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Wife left: tell me about seeking arrangements

Don’t want to risk hookers and i eventually want to tr...
gold school blood rage
  09/22/25
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beady-eyed mewling property
  09/23/25
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beady-eyed mewling property
  09/23/25
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beady-eyed mewling property
  09/23/25
White men don't [pay for sex]. Date: April 20th, 2026 1:2...
nyuug
  08/24/26
49ers owner is asian bro
nyuug
  08/24/26
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nyuug
  08/24/26
I'm not sure you're gonna be able to command top dollar cons...
aphrodisiac native
  09/22/25
If they can’t handle me at my worst they don’t d...
gold school blood rage
  09/22/25
Your refusal to state your height speaks volumes.
aphrodisiac native
  09/22/25
6’2” 220 (terrible build) Slight receding...
gold school blood rage
  09/23/25
why did your wife leave you?
Bronze turdskin
  09/22/25
Wife had a mid life crisis. We married young but waited to h...
gold school blood rage
  09/23/25
if you have a chance to bludgeon yourself retarded with rust...
Zippy Dead Base
  09/22/25
Grinder.com
motley alcoholic gunner shrine
  09/22/25
I don't believe OP is gay, though
aphrodisiac native
  09/23/25
There are some gems on SA if you’re willing to wade th...
Racy tank
  09/23/25
Search for the seeking arrangement poaster’s threads. ...
Misunderstood Ruddy Telephone Codepig
  09/23/25
wow
mind-boggling slap-happy circlehead
  09/23/25
What's ur $$$$$ situation and geography? DESCRIBE ur terr...
Scarlet slippery center
  09/23/25
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beady-eyed mewling property
  09/23/25
"Don’t want to risk hookers" I've got som...
bonkers olive institution wagecucks
  09/23/25
There’s some pros on there for sure but there’s ...
Racy tank
  09/23/25
It is all literally sex for money.
bonkers olive institution wagecucks
  09/23/25
They're not hookers. They're just seeking Mutually Benefi...
aphrodisiac native
  09/23/25
Actual professional hookers seem less risky than this.
balding range
  09/23/25
How so?
Racy tank
  09/23/25
They're not going to do something dumb like call or text you...
balding range
  09/23/25
I’d rather deal with an amateur hooker than a professi...
Racy tank
  09/23/25
professional hookers are in business bcs they are profession...
Cerebral rusted mad cow disease
  09/23/25
…?
Racy tank
  09/23/25
Do not take advice from this poaster. He is dumb.
startling poppy kitchen
  09/23/25
I’m speaking from experience, are you?
Racy tank
  09/24/25
that's why you give them a burner number and not your real n...
aphrodisiac native
  09/23/25
Also this
Racy tank
  09/23/25
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fluffy pungent party of the first part
  09/23/25
What does this sentence mean: “ start autistically get...
Misunderstood Ruddy Telephone Codepig
  09/23/25
I think he means dedicate your life to hobbies or scholarshi...
Racy tank
  09/23/25
...
fluffy pungent party of the first part
  09/23/25
...
mind-boggling slap-happy circlehead
  09/23/25
The time required to match/vet and potential for headaches t...
startling poppy kitchen
  09/23/25
Or he can go to church and find a decent woman to date/marry
Trip bawdyhouse
  09/23/25
1) he says he doesn’t want to marry, 2) dating is very...
startling poppy kitchen
  09/24/25
You will be amazed at how often their cars break down, famil...
Haunting Hospital
  09/23/25
...
aphrodisiac native
  09/24/25
lol, sounds ghastly
bonkers olive institution wagecucks
  09/24/25
SA is a huge waste of time. Just hire hookers every now and ...
hairraiser national
  09/23/25
...
fluffy pungent party of the first part
  09/23/25
It is until you get caught in a sting.
aphrodisiac native
  09/24/25
There is no value in this. It died the same way dating apps...
chartreuse massive ticket booth pocket flask
  09/24/25
SA Poaster Here... I got into a more serious relationship...
Crystalline elite milk dragon
  10/21/25
What kind of PPM should I be looking at for high col city?
gold school blood rage
  10/21/25
WHITE MEN DONT PAY FOR SEX DURR DURR
180 point preventive strike
  11/02/25
Reminder: nyuug isn't a Korean citizen, only has US Passport...
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180 point preventive strike
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nyuug
  08/24/26
This is like the worst parts of dating plus still having to ...
gold school blood rage
  01/21/26
These women are nuts
gold school blood rage
  01/24/26
they also enjoy licking your nuts
aphrodisiac native
  06/17/26
why not just go hunting the Bumblesauruses?
Impressive seedy sanctuary
  06/08/26
cq
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Date: September 22nd, 2025 3:05 PM
Author: gold school blood rage

