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My law "mentor" of 10 years has utterly dicked me over
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Date: December 14th, 2020 12:31 PM Author: bonkers legend I was with my main boss for 10 years, and despite some complaints I had about my job, he was a good friend and mentor. I helped him with some personal things, even went to his house to help with stuff, and I helped him a lot with a lot of internal firm issues (employees, hiring people, etc, I even hosted a bunch of people at my HOUSE for a Christmas party for co-workers) that came up and made his life a ton easier. When I left firm last February, he was pretty pissed - I think he expected me to be his heir apparent at the firm. He didn't go to my going away lunch, for example.
Since then I still forward him court filings and stuff on cases where my email address still gets notice, have exchanged a few "hope you are well" emails.
Had a case come up recently that had some really weird fact patterns, and I needed help. 11 days ago, I sent my old boss an email asking if I could have a little of his time to discuss the case. He would have been the perfect person to help me on this one, just answering a few questions. No response. Luckily I since settled the case. Today, he sends me some bitchy response about how December is his busiest month, that I am well trained to handle matters like this, and that if I still need help he can take a short call after 6pm on several days this week. Sure he finally "offered to help" but it was a shitty response and intentionally way too late (I told him in the email when my trial date was, which was literally today, which makes this response even shittier).
Really steaming over this. Also another senior partner who I was on good terms with, who repeatedly checked in on me since I left the firm and offered to help if I ever needed it, also ignored several of my voicemails and emails for assistance.
Sucks to be alone out there, getting dicked by people you trusted and did a lot for yourself. |
Date: December 14th, 2020 12:54 PM Author: bateful giraffe institution You're no longer making money for them.
Thus, you aren't a priority for them.
It sucks, but that's how the profession goes.
Once we leave our respective Pimps and ain't walkin' that stroll anymore, they DGAF about us anymore. |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 12:56 PM Author: Hairless round eye spot (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41545856) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 12:58 PM Author: bonkers legend I agree, but it still pisses me off. I would never do this to anyone. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41545888) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 12:59 PM Author: idiotic passionate nowag resort most people are like your former boss (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41545895) |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 10:50 AM Author: Sick filthpig (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41551768) |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 5:57 PM Author: Carnelian Bisexual Philosopher-king Death Wish (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41554969) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 1:04 PM Author: bateful giraffe institution I'm assuming he's either a Boomer or at least a GenX.
They have a different mindset on employment.
In their minds, you don't leave your employer unless fired or conditions have become impossible for you to remain.
The idea of you leaving so that you can be your own man and build your own practice is an insult to them.
HOW DARE HE LEAVE THIS GENEROUS SALARY WE'VE GIVEN HIM! Does he know how many lawyers would KILL to get paid what we're giving him!? |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 1:06 PM Author: bonkers legend boomer, but yeah I think its like this.
He had a paralegal of like 20 years who left for a higher paying gig and better benefits, she was with him since he was a solo himself. He was friends with her and her husband, did social events together.
He wouldn't speak to her again after she gave her notice. |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 1:07 PM Author: bateful giraffe institution What's fucking hilarious is I bet he went solo because he wanted to be in control of his own business and didn't want to depend on anybody else.
But when you decide to do the same fucking thing, then suddenly he turns his back on you like Paulie in Good Fellas |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 1:08 PM Author: idiotic passionate nowag resort boomers are uniformly shit (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41545968) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 1:09 PM Author: High-end Senate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41545980) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 2:13 PM Author: Exhilarant transparent property shitlib (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41546424) |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 1:55 AM Author: Big temple incel (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41550504) |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 10:46 AM Author: Costumed sticky point Boomer lawyers are especially the worst (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41551756) |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 4:10 PM Author: scarlet wrinkle (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41554254) |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 6:29 AM Author: Vivacious well-lubricated cruise ship (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41550963) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 12:55 PM Author: Cerebral area halford Disgusting (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41545855) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 12:58 PM Author: Bossy Histrionic Bawdyhouse Dingle Berry hope u are well bro (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41545883) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 1:00 PM Author: Hairless round eye spot why'd you leave this firm to do solo/roach motel (literally) hell? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41545900) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 1:00 PM Author: bonkers legend it was time to move on man (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41545903) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 1:00 PM Author: idiotic passionate nowag resort fell for CSLG schtick (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41545904) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 1:02 PM Author: Hairless round eye spot (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41545919) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 1:05 PM Author: tripping submissive lodge (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41545941) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 1:27 PM Author: Glittery ladyboy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41546099) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 4:20 PM Author: arousing smoky whorehouse ape but cslg would never have done something like this. he would have faxed over a paystub to the guys wife (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41547259) |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 5:57 PM Author: Carnelian Bisexual Philosopher-king Death Wish (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41554972) |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 7:10 PM Author: Vibrant puce menage azn (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41555322) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 1:03 PM Author: Impertinent Brunch You were disloyal and fucked them over, and now you want them to do some pro bono work for a competitor? If they are so much more capable than you, then you can hire them to do the work. No more handouts (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41545930) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 1:05 PM Author: bateful giraffe institution Harsh, but accurate point of view.
