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There’s no upside to being honest with them in an exit interview, right?

Got an offer today and will be switching jobs next month. I&...
Lavender startled toaster library
  06/28/25
What would God want you to do?
bull headed public bath
  06/28/25
Just leave, who gives a shit
Yellow Ratface Antidepressant Drug
  06/28/25
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Provocative Field
  06/28/25
No one gives two fucks what you think.
mischievous transparent trump supporter
  06/28/25
the power move would be not to do the exit interview at all,...
motley misunderstood meetinghouse multi-billionaire
  06/28/25
💯 don't bother with this. It's to find out of you're goin...
internet-worthy kitchen international law enforcement agency
  06/28/25
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cerise very tactful puppy goal in life
  06/28/25
correct, do not do one, just ignore
primrose school cafeteria
  06/28/25
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amethyst sinister elastic band filthpig
  06/28/25
Unless you make serious and direct allegations (he touched y...
narrow-minded legal warrant parlour
  06/28/25
and even serious allegations will go nowhere, so whatever
Provocative Field
  06/28/25
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cracking sexy prole hominid
  06/28/25
You sound very gay and jewish Also stop doing adderall
abusive irradiated bawdyhouse
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Soul-stirring Brilliant School Travel Guidebook
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Jet-lagged Bright Market Goyim
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exhilarant electric furnace twinkling uncleanness
  06/28/25
Correct. If you really want to say something grab a beer wi...
bull headed public bath
  06/28/25
Have you learned nothing in life Honesty will only ever h...
supple lodge dragon
  06/28/25
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cerise very tactful puppy goal in life
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exhilarant electric furnace twinkling uncleanness
  06/28/25
Just read ur actual op Lmfao r u a woman Holy shit ur a ...
supple lodge dragon
  06/28/25
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pontificating sapphire mad cow disease
  06/28/25
You seem to have no idea how any of this shit works. Are you...
Razzle sick theatre blood rage
  06/28/25
jewish family man you’re the bad guy if you hate t...
abusive irradiated bawdyhouse
  06/28/25
nobody cares
cerise very tactful puppy goal in life
  06/28/25
Why would you trash the Gen Xer? Seems like he has enough pr...
Wonderful up-to-no-good round eye dopamine
  06/28/25
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amethyst sinister elastic band filthpig
  06/28/25
lmao at OP imagining the company is going to implement his &...
Drab office messiness
  06/28/25
A light breeze could knock a Gen X manager off his perch ime
Wonderful up-to-no-good round eye dopamine
  06/28/25
Lmao at thinking an exit interview with an HR idiot is the w...
geriatric parlor water buffalo
  06/28/25
You sound like a real POS “considering” whether ...
Jet-lagged Bright Market Goyim
  06/28/25
he’s jewish
abusive irradiated bawdyhouse
  06/28/25
What kind of dude fucks with somebody’s livelihood jus...
amethyst sinister elastic band filthpig
  06/28/25
a jew
abusive irradiated bawdyhouse
  06/28/25
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cerise very tactful puppy goal in life
  06/29/25
Fuck this idiot. Destroy him. Have o3 write an email to the ...
hyperventilating internal respiration
  06/28/25


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Date: June 28th, 2025 9:58 AM
Author: Lavender startled toaster library

Got an offer today and will be switching jobs next month. I’m not going to seek out an exit interview but I strongly suspect the HR person is going to want to document my feedback because I’m being poached by a competitor and several execs in the business will find out this week and will talk to me about it, and she will want to try to find out what I told them. I have an opportunity in all this to trash our group’s lead VP, and he’s likely already on shaky enough ground that it could at a minimum help to block any future progress up the ladder, and could possibly result in a demotion for him. Arguably this is what’s best for the team I’m leaving ie the guy is not evil or sadistic like a boomer but he’s like an archetypal Gen X beta who is drowning and losing the game of thrones at his new level that he only got to like a year ago. It’s a pretty standard issue Peter principle scenario where he’s retreating to tactical stuff because he’s overwhelmed by his failures and invisibility in terms of strategic stuff. But thinking about it especially from a pure self interest perspective it seems much smarter to say nothing about any of this and not get into any of the many pointed critiques I have of him along these lines with many on-point examples of his limitations. Curious if XO agrees.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055924)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:16 AM
Author: bull headed public bath

What would God want you to do?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055956)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:02 AM
Author: Yellow Ratface Antidepressant Drug

Just leave, who gives a shit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055930)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 2:59 PM
Author: Provocative Field



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:04 AM
Author: mischievous transparent trump supporter

