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Life Advice for Youngs: go to the funerals you don't want to attend

Everyone goes to the funerals of close friends and family. A...
motley center
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Rough-skinned old irish cottage sanctuary
  12/26/21
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I'll definitely be at the funeral I most want to attend.
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Juan Eighty
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Important OP
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Easily the best advice on xoxohth in over a year.
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Excellent advice from one of my favorite monikers.
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Make sure you ask for a copy of the death certificate to get...
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  12/25/21
OP is correct. ty OP, and Merry Christmas
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My grandfather died at 74. Church was packed. My great grand...
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theres an extreme immaturity to people who avoid funerals. i...
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Concupiscible deep ratface business firm
  12/26/21
very good advice here. i have been making an effort to atten...
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motley center
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this thread has inspired me to do this multiple times. Best ...
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Cerebral people who are hurt station
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(junior soprano)
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motley center
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I only went to 1/4 of my grandparents funerals. 1 was becaus...
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Absolutely credited.
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Mike Yanagita
  11/25/25
should you go to your ex-wife's mother's funeral?
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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:05 AM
Author: motley center

Everyone goes to the funerals of close friends and family. As you get older, there will be so many occasions where someone who you aren't close to passes away: a former co-worker who you have lost touch with, the younger brother of a friend from high school who you barely remember, or the dad of a college roommate you haven't seen since graduation. Go to all of these visitations if you can. It's good for the family and it's good for you. I have seen decades-old grudges dissolved in 30 seconds by this gesture. People are at their weakest when a loved one dies and the gratitude they feel when people take the time to pay their respects will last for the rest of their lives. My mom and dad are both gone and I can recall every single person who took the time to show up and pay their respects. It's powerful.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2#43672622)



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:22 PM
Author: Rough-skinned old irish cottage sanctuary



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:11 AM
Author: Nofapping lilac brethren

very valuable post

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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:13 AM
Author: mint bawdyhouse

180 advice. It really is good for your mind too, instant perspective.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2#43672650)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:59 AM
Author: motley center



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:57 AM
Author: Lavender famous landscape painting

I remember all of the random people that showed up to my dad’s funeral and the one-off stories they shared with me about how they knew him. One old lady had a flat tire in the bank parking lot and he changed it for her. Small town America. She would see him at the store or pharmacy for years and thank him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2#43673327)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:29 AM
Author: Unholy green crackhouse mediation

Is it a good way to score pussy?

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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:36 AM
Author: Sapphire Ape Den

Make sure to bring business cards, brother.

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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:33 AM
Author: ultramarine pistol lay



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:36 AM
Author: thriller bonkers hospital



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:38 AM
Author: domesticated azn trust fund



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:52 PM
Author: Soggy school cafeteria philosopher-king



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:41 AM
Author: titillating stag film alpha



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:42 AM
Author: Tripping vivacious stage idea he suggested



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:49 AM
Author: poppy double fault



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:32 AM
Author: ultramarine pistol lay

I'll definitely be at the funeral I most want to attend.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2#43673175)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:35 AM
Author: Cobalt trip messiness

same

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Date: December 25th, 2021 1:40 PM
Author: coral diverse circlehead



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:23 PM
Author: fear-inspiring point immigrant



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2#43680645)



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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:54 PM
Author: Juan Eighty



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2#49460903)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:38 AM
Author: arousing chocolate goyim son of senegal

Important OP

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2#43673216)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:55 AM
Author: Lavender famous landscape painting

Easily the best advice on xoxohth in over a year.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2#43673312)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:58 AM
Author: high-end national security agency

(Will Ferrell in wedding crashers)

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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:58 AM
Author: exciting dilemma headpube



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Date: December 25th, 2021 1:33 PM
Author: Pea-brained jap

Excellent advice from one of my favorite monikers.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2#43673709)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 1:36 PM
Author: blue striped hyena sex offender

Make sure you ask for a copy of the death certificate to get a discount/tax write off on your travel

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2#43673721)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 2:10 PM
Author: gold internal respiration church

OP is correct.

ty OP, and Merry Christmas

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2#43673924)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 2:32 PM
Author: cracking pale mother boiling water

My grandfather died at 74. Church was packed. My great grandfather died at 94. Church was barren.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2#43674038)



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:24 PM
Author: fear-inspiring point immigrant



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2#43680647)



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Date: February 22nd, 2023 9:52 AM
Author: Flesh histrionic cuckold

live fast

die young

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2#45965902)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 2:34 PM
Author: coiffed chrome roommate

theres an extreme immaturity to people who avoid funerals. its basically boomer level selfishness.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2#43674045)



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:19 PM
Author: Concupiscible deep ratface business firm



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:21 PM
Author: Rough-skinned old irish cottage sanctuary

very good advice here. i have been making an effort to attend more funerals of acquaintances after a personal experience made me realize how much it can mean to those close to the deceased.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2#43680638)



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Date: July 15th, 2022 6:32 PM
Author: Cerebral people who are hurt station



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2#44857679)



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Date: January 15th, 2022 4:44 PM
Author: motley center



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:51 PM
Author: Concupiscible deep ratface business firm

this thread has inspired me to do this multiple times. Best experience was nervously attending the funeral of dude's dad who I had beef with after high school and hadn't spoken to in forever (the kid not the dad). Anyways, the gratitude you could see on that guy's face when I showed up was something I'll remember for the rest of my life.

Thanks to the immortal Yanagita for making this thread. This is something a younger person simply cannot understand on their own.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2#44856920)



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:52 PM
Author: Cerebral people who are hurt station



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2#44856925)



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:54 PM
Author: Navy mind-boggling karate

(junior soprano)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2#44856935)



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Date: February 22nd, 2023 9:44 AM
Author: motley center



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Date: February 22nd, 2023 9:47 AM
Author: Painfully Honest Chartreuse Tanning Salon

I only went to 1/4 of my grandparents funerals. 1 was because he predeceased my birth so it wasn’t possible, but the other 2 I was in law school states away.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2#45965887)



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Date: March 14th, 2023 6:57 PM
Author: Adventurous Rehab Blood Rage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2#46052368)



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Date: March 14th, 2023 6:59 PM
Author: Spectacular Adulterous Forum



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Date: March 14th, 2023 7:24 PM
Author: confused orchestra pit

Absolutely credited.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2#46052486)



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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:36 PM
Author: Mike Yanagita



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2#49460858)



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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:53 PM
Author: whimsy the cat

should you go to your ex-wife's mother's funeral?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2#49460900)



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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:57 PM
Author: ruinous phenotype



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