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do you ever just "hang out" with friends?

when i was a teenager and in college i remember i was pretty...
Razzmatazz chest-beating heaven marketing idea
  01/22/19
BEEP BEEP BEEP
Boyish Tanning Salon Degenerate
  01/23/19
Yeah get used to that. I haven’t “hung out&rdquo...
Trip hall personal credit line
  01/23/19
Not any more. You aren’t a child. That part of your li...
histrionic dead station
  01/23/19
Go back to work lol
Electric Pearl Public Bath
  01/23/19
I have 1 friend left i ever see
thriller church building
  01/23/19
yeah but you make dozens of autists laugh everyday on a pres...
Razzmatazz chest-beating heaven marketing idea
  01/23/19
Mid 30s parentmo. I long for the days of just hanging out wi...
Lemon hideous university
  01/23/19
yeah im not into staring at and smelling peoples dirty socks...
zombie-like sandwich theater stage
  01/23/19
don't you spend hours virtually doing that on here every day...
Razzmatazz chest-beating heaven marketing idea
  01/23/19
its different here. its take it or leave it at any second. w...
zombie-like sandwich theater stage
  01/23/19
what prompted this thread was i went to get my first vape th...
Razzmatazz chest-beating heaven marketing idea
  01/23/19
why did you need your friend to accompany you to get a vape ...
shimmering comical garrison son of senegal
  01/23/19
yes. and i never bought one before so i wanted to bring some...
Razzmatazz chest-beating heaven marketing idea
  01/23/19
sort of.
Trip hall personal credit line
  01/23/19
You're talking to a board full of misanthropes who don't kno...
shimmering comical garrison son of senegal
  01/23/19
whats a healthy relationship? in your 30s i dont see if ur g...
zombie-like sandwich theater stage
  01/23/19
not sure what your second sentence means. what's a heal...
shimmering comical garrison son of senegal
  01/23/19
I've noticed one of my friends has shifted towards never wan...
shimmering comical garrison son of senegal
  01/23/19
Hey its actually cause your wife is weird
thriller church building
  01/23/19
actually, we're both single.
shimmering comical garrison son of senegal
  01/23/19
used to do this all the time into my mid-20s when I was a st...
bespoke heady dopamine national
  01/23/19
why did it flip? work?
shimmering comical garrison son of senegal
  01/23/19
probably some degree of dormant mental illness, which can co...
bespoke heady dopamine national
  01/23/19
weed turns a small but significant portion of the population...
excitant shitlib
  01/23/19
Yes. It's important to be able to do. And I say that as so...
Awkward racy library
  01/23/19
yeah man, this is what i'm worried about. although, a lot of...
Razzmatazz chest-beating heaven marketing idea
  01/23/19
I mean, within reason, right? You don't need to invite your...
Awkward racy library
  01/23/19
i do have these 1 on 1 type relationships with several frien...
Razzmatazz chest-beating heaven marketing idea
  01/23/19
Used to all the time, then everybody coupled up Xo fills th...
Crusty startling voyeur
  01/23/19
yeah, it's all I do, with my HS friends. not many nice place...
fluffy very tactful menage ratface
  01/23/19
Why not at someone's apt?
Lemon hideous university
  01/23/19
when ur at someones apartment after ur 25, ur either sucking...
zombie-like sandwich theater stage
  01/23/19
Doesn’t anyone, anymore, hangout all night ‘till...
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Date: January 22nd, 2019 11:59 PM
Author: Razzmatazz chest-beating heaven marketing idea

when i was a teenager and in college i remember i was pretty much always around a group of friends. didn't really matter if nothing was going on, i was always just surrounded by friends.

now i'm in my 30s and only really see people if it's for something specific. a party, event, whatever. however, some of my friends still just "hang out" a lot. like, they sit around for hours smoking weed and playing video games. they're always just around each other. when i join them, after about 1/2 an hour i start thinking "is this it? i'm going to watch x play mario kart?". usually i'll leave pretty quickly, and only join them if i have a reason to.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4184441&forum_id=2#37644929)



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Date: January 23rd, 2019 12:00 AM
Author: Boyish Tanning Salon Degenerate

BEEP BEEP BEEP

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4184441&forum_id=2#37644937)



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Date: January 23rd, 2019 8:14 AM
Author: Trip hall personal credit line