You aren't a colleage anymore, you're a competitor. |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 10:34 PM Author: lake blathering trust fund piazza It's stupid to view everyone in your field as a "competitor." Cases get referred all the time for many reasons. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41549660) |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 4:19 PM Author: bateful giraffe institution We're talking about Boomers here.
They don't see a former employee as a "colleague"
He views OP as an arrogant little shit who thinks he's too good to work for him anymore.
He has no interest in helping if it doesn't put money back in his own pocket. |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 1:06 PM Author: misanthropic antidepressant drug harsh but fair. he was never your friend. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41545951) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 1:37 PM Author: racy nighttime national Even if they were friends, leaving the firm to be a competitor wasn't a very friendly thing to do to begin with. The question is who made the first betrayal. No easy answers here. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41546163) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 1:44 PM Author: misanthropic antidepressant drug that's my point - if they were actually friends, it wouldn't have been a betrayal because a friend would be happy for you moving up in the world. but they were only business partners, so it was a betrayal to leave the partner and become a competitor in the same field. the partner sounds like a dick, but his position is defensible. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41546233) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 1:17 PM Author: Bossy Histrionic Bawdyhouse Dingle Berry harsh but yeah. this. so much. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41546045) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 1:36 PM Author: racy nighttime national cr. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41546156) |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 2:13 AM Author: scarlet wrinkle this was my first thought (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41550543) |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 7:04 AM Author: Tantric Stage how in the fuck was he "disloyal" or "fucked them over"
unless he left in the dead of night and stole away clients Jerry Maguire style this is a retarded way to look at it. I mean, maybe it's the way they are looking at it but it's retarded. |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 1:09 PM Author: Sick filthpig (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41552862) |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 5:58 PM Author: Carnelian Bisexual Philosopher-king Death Wish makes sense (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41554974) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 1:08 PM Author: maroon pit elastic band email him back "want to merge firms? need your answer before christmas and i can offer you 50%." (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41545971) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 1:16 PM Author: Hairless round eye spot (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41546039) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 1:10 PM Author: Heady principal's office MY law mentor (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41545990) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 1:15 PM Author: Hairraiser Adulterous Ticket Booth (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41546026) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 1:17 PM Author: Concupiscible vermilion market 85% of lawyers are horrible people with no social skillz. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41546043) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 1:28 PM Author: Hairraiser Adulterous Ticket Booth (Horrible person with no social skillz) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41546101) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 1:21 PM Author: Learning disabled excitant parlor You learn a lot about people when you make a decision that hurts them financially. Your mentor was not donating his time helping you when you worked for him. He was training an employee and protecting his own bottom line.
Your employer is not your friend. Law is unfortunately a profession where this truth gets personal because you work closely with people and every firm is selling some "firm culture" "we're family" bullshit line that makes everyone feel better.
Ask any lawyer that has lateraled and you'll hear stories about how their former partners fucked them over. Denied them bonuses, delayed partnership draws firm-wide to cut them out based on departure date, sued them for stealing clients, etc. |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 1:23 PM Author: bateful giraffe institution "Your employer is not your friend. Law is unfortunately a profession where this truth gets personal because you work closely with people and every firm is selling some "firm culture" "we're family" bullshit line that makes everyone feel better."
