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There’s no upside to being honest with them in an exit interview, right?

Got an offer today and will be switching jobs next month. I&...
180 up-to-no-good mood orchestra pit
  06/28/25
What would God want you to do?
Canary dilemma clown
  06/28/25
Just leave, who gives a shit
Harsh hyperventilating multi-billionaire
  06/28/25
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provocative sanctuary
  06/28/25
No one gives two fucks what you think.
Aromatic black woman
  06/28/25
the power move would be not to do the exit interview at all,...
hairraiser property
  06/28/25
💯 don't bother with this. It's to find out of you're goin...
cyan hospital deer antler
  06/28/25
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electric crystalline location
  06/28/25
correct, do not do one, just ignore
poppy potus
  06/28/25
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painfully honest excitant hissy fit selfie
  06/28/25
Unless you make serious and direct allegations (he touched y...
Arousing gunner
  06/28/25
and even serious allegations will go nowhere, so whatever
provocative sanctuary
  06/28/25
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Chrome famous landscape painting
  06/28/25
You sound very gay and jewish Also stop doing adderall
pale volcanic crater ape
  06/28/25
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tan theater stage pistol
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Nubile infuriating forum
  06/28/25
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Diverse Dull Kitty Point
  06/28/25
Correct. If you really want to say something grab a beer wi...
Canary dilemma clown
  06/28/25
Have you learned nothing in life Honesty will only ever h...
Fantasy-prone razzle stock car chapel
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electric crystalline location
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Diverse Dull Kitty Point
  06/28/25
Just read ur actual op Lmfao r u a woman Holy shit ur a ...
Fantasy-prone razzle stock car chapel
  06/28/25
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shaky sneaky criminal
  06/28/25
You seem to have no idea how any of this shit works. Are you...
Yellow Thirsty Kitchen
  06/28/25
jewish family man you’re the bad guy if you hate t...
pale volcanic crater ape
  06/28/25
nobody cares
electric crystalline location
  06/28/25
Why would you trash the Gen Xer? Seems like he has enough pr...
navy library
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painfully honest excitant hissy fit selfie
  06/28/25
lmao at OP imagining the company is going to implement his &...
Supple tank national security agency
  06/28/25
A light breeze could knock a Gen X manager off his perch ime
navy library
  06/28/25
Lmao at thinking an exit interview with an HR idiot is the w...
Black cerebral theater community account
  06/28/25
You sound like a real POS “considering” whether ...
Nubile infuriating forum
  06/28/25
he’s jewish
pale volcanic crater ape
  06/28/25
What kind of dude fucks with somebody’s livelihood jus...
painfully honest excitant hissy fit selfie
  06/28/25
a jew
pale volcanic crater ape
  06/28/25
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electric crystalline location
  06/29/25
Fuck this idiot. Destroy him. Have o3 write an email to the ...
Vibrant abusive senate
  06/28/25


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Date: June 28th, 2025 9:58 AM
Author: 180 up-to-no-good mood orchestra pit

Got an offer today and will be switching jobs next month. I’m not going to seek out an exit interview but I strongly suspect the HR person is going to want to document my feedback because I’m being poached by a competitor and several execs in the business will find out this week and will talk to me about it, and she will want to try to find out what I told them. I have an opportunity in all this to trash our group’s lead VP, and he’s likely already on shaky enough ground that it could at a minimum help to block any future progress up the ladder, and could possibly result in a demotion for him. Arguably this is what’s best for the team I’m leaving ie the guy is not evil or sadistic like a boomer but he’s like an archetypal Gen X beta who is drowning and losing the game of thrones at his new level that he only got to like a year ago. It’s a pretty standard issue Peter principle scenario where he’s retreating to tactical stuff because he’s overwhelmed by his failures and invisibility in terms of strategic stuff. But thinking about it especially from a pure self interest perspective it seems much smarter to say nothing about any of this and not get into any of the many pointed critiques I have of him along these lines with many on-point examples of his limitations. Curious if XO agrees.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055924)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:16 AM
Author: Canary dilemma clown

What would God want you to do?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055956)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:02 AM
Author: Harsh hyperventilating multi-billionaire

Just leave, who gives a shit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055930)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 2:59 PM
Author: provocative sanctuary