Don’t want to risk hookers and i eventually want to try dating again but it’s been too long with the wife.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49291749)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:48 AM
Author: beady-eyed mewling property

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49293910)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:50 AM
Author: beady-eyed mewling property

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49293939)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:40 PM
Author: beady-eyed mewling property

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49296549)



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Date: August 24th, 2026 5:25 PM
Author: nyuug

White men don't [pay for sex].

Date: April 20th, 2026 1:28 AM

Author: .,.,.,.,.,.,..,.,.,,.,.,..,>,...( )

http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858159&forum_id=2#49828609

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#50090138)



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Date: August 24th, 2026 5:36 PM
Author: nyuug

49ers owner is asian bro

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#50090193)



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Date: August 24th, 2026 6:02 PM
Author: nyuug



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#50090264)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 3:08 PM
Author: aphrodisiac native

I'm not sure you're gonna be able to command top dollar considering your:

- age;

- height;

- remaining hair

But give it a go!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49291759)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 3:17 PM
Author: gold school blood rage

If they can’t handle me at my worst they don’t deserve me at my best

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49291776)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 4:15 PM
Author: aphrodisiac native

Your refusal to state your height speaks volumes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49291944)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:00 AM
Author: gold school blood rage

6’2”

220 (terrible build)

Slight receding with a widows peak. I don’t look balding yet but I’ve got some worries.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49293643)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 4:15 PM
Author: Bronze turdskin

why did your wife leave you?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49291946)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:04 AM
Author: gold school blood rage

Wife had a mid life crisis. We married young but waited to have kids so I’m not sure what her problem is.

I work too much is part of it.

She didn’t cuck me before separation but I assume she has by now.

So I’m done.

Don’t really want another wife while my kids are young.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49293651)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 5:11 PM
Author: Zippy Dead Base

if you have a chance to bludgeon yourself retarded with rust caked pipes, do that over and over instead

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49292139)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 5:40 PM
Author: motley alcoholic gunner shrine

Grinder.com

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49292243)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:22 PM
Author: aphrodisiac native

I don't believe OP is gay, though

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49295397)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:18 AM
Author: Racy tank

There are some gems on SA if you’re willing to wade through the trash. Ideal would be to find a cute-ish 20-25 yo girl who will have sex for $500 a pop that you can see twice a month or so. There’s a lot of flakes, I suggest quickly moving conversation to “hey let’s meet up for a drink, are you free tonight?” to see if they are serious / interested or not.

Don’t talk about money / sex on the app, wait to meet up and feel things out in person. Hopefully you have a least a little game.

Also, get in shape.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49293677)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:20 AM
Author: Misunderstood Ruddy Telephone Codepig

Search for the seeking arrangement poaster’s threads. All the scholarship you need.

The short version is if you are moderately good looking you’ll do great. Tell them up front you are looking for pay per meet. You will undoubtedly have some kooky situations. Ultimately, you will grow tired of it and your soul will be diminished.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49293681)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:21 PM
Author: mind-boggling slap-happy circlehead

wow

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49296963)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:48 AM
Author: Scarlet slippery center

What's ur $$$$$ situation and geography?