Yeah get used to that. I haven’t “hung out” since grad school. And even then we,d all fall asleep watching basketball.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4184441&forum_id=2#37645946)



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Date: January 23rd, 2019 12:00 AM
Author: histrionic dead station

Not any more. You aren’t a child. That part of your life is over.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4184441&forum_id=2#37644942)



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Date: January 23rd, 2019 12:02 AM
Author: Electric Pearl Public Bath

Go back to work lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4184441&forum_id=2#37644955)



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Date: January 23rd, 2019 12:04 AM
Author: thriller church building

I have 1 friend left i ever see

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4184441&forum_id=2#37644971)



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Date: January 23rd, 2019 12:05 AM
Author: Razzmatazz chest-beating heaven marketing idea

yeah but you make dozens of autists laugh everyday on a prestigious chatblog. so, those friend havers are the real losers.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4184441&forum_id=2#37644975)



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Date: January 23rd, 2019 12:07 AM
Author: Lemon hideous university

Mid 30s parentmo. I long for the days of just hanging out with friends doing nothing

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4184441&forum_id=2#37644984)



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Date: January 23rd, 2019 12:08 AM
Author: zombie-like sandwich theater stage

yeah im not into staring at and smelling peoples dirty socks as we sit on the floor and play video games and occasionally make stupid jokes about dicks, sex, or niggers.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4184441&forum_id=2#37644991)



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Date: January 23rd, 2019 12:09 AM
Author: Razzmatazz chest-beating heaven marketing idea

don't you spend hours virtually doing that on here every day?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4184441&forum_id=2#37645003)



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Date: January 23rd, 2019 12:10 AM
Author: zombie-like sandwich theater stage

its different here. its take it or leave it at any second. with real life friends situation you are stuck there even as your head starts hurting.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4184441&forum_id=2#37645013)



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Date: January 23rd, 2019 12:16 AM
Author: Razzmatazz chest-beating heaven marketing idea

what prompted this thread was i went to get my first vape thing in an effort to quit smoking at some shitty vape shop. a friend of mine knows the owner, so i meet him there. fast-forward to them just hanging out bullshitting for over an hour at the stores vape lounge or w/e, talking about recent netflix shows. at the first lull in the conversation immediately and awkwardly just said "ok, gotta go, bye".

i often quickly and without warning exit social situations. it's probably the most autistic thing that i do.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4184441&forum_id=2#37645063)



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Date: January 23rd, 2019 12:26 AM
Author: shimmering comical garrison son of senegal

why did you need your friend to accompany you to get a vape pen? did he hook you up with a deal?



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4184441&forum_id=2#37645110)



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Date: January 23rd, 2019 12:27 AM
Author: Razzmatazz chest-beating heaven marketing idea

yes. and i never bought one before so i wanted to bring someone i trust. plus it's always good to cultivate RELATIONSHIPS, now i'm a friend of the store owner.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4184441&forum_id=2#37645121)



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Date: January 23rd, 2019 9:54 AM
Author: Trip hall personal credit line

sort of.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4184441&forum_id=2#37646251)



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Date: January 23rd, 2019 12:13 AM
Author: shimmering comical garrison son of senegal

You're talking to a board full of misanthropes who don't know how to manage or form healthy relationship

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4184441&forum_id=2#37645039)



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Date: January 23rd, 2019 12:14 AM
Author: zombie-like sandwich theater stage

whats a healthy relationship? in your 30s i dont see if ur getting invited to parties and events that ur not in a healthy relationship. ppl care about u and cultivate a relationship with u.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4184441&forum_id=2#37645052)



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Date: January 23rd, 2019 12:24 AM
Author: shimmering comical garrison son of senegal

not sure what your second sentence means.

what's a healthy relationship? you could easily google it. i don't have an exact definition. i think the part i was focusing on was the inability to form meaningful relationships. i wouldn't be surprised if a lot of poasters here have a hard time with this because they're too self-centered, egotistical, or disagreeable.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4184441&forum_id=2#37645102)



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Date: January 23rd, 2019 12:16 AM
Author: shimmering comical garrison son of senegal

I've noticed one of my friends has shifted towards never wanting to hang out unless it's for a reason. He seems depressed and has become a shit friend. He also has no friends anymore as I was one of his last but got tired of putting in the work.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4184441&forum_id=2#37645065)



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Date: January 23rd, 2019 12:24 AM
Author: thriller church building

