/27/25
Yeah wtf is this guy talking about lmao. I pay like 2% of my...
Heady Milk Mood
  06/27/25
1. actually you do put a lot of money into it, though you're...
transparent fiercely-loyal trailer park
  06/27/25
How much do you owe on the home? If your savings suck becau...
Floppy frisky goyim deer antler
  06/27/25
seems fine
Insecure thriller house
  06/27/25
You seem fine tbh. Are you supporting a decent sized family?...
Carnelian stock car doctorate
  06/27/25
How does one get in such a shit position lmfao
Dark vibrant multi-billionaire clown
  06/28/25
Earning 200k and having a 500k house is awesome and you shou...
Talking frozen halford
  06/28/25
Zero daycare. Our district has universal pre k
Heady Milk Mood
  06/28/25


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Date: June 27th, 2025 3:53 PM
Author: Heady Milk Mood

40

$175k in 401k

Government pension

Salary about $200k

$500k home.

$100k in stocks

Laughable savings but I’m fine to live.

Completely depressed but I want people to speak honestly to me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5743867&forum_id=2#49054536)



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Date: June 27th, 2025 3:54 PM
Author: Curious Travel Guidebook

Did you lose your job?

Do you have any cash savings?

Do you have any debt?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5743867&forum_id=2#49054540)



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Date: June 27th, 2025 3:57 PM
Author: Heady Milk Mood

No didn’t lose my job lol. It’s pretty secure gov lawyer. I have a pretty high position that I really can’t get fired. Just a lot of stress bc of the level I’m at but it’s meaningless work and no one really cares.

Savings is complete shit but I could lose my job and live for a year I guess.

Zero debt except for mortgage. Cars paid off.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5743867&forum_id=2#49054551)



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Date: June 27th, 2025 3:58 PM
Author: Curious Travel Guidebook

How much on the mortgage?

Spouse/kids?

Seems like you're generally fine.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5743867&forum_id=2#49054557)



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Date: June 27th, 2025 3:59 PM
Author: Heady Milk Mood

Dead honest about $375k left on the $500k house.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5743867&forum_id=2#49054561)



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Date: June 27th, 2025 4:03 PM
Author: Curious Travel Guidebook

I mean, the spouse/kids question is really what matters. If you're single and always will be then that's fine. If you have kids and a spouse that doesn't significantly change the numbers then that's tough for sure.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5743867&forum_id=2#49054576)



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Date: June 27th, 2025 4:14 PM
Author: Heady Milk Mood

Wife is SAHM just easier with the kids than her making her pre-kids shit salary. Benefits though is amazing school district and universal pre-K so no money on daycare.

And no basketball trophies in the HS lobby.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5743867&forum_id=2#49054601)



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Date: June 27th, 2025 4:16 PM
Author: Adventurous pearly puppy corner

youre not fucked at all until your divorce. your kids are absolutely fucked for life.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5743867&forum_id=2#49054610)



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Date: June 27th, 2025 4:17 PM
Author: Heady Milk Mood

lol been with my wife for 20 years. We’re not getting divorced.

How are kids fucked?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5743867&forum_id=2#49054614)



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Date: June 27th, 2025 5:31 PM
Author: Orange love of her life

You have next to nothing to give them, and a leg up on others is increasingly important to make it. Soon, it will be virtually impossible without one

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5743867&forum_id=2#49054767)



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Date: June 27th, 2025 4:57 PM
Author: Curious Travel Guidebook

Oof. That seems rough, tbh.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5743867&forum_id=2#49054701)



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Date: June 27th, 2025 5:33 PM
Author: Orange love of her life

If he puts in enough years, he's fine on the pension. We're all paying at that point to retire him out

That's worth an obligatory "fuck you, you deadbeat piece of shit" to the op, but it's more the ones who made the game who are at fault than the small fry playing it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5743867&forum_id=2#49054774)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:18 AM
Author: copper chapel

What happens in that kind of role if you just start phoning it in? Get reassigned to a line attorney role?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5743867&forum_id=2#49055966)



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Date: June 27th, 2025 3:55 PM
Author: Sienna Aggressive Heaven Newt

i fucking hate xo posters so motherfucking GOD DAMN MUCH YOU SHOULD DIE IRL AND NOT BECAUSE YOUR RETIREMENT FUND IS INADEQUATE

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5743867&forum_id=2#49054545)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:58 PM
Author: Motley Garrison Internal Respiration

🙀

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5743867&forum_id=2#49056241)



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Date: June 27th, 2025 3:57 PM
Author: ocher dilemma

lol, you're in the 1 percent at 40

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5743867&forum_id=2#49054549)



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Date: June 27th, 2025 4:00 PM
Author: lake theatre dragon



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5743867&forum_id=2#49054562)



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Date: June 27th, 2025 3:59 PM
Author: Adventurous pearly puppy corner

ran here to say what pm said above. your job is easily top 1%. fedgov is the cushiest shit imaginable.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5743867&forum_id=2#49054560)



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Date: June 27th, 2025 4:01 PM
Author: Electric slate digit ratio

you say "100k in stocks" but then "laughable savings"

which is it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5743867&forum_id=2#49054568)



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Date: June 27th, 2025 4:02 PM
Author: Amethyst theater stage

You’re better off than me man.