DESCRIBE ur terrible physique and honestly rate ur facial aesthetics and genetic makeup

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49293908)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:48 AM
Author: beady-eyed mewling property

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49293911)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:16 PM
Author: bonkers olive institution wagecucks

"Don’t want to risk hookers"

I've got some bad news about SA

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49294299)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:54 PM
Author: Racy tank

There’s some pros on there for sure but there’s also some college girls looking for an allowance

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49294402)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 2:57 PM
Author: bonkers olive institution wagecucks

It is all literally sex for money.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49295292)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:23 PM
Author: aphrodisiac native

They're not hookers.

They're just seeking Mutually Beneficial arrangements, tee-hee

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49295402)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:57 PM
Author: balding range

Actual professional hookers seem less risky than this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49294413)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:59 PM
Author: Racy tank

How so?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49294425)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 1:18 PM
Author: balding range

They're not going to do something dumb like call or text you at the wrong time or go nuts on you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49294503)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:15 PM
Author: Racy tank

I’d rather deal with an amateur hooker than a professional one, the pros are more likely to be sketchy, have a criminal record, drug use, poverty, STDs, etc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49295355)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 4:23 PM
Author: Cerebral rusted mad cow disease

professional hookers are in business bcs they are professional, not on drugs, germ-free, take credit cards where as amateurs are all dirty druggies with std's they dont even know about, "oh that itch/rash/sore/fever, i thought it was cuz I havent showered in 5 days".

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49295517)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:25 PM
Author: Racy tank

…?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49296355)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:43 PM
Author: startling poppy kitchen

Do not take advice from this poaster. He is dumb.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49296572)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:09 AM
Author: Racy tank

I’m speaking from experience, are you?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49297045)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:23 PM
Author: aphrodisiac native

that's why you give them a burner number and not your real name.

Rookie

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49295406)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 4:13 PM
Author: Racy tank

Also this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49295494)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 1:00 PM
Author: fluffy pungent party of the first part



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49294429)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:14 PM
Author: Misunderstood Ruddy Telephone Codepig

What does this sentence mean: “ start autistically getting to a surrogate activity”

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49296185)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:26 PM
Author: Racy tank

I think he means dedicate your life to hobbies or scholarship instead of wasting time on women

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49296383)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:55 PM
Author: fluffy pungent party of the first part



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49296940)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:22 PM
Author: mind-boggling slap-happy circlehead



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49296966)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:39 PM
Author: startling poppy kitchen

The time required to match/vet and potential for headaches that can come from the fake dating with SA always seemed like a big negative to me. That single non-parent dude in CO who was lining them up 3 per night and poasted all those pics and sex diaries seemed like the right way to SA. Ie it’s a tool suited to single middle aged dudes with a lot of time to search for a daddy issues Cinderella. But for a single dad with young kids it seems awful. Requires time you don’t have and energy/stress you should spare yourself. If you want to fuck a hot chick, pay over $500/hr (usually $800 in a big city), get a burner, use a fake name, set up a fake LinkedIn and treat yourself to a high end escort every once in a while. No reason that would prevent you from dating later on or concurrently, in fact I’d argue it would improve your performance because you won’t depend on dating for sex, you’ll have more time and you will be more rational in your assessments of potential long term candidates.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49296544)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:16 PM
Author: Trip bawdyhouse

Or he can go to church and find a decent woman to date/marry

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49296958)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 3:24 AM
Author: startling poppy kitchen

1) he says he doesn’t want to marry, 2) dating is very hard as a single parent with little kids, 3) the only women at church who see a single dad wrangling two kids and think to themselves “ohh I wonder if he’s single or his wife just has a stomach bug” are 300+ lbs. You’re right that mongering is a soul-rotting practice, but he’s the rare dude where the soul rot is worth the trade for the convenient access to sex with a woman who is otherwise far too attractive for him to ever have a chance with.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49297191)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:47 PM
Author: Haunting Hospital