No one gives two fucks what you think.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055935)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:09 AM
Author: motley misunderstood meetinghouse multi-billionaire

the power move would be not to do the exit interview at all, and that's what i'd recommend in this scenario. the main purpose of the exit interview is to identify and mitigate any potential legal risk from your departure.

whatever negative feedback you give for the VP will almost certainly be swept under the rug as it does not sound significant enough to warrant investigation/intervention. also, you could potentially burn a bridge.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055944)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:17 AM
Author: internet-worthy kitchen international law enforcement agency

💯 don't bother with this. It's to find out of you're going to sue them or if they can sue you

Nothing else you say matters

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055959)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:26 AM
Author: cerise very tactful puppy goal in life



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:10 AM
Author: primrose school cafeteria

correct, do not do one, just ignore

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056036)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:34 AM
Author: amethyst sinister elastic band filthpig



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:44 AM
Author: narrow-minded legal warrant parlour

Unless you make serious and direct allegations (he touched your special spot and tried to coerce you into sex), it's going nowhere



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056107)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 3:00 PM
Author: Provocative Field

and even serious allegations will go nowhere, so whatever

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056419)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:36 PM
Author: cracking sexy prole hominid



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:11 AM
Author: abusive irradiated bawdyhouse

You sound very gay and jewish

Also stop doing adderall

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055949)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:08 AM
Author: Soul-stirring Brilliant School Travel Guidebook



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056032)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:35 PM
Author: Jet-lagged Bright Market Goyim



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056186)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 9:38 PM
Author: exhilarant electric furnace twinkling uncleanness



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49057099)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:15 AM
Author: bull headed public bath

Correct. If you really want to say something grab a beer with your boss in a month.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055955)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:17 AM
Author: supple lodge dragon

Have you learned nothing in life

Honesty will only ever hurt you in life especially in a "work" environment

Modernity demands you never tell the truth in a satanic humiliation ritual

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055962)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:26 AM
Author: cerise very tactful puppy goal in life



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055978)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 9:38 PM
Author: exhilarant electric furnace twinkling uncleanness



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49057100)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:18 AM
Author: supple lodge dragon

Just read ur actual op

Lmfao r u a woman

Holy shit ur a faggot

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055964)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:27 AM
Author: pontificating sapphire mad cow disease



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056066)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:21 AM
Author: Razzle sick theatre blood rage

You seem to have no idea how any of this shit works. Are you a zoomer?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055972)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:53 AM
Author: abusive irradiated bawdyhouse

jewish family man

you’re the bad guy if you hate these “people” btw

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056115)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:27 AM
Author: cerise very tactful puppy goal in life

nobody cares

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055983)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:35 AM
Author: Wonderful up-to-no-good round eye dopamine

Why would you trash the Gen Xer? Seems like he has enough problems.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055997)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:35 AM
Author: amethyst sinister elastic band filthpig



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056090)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:46 AM
Author: Drab office messiness

lmao at OP imagining the company is going to implement his "recommendations"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056010)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:59 AM
Author: Wonderful up-to-no-good round eye dopamine

A light breeze could knock a Gen X manager off his perch ime

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056023)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:13 PM
Author: geriatric parlor water buffalo

Lmao at thinking an exit interview with an HR idiot is the way to get at someone. You just look like a butthurt asshole pulling something like that. Either voice it when you’re there or stfu on the way out

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056151)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:25 PM
Author: Jet-lagged Bright Market Goyim

You sound like a real POS “considering” whether to torpedo some poor schlub who - per your story - never did anything remotely comparably bad to you.

You are also completely clueless about how businesses/HR depts function and it’s going to be hilarious when that bites you in the ass soon.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056166)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:30 PM
Author: abusive irradiated bawdyhouse

he’s jewish

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056175)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 1:51 PM
Author: amethyst sinister elastic band filthpig

What kind of dude fucks with somebody’s livelihood just to “help” some company he’s leaving. Really shitty man

Was legit in this situation 3 months ago and took the interview bc I may go back there. My boss had no idea what he was doing but was chill and I had a lot of free time as a result. Obviously didn’t throw him under the bus as I was leaving

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056328)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 3:30 PM
Author: abusive irradiated bawdyhouse

a jew

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056479)



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Date: June 29th, 2025 7:16 AM
Author: cerise very tactful puppy goal in life



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49057567)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 2:50 PM
Author: hyperventilating internal respiration

Fuck this idiot. Destroy him. Have o3 write an email to the CEO/COO/CFO

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056402)