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Updates on my father's tragic passing

Today, I received a lot of information from (of all places) ...
Taylor Swift is not a hobby she is a lifestyle
  04/29/26
YNY GET PAID
UhOh
  04/29/26
Explain
quarter-zip wifeguy
  04/29/26
So ur dad choked to death on coffee grounds while in a hospi...
boring white guy
  04/29/26
"coffee ground emesis" refers to vomit that looks ...
Taylor Swift is not a hobby she is a lifestyle
  04/29/26
Jesus christ. Shit like this really drives home how much bet...
Fucking Fuckface
  04/29/26
I forgot to mention, the cheapest funeral home wants $19,000
Taylor Swift is not a hobby she is a lifestyle
  04/29/26
I prefer to think that there are good people in the world wh...
Emperor CRISPR Chad von Neumann III
  04/29/26
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Date: April 29th, 2026 10:34 PM
Author: Taylor Swift is not a hobby she is a lifestyle (πŸ‡ΊπŸ‡Έ πŸ‡΅πŸ‡±)

Today, I received a lot of information from (of all places) the hospital that had previously treated him. This is not where he experienced the events causing his death.

First, I received a phone call from the assistant to his surgeon (after hours). She told me she heard what happened, that she's extremely sorry for my loss, etc. She also told me the entire staff is shocked. She told me his doctor would be calling me within the next 10-15 minutes, but that she wanted to help me get whatever info I wanted. She literally logged into Epic and went to his charts at the other hospitals, provided timestamps of when procedures occurred, gave me doctors' names and numbers, etc.

Minutes later, I received a call from the surgeon. Her assistant had actually taken great notes and passed them over to the surgeon and we basically went through the list one-by-one.

Yesterday at 13:45, his blood pressure at MGH was 108/78, pulse 63 bpm, O2 98% on room air. He was then transported to Spaulding Hospital in Cambridge.

He arrived at Spaulding at 14:11. He was "chatting away" according to the intake notes. His vitals were normal.

At 15:56, I received a call from my mom--she was bawling.

At 16:01, I received a call from the doctor at Spaulding: Apparently my dad was in cardiac arrest. He noticed a large amount of "coffee ground emesis" occluding his airway. He called 9-1-1 and EMS was able to secure the airway. All the while, CPR was being performed. It was an unwitnessed arrest.

He arrived at Cambridge Alliance Hospital roughly 10 minutes later (it's only 1000 feet away). We were waiting for updates for another three hours. All the while, he had been going in and hour of cardiac arrest. By about 19:30, the doctor called me to explain the grim news. I explained my father's wishes, and then told him that after four rounds of ACLS drugs, an unwitnessed arrest, etc. I would agree that it is now appropriate to discontinue resuscitation efforts.

Maybe 20 minutes later, the doctor called me back to let me know that he had a pulse, but it was weak and thready. I told him that if he keeps that pulse or if it improves, we will resume resuscitation efforts.

At 20:39, he called me to let me know that my dad passed away at 20:37.

Talking to the surgeon today was incredible. She told me that there's a formal review process happening at MGH for this specific incident and that the same thing his happening at Cambridge Health Alliance. She also strongly suggested getting an autopsy and told me that I need to immediately contact the medical examiner. She mentioned that the entire ICU staff is gutted and they brought in grief counselors specifically for this event.

The medical examiner referred me to the Cambridge Police Department and an officer wants to meet with me tomorrow.

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Date: April 29th, 2026 10:38 PM
Author: UhOh

YNY GET PAID

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Date: April 29th, 2026 10:40 PM
Author: quarter-zip wifeguy

Explain

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Date: April 29th, 2026 10:41 PM
Author: boring white guy (Is it not the case)

So ur dad choked to death on coffee grounds while in a hospital and had to be taken to another hospital?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2#49853009)



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Date: April 29th, 2026 11:01 PM
Author: Taylor Swift is not a hobby she is a lifestyle (πŸ‡ΊπŸ‡Έ πŸ‡΅πŸ‡±)

"coffee ground emesis" refers to vomit that looks like coffee grounds because it's actually partially digested blood

he was at an "acute rehab center" CALLED Spaulding Hospital Cambridge, but they weren't able to provide hospital services. Apparently, at least. For example, they had to call 9-1-1 to have him intubated by fucking paramedics.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2#49853039)



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Date: April 29th, 2026 11:03 PM
Author: Fucking Fuckface

Jesus christ. Shit like this really drives home how much better it is to die without becoming really old first

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2#49853049)



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Date: April 29th, 2026 11:05 PM
Author: Taylor Swift is not a hobby she is a lifestyle (πŸ‡ΊπŸ‡Έ πŸ‡΅πŸ‡±)

I forgot to mention, the cheapest funeral home wants $19,000

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2#49853054)



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Date: April 29th, 2026 11:07 PM
Author: Emperor CRISPR Chad von Neumann III

I prefer to think that there are good people in the world who care about doing their jobs to the incredibly high level called for when they have people’s lives in their hands. But the alternative read is that it’s the CYA train gathering steam.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2#49853057)



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Date: April 29th, 2026 11:07 PM
Author: Taylor Swift is not a hobby she is a lifestyle (πŸ‡ΊπŸ‡Έ πŸ‡΅πŸ‡±)



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2#49853058)