You will be amazed at how often their cars break down, family members/pets have costly medical emergencies, etc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49296638)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:51 AM
Author: aphrodisiac native



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49297113)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 2:08 PM
Author: bonkers olive institution wagecucks

lol, sounds ghastly

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49298625)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:07 PM
Author: hairraiser national

SA is a huge waste of time. Just hire hookers every now and then.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49296951)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:10 PM
Author: fluffy pungent party of the first part



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49296954)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:50 AM
Author: aphrodisiac native

It is until you get caught in a sting.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49297112)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:03 AM
Author: chartreuse massive ticket booth pocket flask

There is no value in this. It died the same way dating apps died. The hot chicks are on instagram and if they need extra cash post on onlyfans. The dude who posted here about SA posted a lot of 30s women. Why bother with that?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49297025)



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Date: October 21st, 2025 5:03 PM
Author: Crystalline elite milk dragon

SA Poaster Here...

I got into a more serious relationship with a chick I met off a dating app... We ended up having a bunch of mutual friends in common and went from there so I haven't been on SA in ages... I also started doing great on the apps (this takes a bit of time as the algo ranks you and can be frustrating/discouraging at first so be patient), so I got off SA completely.

However, for your situation I think it's fine, just use a google voice burner number and ideally don't take them to where you live until you've hooked up with them at least once and aren't getting any sketchy or crazy vibes. I only say that because you have kids. I met up with plenty of chicks straight at my house straight away, including late at night and it was fine but if I had kids I wouldn't do that.

If you search SA on here you'll get all my poasts which have quite a bit of scholarship on the matter. Ideally you find 1 or 2 you actually have some fun hanging out with who are great in bed and you just keep them on rotation whenever you're free.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49364680)



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Date: October 21st, 2025 5:44 PM
Author: gold school blood rage

What kind of PPM should I be looking at for high col city?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49364751)



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Date: November 2nd, 2025 7:21 PM
Author: 180 point preventive strike

WHITE MEN DONT PAY FOR SEX DURR DURR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49396314)



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Date: January 13th, 2026 6:54 PM
Author: 180 point preventive strike

Reminder: nyuug isn't a Korean citizen, only has US Passport

http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3466376&forum_id=2#32188261



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49587124)



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Date: January 13th, 2026 7:08 PM
Author: 180 point preventive strike



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49587194)



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Date: June 8th, 2026 12:38 AM
Author: 180 point preventive strike



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49921692)



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Date: June 8th, 2026 12:54 AM
Author: 180 point preventive strike



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49921779)



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Date: June 8th, 2026 8:00 PM
Author: 180 point preventive strike



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49923921)



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Date: June 14th, 2026 9:42 PM
Author: 180 point preventive strike



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49939211)



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Date: June 21st, 2026 5:38 PM
Author: 180 point preventive strike



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49953732)



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Date: June 21st, 2026 7:59 PM
Author: 180 point preventive strike



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49954031)



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Date: June 21st, 2026 11:39 PM
Author: 180 point preventive strike



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49954694)



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Date: June 22nd, 2026 7:30 PM
Author: 180 point preventive strike



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49956506)



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Date: August 24th, 2026 5:22 PM
Author: nyuug



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#50090126)



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Date: January 21st, 2026 5:33 PM
Author: gold school blood rage

This is like the worst parts of dating plus still having to pay.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49607174)



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Date: January 24th, 2026 9:40 AM
Author: gold school blood rage

These women are nuts

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49614072)



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Date: June 17th, 2026 2:03 PM
Author: aphrodisiac native

they also enjoy licking your nuts

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2.#49944475)



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Date: June 8th, 2026 5:55 AM
Author: Impressive seedy sanctuary

why not just go hunting the Bumblesauruses?

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Date: June 22nd, 2026 7:50 PM
Author: motley alcoholic gunner shrine

cq

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