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:04 AM
Author: Aromatic black woman

No one gives two fucks what you think.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055935)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:09 AM
Author: hairraiser property

the power move would be not to do the exit interview at all, and that's what i'd recommend in this scenario. the main purpose of the exit interview is to identify and mitigate any potential legal risk from your departure.

whatever negative feedback you give for the VP will almost certainly be swept under the rug as it does not sound significant enough to warrant investigation/intervention. also, you could potentially burn a bridge.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055944)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:17 AM
Author: cyan hospital deer antler

💯 don't bother with this. It's to find out of you're going to sue them or if they can sue you

Nothing else you say matters

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055959)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:26 AM
Author: electric crystalline location



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:10 AM
Author: poppy potus

correct, do not do one, just ignore

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056036)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:34 AM
Author: painfully honest excitant hissy fit selfie



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056088)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:44 AM
Author: Arousing gunner

Unless you make serious and direct allegations (he touched your special spot and tried to coerce you into sex), it's going nowhere



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056107)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 3:00 PM
Author: provocative sanctuary

and even serious allegations will go nowhere, so whatever

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056419)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:36 PM
Author: Chrome famous landscape painting



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056191)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:11 AM
Author: pale volcanic crater ape

You sound very gay and jewish

Also stop doing adderall

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055949)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:08 AM
Author: tan theater stage pistol



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:35 PM
Author: Nubile infuriating forum



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056186)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 9:38 PM
Author: Diverse Dull Kitty Point



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49057099)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:15 AM
Author: Canary dilemma clown

Correct. If you really want to say something grab a beer with your boss in a month.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055955)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:17 AM
Author: Fantasy-prone razzle stock car chapel

Have you learned nothing in life

Honesty will only ever hurt you in life especially in a "work" environment

Modernity demands you never tell the truth in a satanic humiliation ritual

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055962)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:26 AM
Author: electric crystalline location



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055978)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 9:38 PM
Author: Diverse Dull Kitty Point



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49057100)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:18 AM
Author: Fantasy-prone razzle stock car chapel

Just read ur actual op

Lmfao r u a woman

Holy shit ur a faggot

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055964)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:27 AM
Author: shaky sneaky criminal



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056066)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:21 AM
Author: Yellow Thirsty Kitchen

You seem to have no idea how any of this shit works. Are you a zoomer?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055972)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:53 AM
Author: pale volcanic crater ape

jewish family man

you’re the bad guy if you hate these “people” btw

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056115)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:27 AM
Author: electric crystalline location

nobody cares

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055983)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:35 AM
Author: navy library

Why would you trash the Gen Xer? Seems like he has enough problems.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055997)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:35 AM
Author: painfully honest excitant hissy fit selfie



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056090)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:46 AM
Author: Supple tank national security agency

lmao at OP imagining the company is going to implement his "recommendations"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056010)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:59 AM
Author: navy library

A light breeze could knock a Gen X manager off his perch ime

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056023)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:13 PM
Author: Black cerebral theater community account

Lmao at thinking an exit interview with an HR idiot is the way to get at someone. You just look like a butthurt asshole pulling something like that. Either voice it when you’re there or stfu on the way out

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056151)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:25 PM
Author: Nubile infuriating forum

You sound like a real POS “considering” whether to torpedo some poor schlub who - per your story - never did anything remotely comparably bad to you.

You are also completely clueless about how businesses/HR depts function and it’s going to be hilarious when that bites you in the ass soon.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056166)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:30 PM
Author: pale volcanic crater ape

he’s jewish

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056175)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 1:51 PM
Author: painfully honest excitant hissy fit selfie

What kind of dude fucks with somebody’s livelihood just to “help” some company he’s leaving. Really shitty man

Was legit in this situation 3 months ago and took the interview bc I may go back there. My boss had no idea what he was doing but was chill and I had a lot of free time as a result. Obviously didn’t throw him under the bus as I was leaving

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056328)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 3:30 PM
Author: pale volcanic crater ape

a jew

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056479)



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Date: June 29th, 2025 7:16 AM
Author: electric crystalline location



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49057567)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 2:50 PM
Author: Vibrant abusive senate

Fuck this idiot. Destroy him. Have o3 write an email to the CEO/COO/CFO

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056402)