70k in 401k

110k in crypto. Lot of this was from SOL, Link, couple meme coins

40k in savings

Married with kid and live in NYC. Make 180k per year.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5743867&forum_id=2#49054574)



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Date: June 27th, 2025 4:04 PM
Author: Curious Travel Guidebook

Are you like 25?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5743867&forum_id=2#49054581)



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Date: June 27th, 2025 4:07 PM
Author: Amethyst theater stage

38. Just recently stated making this much money.

Unless I get lucky with crypto, will prob never be able to retire.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5743867&forum_id=2#49054588)



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Date: June 27th, 2025 4:57 PM
Author: Curious Travel Guidebook

Fed gov pension means you will though, right? Assuming the whole thing doesn't implode which it really might.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5743867&forum_id=2#49054702)



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Date: June 27th, 2025 5:41 PM
Author: Heady Milk Mood

Honestly it won’t. I used to worry about this, if this happens the world has bigger problems

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5743867&forum_id=2#49054791)



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Date: June 27th, 2025 4:04 PM
Author: Spruce razzle rigpig

Im gay

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5743867&forum_id=2#49054582)



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Date: June 27th, 2025 4:05 PM
Author: Cowardly histrionic trust fund corn cake

Fucked due to your Judaic neuroticism

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5743867&forum_id=2#49054583)



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Date: June 27th, 2025 4:06 PM
Author: Sienna Aggressive Heaven Newt

MFCR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5743867&forum_id=2#49054587)



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Date: June 27th, 2025 4:16 PM
Author: alcoholic crackhouse

With a pension you don’t need any savings. Your pension is probably worth $5 million to give you whatever returns it’s going to give you in retirement.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5743867&forum_id=2#49054612)



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Date: June 27th, 2025 4:17 PM
Author: Heady Milk Mood

Thanks 🙏

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5743867&forum_id=2#49054615)



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Date: June 27th, 2025 4:19 PM
Author: Amethyst theater stage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5743867&forum_id=2#49054616)



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Date: June 27th, 2025 5:00 PM
Author: transparent fiercely-loyal trailer park

just make sure you buy good life insurance for your family in case you unexpectedly kick it. pensions depend on people dying before they collect what they put in.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5743867&forum_id=2#49054709)



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Date: June 27th, 2025 5:24 PM
Author: Henna aphrodisiac library

You don't put anything into a pension. It's not like you can opt out.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5743867&forum_id=2#49054747)



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Date: June 27th, 2025 5:40 PM
Author: Heady Milk Mood

Yeah wtf is this guy talking about lmao. I pay like 2% of my check forever into the pension for a lifetime of almost 75% of my salary (after you factor other extras in).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5743867&forum_id=2#49054790)



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Date: June 27th, 2025 10:59 PM
Author: transparent fiercely-loyal trailer park

1. actually you do put a lot of money into it, though you're right you can't opt out so i guess in a sense you're not spending it, but more importantly 2. this was in response to the not uncommon comment that pensionmos can just blow their paychecks. that math only works out if you live long enough to benefit from the pension. yeah, if you live to 95, you're going to make a ton of money so why bother saving while you're working. but if you have a heart attack the year after you retire, you made nothing and saved nothing and your family is fucked. so if you're going to ball out pre-retirement make sure you get a nice life insurance policy, because plenty of people drop dead before they reap the rewards. that's part the way they stay solvent. a pension is deferred income, you need to hedge it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5743867&forum_id=2#49055406)



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Date: June 27th, 2025 5:33 PM
Author: Floppy frisky goyim deer antler

How much do you owe on the home? If your savings suck because you paid it down very quickly, you really need to reflect on how to run your life’s balance sheet.

Kids & college savings? Or can you accelerate the savings from here?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5743867&forum_id=2#49054773)



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Date: June 27th, 2025 9:13 PM
Author: Insecure thriller house

seems fine

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5743867&forum_id=2#49055231)



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Date: June 27th, 2025 11:04 PM
Author: Carnelian stock car doctorate

You seem fine tbh. Are you supporting a decent sized family? I tell you what I’d be balling out of control if it weren’t for my family siphoning off every red cent.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5743867&forum_id=2#49055412)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:20 AM
Author: Dark vibrant multi-billionaire clown

How does one get in such a shit position lmfao

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5743867&forum_id=2#49055971)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 2:10 PM
Author: Talking frozen halford

Earning 200k and having a 500k house is awesome and you should generally feel rich as fuck, especially after you stop paying for daycare. This was me 5 years ago just as Covid started and it’s easily the most financially secure I’ve felt in my entire adult life just in time for Covid to give the economy incurable AIDS.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5743867&forum_id=2#49056352)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 4:16 PM
Author: Heady Milk Mood

Zero daycare.

Our district has universal pre k

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5743867&forum_id=2#49056555)