Hey its actually cause your wife is weird

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4184441&forum_id=2#37645103)



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Date: January 23rd, 2019 12:27 AM
Author: shimmering comical garrison son of senegal

actually, we're both single.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4184441&forum_id=2#37645115)



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Date: January 23rd, 2019 12:27 AM
Author: bespoke heady dopamine national

used to do this all the time into my mid-20s when I was a stoner. Had a big group of hardcore stoner friends and we would chill at each other's places to smoke and watch tv on an almost daily basis. It was 180. Then weed totally flipped into a panic-inducing psychotic thing for me and I had to give it up and lost most of those friends.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4184441&forum_id=2#37645125)



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Date: January 23rd, 2019 12:34 AM
Author: shimmering comical garrison son of senegal

why did it flip? work?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4184441&forum_id=2#37645166)



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Date: January 23rd, 2019 12:38 AM
Author: bespoke heady dopamine national

probably some degree of dormant mental illness, which can commonly come out of nowhere in mid-20s. Idk I smoked every day, multiple times a day, from about junior year of college until then, and never seemed to have an issue. In fact, it made me MORE chill. Then I got a WFH job and started smoking virtually all day, and it eventually spiraled into an actual manic episode. Took a couple years off, tried it again a couple years ago, full blown panic. Could be that I was only smoking heavy sativa strains, but I'm too pussy to try again.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4184441&forum_id=2#37645195)



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Date: January 23rd, 2019 8:21 AM
Author: excitant shitlib

weed turns a small but significant portion of the population into literal psychos. but we act like it's a harmless, fun thing with zero negative effects.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4184441&forum_id=2#37645958)



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Date: January 23rd, 2019 12:28 AM
Author: Awkward racy library

Yes. It's important to be able to do. And I say that as someone who doesn't leave a lot of time in his schedule for socializing. If all of your socializing is goal-oriented, you're going to lose a critical piece of what it means to have friends.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4184441&forum_id=2#37645132)



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Date: January 23rd, 2019 12:30 AM
Author: Razzmatazz chest-beating heaven marketing idea

yeah man, this is what i'm worried about. although, a lot of time the "goal" i just to attend a party, watch a football, etc.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4184441&forum_id=2#37645142)



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Date: January 23rd, 2019 12:32 AM
Author: Awkward racy library

I mean, within reason, right? You don't need to invite your best friend John over to sit in an empty room together starting across the abyss at each other, because that would be WEIRD. But it's important to have those down times and quiet times where you're together and not moving toward something specific. If they're a real close friend. I've found there are some friends I have whom I definitely don't want that experience with. That tells me more about who those friends are in relation to me (not the greatest) than anything else.

Just do it. Just go for a walk with a good friend. Or go stargazing together. Grab a beer and talk.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4184441&forum_id=2#37645151)



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Date: January 23rd, 2019 12:36 AM
Author: Razzmatazz chest-beating heaven marketing idea

i do have these 1 on 1 type relationships with several friends. one is redoing his house which is close to mine, and i'll usually go over and have a beer w/ him if he's working on the weekend. but, i won't stay for more than an hour. "hang outs" used to mean just hanging around all day together. i could never do that.

stargazing or going on a walk seems really gay though.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4184441&forum_id=2#37645177)



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Date: January 23rd, 2019 2:47 AM
Author: Crusty startling voyeur

Used to all the time, then everybody coupled up

Xo fills the void now, frankly. It's sad.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4184441&forum_id=2#37645616)



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Date: January 23rd, 2019 2:49 AM
Author: fluffy very tactful menage ratface

yeah, it's all I do, with my HS friends. not many nice places to chill in nyc, esp when it's subzero. when the weather's nice, bryant park.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4184441&forum_id=2#37645619)



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Date: January 23rd, 2019 3:23 AM
Author: Lemon hideous university

Why not at someone's apt?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4184441&forum_id=2#37645653)



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Date: January 23rd, 2019 3:28 AM
Author: zombie-like sandwich theater stage

when ur at someones apartment after ur 25, ur either sucking dick or getting dick sucked.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4184441&forum_id=2#37645658)



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Date: January 23rd, 2019 10:37 PM
Author: sooty multi-colored space

Doesn’t anyone, anymore, hangout all night ‘till the sun rises?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4184441&forum_id=2#37651162)