This is the shit they should be discussing in LOLschool. Not the fucking "Tragedy of the Commons" |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 1:22 PM Author: Exciting pisswyrm Hey you know me IRL. It was a mistake to expect anything. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41546071) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 1:28 PM Author: Bossy Histrionic Bawdyhouse Dingle Berry lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41546102) |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 5:53 PM Author: Sick filthpig (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41554956) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 1:25 PM Author: blue step-uncle's house He knows you're gay, it's fine. Just move on. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41546091) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 1:29 PM Author: curious big-titted state Aren't you literally competing with him? Same city and everything? Why would you ask him for anything lol. If that's somehow not the case - you went solo and had/have like, No Clients. He should be a bro and refer you some cases, even if the fee split favours him. Anyway, NEVER enter into an interaction with a boomer from a position of weakness, they will instinctively wreck you. Always negotiate from a position of strength or, preferably, avoid contact at all costs. They will kiss up to whomever has power and savagely destroy the weak without thinking twice. Really though, boomers like when you beat around the bush moreso than going to them directly asking for something. Boomers are hard-wired to see Someone Asking for Something as a pathogen for them to attack. It would be different if you were talking regularly and just happened to complain about the case - then ball is in his court to volunteer his Expertise, and it lets him feel magnanimous if he decides to. If you ask any boomer for anything, ever, the immediate response is, "this fuckin guy, wow, the nerve!" You should already know this imho. And they say I'm autistic smh. |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 1:38 PM Author: mind-boggling flushed psychic theatre Last part is cr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41546177) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 1:40 PM Author: bateful giraffe institution cr, don't ask him to "help" with any case beyond a few general words of advice.
He has no skin in the game and DGAF about dedicating his experience and effort into helping YOU make money. |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 1:58 PM Author: Cerebral area halford Lmao at how true the last part is (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41546343) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 4:18 PM Author: Hairraiser Adulterous Ticket Booth (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41547236) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 4:19 PM Author: arousing smoky whorehouse ape good post cowgod (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41547252) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 9:14 PM Author: Rough-skinned charismatic native tattoo (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41549133) |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 2:00 AM Author: Big temple incel (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41550509) |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 6:30 AM Author: Vivacious well-lubricated cruise ship (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41550965) |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 12:39 PM Author: aphrodisiac magenta hospital voyeur I had a boomer partner for years and this is all 100% true. To get him to do ANYTHING I had to convince him he was “showing me how it’s done.” Every single fucking phone call. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41552605) |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 12:54 PM Author: aphrodisiac magenta hospital voyeur God damn cowgod's poast gave me PTSD. He would be AWOL for days/weeks at a time. Ostensibly "traveling all over the state representing the clients," which 100% wasn't true because he would always use the company credit card getting gas/fast food/liquor store which were always by his 2nd house. He called himself "the road warrior" several times.
If I had a CLE and had to take a day off I'd ask him to cover a client call and it was like pulling fucking teeth."I DONT HAVE THE [paper] FILE!" And he'd always call me immediately after and tell me the client wants to talk to him more than me. Also not true because back then all of our clients were personal friends/family members of mine.
Boomers are the worst. |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 7:07 PM Author: curious big-titted state Can the board stop calling me an autist now, I am an Expert on human beings. I also promulgate Clique Law. I am also a hipster irl and not an autist imho, I have like 880 facebook friends.
Anyway, what I've always wanted to see is how Boomers treated their superiors. I suspect their elders were far less uniformly rotten but really who the hell knows. They have the pathological selfishness of a toddler that basically never matures. |
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Date: December 16th, 2020 1:00 AM Author: Talented stag film You’re not an autist since you’re a liberal artist. You’re more of a retard or a dumb. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41557595) |
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Date: December 16th, 2020 4:57 PM Author: aphrodisiac magenta hospital voyeur liberal autist (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41561745) |
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Date: December 16th, 2020 4:58 PM Author: curious big-titted state I've said this but internet posters decided in like 2015 that "autistic" was the catch-all insult (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41561749) |
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Date: October 22nd, 2023 8:36 AM Author: curious big-titted state (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#46967116) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 1:30 PM Author: Copper cuckold center ljl at "friend-havers" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41546112) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 1:39 PM Author: Thriller pearly university Why are professional relationships so tenuous? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41546190) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 1:40 PM Author: bearded alcoholic dilemma fanboi OPen a jar of roaches in his office during Xmas break (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41546201) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 10:36 PM Author: lake blathering trust fund piazza (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41549680) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 1:47 PM Author: galvanic corner deer antler Doesn't seem like he UTTERLY dicked you over-- was actually going to talk to you about it, just on his own time. It isn't like he badmouthed you to potential clients or something. Disappointing but doesn't seem more than that (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41546250) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 1:56 PM Author: Salmon ungodly plaza You people are insane with all this "competitor" talk. People ask for and give free advice all the time and share cases with a bunch of different people. If you're a mean little fag in shitlaw no one will want to work with you. Fuck this idiot "mentor" maybe he'll reflect on why long term emplyees leave him (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41546334) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 2:10 PM Author: bonkers legend After not getting a response from my boss, I literally called an opposing counsel from a trial I had in January who was more than happy to help. Only problem was he was just as clueless about my case as I was, it was that weird of a fact pattern. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41546412) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 2:31 PM Author: curious big-titted state Are you some kind of Airheaded Chad who is used to special treatment or something? Like instead of researching legal issues, you seek advice from Mentors/Losers/Nerds? I am a chill af bro when it comes to mentoring Film Proteges but this is by no means the norm, the expectation is for people to be as cutthroat/passive aggressive as possible in all facets of life ime, but I am a Loser soooooooo yeah haha |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 2:57 PM Author: mint yarmulke calling mentors is 100% the norm in law. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41546700) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 2:17 PM Author: bearded alcoholic dilemma fanboi cr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41546450) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 2:18 PM Author: mint yarmulke all cr. the ITT is completely fucking faggot. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41546456) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 2:32 PM Author: curious big-titted state OP *is* no one, that is the problem here haha. Certainly his "mentor" would be more apt to assist him if he weren't a No One with No Clients. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41546531) |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 2:15 AM Author: scarlet wrinkle That's not the issue though -- the reason "mentor" was not down to help is because he viewed OP as a successor who he'd invested in, and was repaid by MD bailing and fucking him over. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41550548) |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 6:28 AM Author: Salmon ungodly plaza There are two kinds of people. Mentor is being a fag. My shitlaw boss still helps people who left and people he's fired because he's not a fag. Picks up the phone immediately when they need something. I'll help doodikoof any way I can because I'm not a fag. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41550960) |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 7:07 AM Author: Tantric Stage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41551018) |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 10:38 AM Author: bonkers legend (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41551685) |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 12:35 PM Author: scarlet wrinkle Yeah, so would I, but that's again not the point; doodikoff should have known after 10 years how boomer would react, and he shouldn't be surprised when he's left hanging. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41552574) |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 1:48 PM Author: Salmon ungodly plaza Let's make sure no one does doodikoff like this again. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41553169) |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 7:07 PM Author: bonkers legend actually, after knowing him for 10 years, I expected the complete opposite of how he actually reacted (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41555308) |
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Date: December 16th, 2020 1:06 AM Author: scarlet wrinkle well, if after 10 years you were wrong on this, either he's an unpredictable, weird asshole, or you suck at reading people. either way, disappointing situation for all involved. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41557613) |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 8:24 PM Author: crystalline office jewess (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41555788) |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 7:18 AM Author: Unhinged Chad All boomers react like spurned lovers anytime a workspace situation doesn’t work out 100% in their favor (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41551025) |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 3:02 AM Author: crystalline office jewess (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41550692) |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 7:06 AM Author: Tantric Stage agree (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41551017) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 2:31 PM Author: razzle abode degenerate Not gregarious of him, but I can understand his perspective. In his mind, he invested a lot of his own time training & mentoring you. Then, profiting from that training, you decide you’re better off on your own. Then you come crawling back for free advice, demanding his time for free while he is busy. If you were close friends, it would be a different story, but I can see why he was irked. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41546526) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 2:34 PM Author: Clear coiffed pocket flask Business friends are not the same as IRL friends. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41546543) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 3:05 PM Author: hilarious den gunner This goes to a maxim of how Grandpa Joe conducts business. He apparently will not call and ask for a favor unless he's talked with you 3x about non-favor stuff. That means he regularly stays in touch with people when he doesn't need something. Hard to do. I am too aspie and friendless to do it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41546756) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 9:21 PM Author: Splenetic base CR (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41549172) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 2:37 PM Author: purple stead ratface You sound naive. Offer him something, make it worth his time. You’re not friends and he clearly doesn’t expect to benefit down the road from knowing you (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41546564) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 3:23 PM Author: beady-eyed stain locus Never waste your time with 'mentors' (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41546865) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 10:48 PM Author: Filthy dragon masturbator unfortunately titcr with 'mentors' in a law firm (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41549770) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 9:18 PM Author: Unhinged Chad doodikoff is such a 180 dude (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41549161) |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 1:57 AM Author: arousing smoky whorehouse ape Yeah it's super chill to quit then want a favor and then whine impotently online (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41550507) |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 2:00 AM Author: Unhinged Chad (boomer ex-boss) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41550510) |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 4:21 PM Author: bateful giraffe institution (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41554346) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 10:25 PM Author: Razzle-dazzle harsh field Not flame, if there is a facebook group of Atlanta or Georgia lawyers, you can get some thoughtful input by just posting there. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41549599) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 10:31 PM Author: Cowardly school cafeteria Describe his dick and how it felt inside you as he was dicking you (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41549629) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 10:37 PM Author: plum theater stage new version "utterly dicked me over" is a funny way of describing what happened (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41549687) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 10:50 PM Author: Massive Travel Guidebook (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41549777) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 10:55 PM Author: Lavender laughsome address feces cr. i came here thinking he did something shady, not just that he didn't do a free consult for a competitor. ljfl (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41549792) |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 2:01 AM Author: arousing smoky whorehouse ape Was expecting the boomer to have stolen the client or ratted doodikoffs incompetence out to the client. That's dicking someone over. Not "hey dood good to hear from you. im super busy but I can do this after 6" |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 6:30 AM Author: Vivacious well-lubricated cruise ship (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41550967) |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 10:43 AM Author: lake blathering trust fund piazza He even complimented doodikoff as well-trained and competent (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41551731) |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 2:02 AM Author: Fishy patrolman CR
OP comes off like a histrionic woman ITT |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 2:06 AM Author: arousing smoky whorehouse ape If you weren't white and male this would be the most 180 twitter microaggression screed. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41550530) |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 2:12 AM Author: scarlet wrinkle "When I left firm last February, he was pretty pissed - I think he expected me to be his heir apparent at the firm."
Bro, how do you think he saw this? He surely viewed you leaving as a huge betrayal -- you were personally tight, he'd been grooming you to take his job, and then you bail? Yeah, no fucking shit he doesn't like you like that anymore.
If you're not interested in being his protege, fine, but don't expect him to still treat you like you are, now that you work for someone else lol. |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 2:21 AM Author: Unhinged Chad Doesn't mention boomer boss ever saying anything to him about being the heir of the firm. How can someone betray someone else over something they never discussed? classic boomer shit (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41550563) |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 2:54 AM Author: scarlet wrinkle there was clearly enough foundation laid for this that doodikoff thinks this was boomer boss's understanding.
it's normal for people to make assumptions about how relationships are viewed by the other party, based on context; if there was enough personal investment by boomer "mentor" for OP to think this was the likely trajectory, there's a reasonable chance he's right. I don't think it's unreasonable for boomer to make this assumption over a 10 year timeframe. |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 2:55 AM Author: Unhinged Chad Lol I’m not gonna read your mind you gay boomer (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41550680) |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 3:00 AM Author: scarlet wrinkle (autist) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41550688) |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 1:04 PM Author: aphrodisiac magenta hospital voyeur that boomer asshole would never let anyone take over his firm. Or if he did he would save the only good few clients for himself and work until he's 80. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41552816) |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 2:22 AM Author: disgusting sex offender hell he was grooming doodikoff alright (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41550567) |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 2:25 AM Author: Self-absorbed gay wizard and then UTTERLY dicked him over (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41550570) |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 6:31 AM Author: Vivacious well-lubricated cruise ship (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41550969) |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 2:33 AM Author: plum theater stage new version "Sucks to be alone out there, getting dicked by people you trusted and did a lot for yourself."
Im not sure your expectations in this situation were realistic. |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 12:36 PM Author: Greedy cocky codepig share the wonders of Game Pass with him (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41552581) |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 1:36 PM Author: Irradiated depressive foreskin You shouldn't have to ask a boomer how to do your job, doodikoff. Sorry about the tough love. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41553073) |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 3:59 PM Author: crystalline office jewess sorry man. also sorry about all the autistic and/or sociopathic dicks in this thread. alas that's our profession and our boart. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41554197) |
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Date: December 16th, 2020 5:01 PM Author: Citrine newt Shut the fuck up, spaceporn (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41561767) |
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Date: December 17th, 2020 3:57 PM Author: crystalline office jewess Not him and eat a dick you sociopathic retard (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41567467) |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 4:15 PM Author: Aromatic ceo great thread. thanks doodikoff. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41554302) |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 4:17 PM Author: Talented stag film Serious response though, you should have poasted your questions on here. Most people here are gay and retarded but a few are top notch lawyers. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41554313) |
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Date: December 15th, 2020 4:26 PM Author: Vengeful jew And nearly all of those top-notch lawyers are also gay and retarded. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&forum_id=2#41554384) |
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